My favorability towards this leader seems to be on a straight upward trend. I didn't even think about that.

He once chatted with me and said that his son was the same age as me, and I laughed with a snort, and choked with an undisguised laugh. He raised his eyebrows slightly and asked me, "Isn't this normal?" So funny? ”

I covered my stomach with my hands: "No, no, I just think that in the future, outside the company, I should call you uncle!" "That's right, since then, I do call him Uncle mischievously when no one is around, and has a funnier name, Uncle Elm.

The reason why it is called Elm is because he and I may be because of the age gap, his reflex arc is very long, and every time he jokes, it takes him a long time to react. There was even a time when he was alone the next day giggling.

He is different from some middle-aged successful men I know, old-fashioned, greasy, stereotyped, and dogmatic. He is very humorous and funny, and with him, not only the working atmosphere is relaxed, but even the time outside of work is unrestrained.

His heart is very delicate, and this kind of carefulness can be integrated into every bit of my work. Slowly, it seeped into life. His care and care for me gradually went beyond my superiors and subordinates, and even between my friends. But I didn't refuse.

The reason for not refusing is very simple, that kind of warmth, which I have never felt. That kind of meticulousness, like a lover, more like a father.

I never want to admit that the first person I fell in love with because of the lack of father's love in childhood was a middle-aged married woman. However, reality can't deceive people, the kind of things hidden in the eyes of people who have a good impression of each other and rejoice each other can't deceive people.

While writing this paragraph, a friend asked me, why did you omit so much of the process of falling in love with someone?

When she asked me, I kept looking out the window. In people's memories, there is always a kind of sweetness mixed with sadness, and my time, in the ending, is insignificant. I am not a person who wants so-called results, from the moment I fell in love with him, I clearly knew that this memory was destined to be with tears. Uncle Yumu, loved, is enough.

Within two months, I was resigning. The reason is that Uncle Yumu bought me a house in the development zone on the edge of the city.

I never spoke to him about my family, nor did I show the superiority of my material condition. After getting used to seeing the life and death of the Cao family, I understand that although money cannot explain some social problems based on the normal three views, it can be used as a touchstone for love. It's just that, after coming and going, I tried myself to get in.

Uncle Elm would spend a lot of money on me, and he spoiled me like his own child. That kind of meticulous care made me lose my way in an instant in the gentle harbor.

In a mature person, there will be mature experience and courage, and he will consider the problem from the other party's standpoint, which is simply heaven and earth compared to Song Zitian. I would talk to him about his wife without being shy about it. He told me that his wife was very good, family-oriented, intelligent, and would handle the affairs of the family in an orderly manner, and that thanks to her, he was able to devote almost all of his experience to his career.

I still remember that one time, when he commented on his wife to me like this, I pretended to be jealous: "Your wife is so good, why are you trying to provoke me?" Aren't you contradicting yourself? "But Uncle Elm's answer to me is the same as the human nature I have dissected.

"There is no way," he said. People have a certain longing for beautiful things, especially in the period of emotional exhaustion and dullness, you will feel as if you have lost the ability to love others, so you become depressed, and even world-weary. Then, when you suddenly come into contact with something different from what you know or someone who stimulates your senses, you will suddenly become obsessed with it! It's just that people tend to forget that interest and impulse are human instincts, and instinct cannot be supported by emotions. Instinct always comes from the superficial surface, but love is the truth behind the surface. What is love? Love is a handful of soil on the ground, it always has to go through the baptism of wind, frost, rain and snow, whether it is the mountains and flowers or the snow, you will find that it is always not good-looking, but it has any weight that can not be replaced! ”

"Then I, am I a substitute for your window period?" I asked mischievously.

"I don't know." His answer surprised me. Under normal circumstances, when a man at this time hears his lover's coquettish question, he should be coaxed and deceived. Even if it's a lie, women love to hear it.

It's just that Uncle Elm always does the opposite. It is precisely his true words that make me feel a little more for him.

However, I also did another thing that surprised everyone, that is, in the Cao family, I did not hide the fact that I was in love, and reported it to everyone like a speech.

At that time, a table of people was eating. Cao Ge suddenly scared the bowl in his hand: "Mu Xi, you're crazy!" No, it's not good for you to find someone, you find a married woman? It's the same age as your dad! You don't look for so many good guys out there, you look for an old man? You're sick! ”

"Old man? You say Uncle Elm is an old man? Hahaha, sister-in-law, you're too funny! He's a little older, but he's not old at all! ”

"Not old, Cao Muxi, that's a person who can be your father! You tell your sister-in-law what you like about him. You tell me, and we'll find it for you. Cao Ge was very nervous because of this.

"Like him, mature, humorous, funny, careful, and takes good care of me. Eh, sister-in-law, he treats me as much as he treats his daughter. As soon as I finished speaking, my father slammed the chopsticks in his hand on the table beside me.

"Daughter? You lack a father! ”

"Yes, I don't have a dad!" I slammed my head back and looked into my father's angry eyes. Yes, when it comes to fatherly love, the whole family does not speak again. In this word, the Cao family knows that they owe it to me.

I saw that my father's eyes were a little red, he stared at me for a while, slowly turned his head, gently put down his chopsticks, stood up and went upstairs.

I saw Cao Ge's hand holding the chopsticks again trembling slightly, and then the dish stuffed into his mouth was also chewing slowly. Then I saw two tears fall in the bowl in front of her. And I, on the other hand, turned a blind eye to all of this.

For me, I'm just expounding my thoughts and feelings, no artificiality, no exaggeration, that's all.

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