Section 138: Psychological Strategic Deployment
Cao Ge looked at the back of his grandmother going upstairs and stared at the ground for a while. There was too much helplessness in that look, a kind of helplessness that bordered on despair.
Yes, Cao Ge no longer pins any hope on her grandmother, this old man, except for those exaggerated faces, she cares about, and the joys, sorrows, and sorrows under other masks have nothing to do with her. Take my father's matter as an example, when she was reported for the first time, my grandmother was very nervous, although it didn't matter what she said about the director or not, but from the urgency of her urging Cao Qi to do things, it was enough to show that behind this inconsistency, she actually wanted to take the right to be relied on by thousands of people in the outside world.
At that time, even without his father's consent, he privately agreed that Cao Qi would transfer him to a unit so that he could try to leave an official position and a good reputation in the officialdom. As a result, after being stabbed in the hornet's nest this time, she knew in her heart that things outside the family were no longer enough for her to put all her thoughts on this unsuccessful son, so she simply chose to give up. She knew that her words in the Cao family were so light, and she didn't have the opportunity to talk about her father's work, so she could only cover her ears and steal the bell.
Grandma's approach, in the eyes of others, is quite joyful. Especially like the cold before the onset of winter, too many hot-blooded creatures need to routinely do a useless struggle before the blood clotted from the outside world.
Of course, no one is absolute whether they are good or bad. Grandma's godson is wrong, her preference and doting on her two sons are also wrong, she chose to avoid talking about the private life of the Cao family that is wrong on top of wrong, and her indifference to Cao Ge is the sentence of the death penalty for Cao Ge's family. However, just as she said when she quarreled with Grandma Li yesterday, she is alone with three children, after all, she is still an official family, and this kind of "work" that requires super management skills and an extremely strong heart is really not something that can be taken naturally by being the wife of a high-ranking official.
Sometimes people need to have talent to follow some things, which is called innate capital. This kind of capital, under the premise of not having it, you can learn it, but it is too difficult, and the results are mostly not ideal.
Grandma is a living example of this.
I sat alone at the dining table, fingers pinching. I looked down and thought, after the East Window incident, I used to think that Aunt Qin'er's wordlessness created Cao Cancan's emotional venting, and this point is me, so if I am really kicked out of Cao's house one day, it must be Aunt Qin'er or Cao Cancan's doing. As a result, I never expected that this Cao family, the first person to expose the "illegitimate child" problem to the sun, was actually a grandmother, and the attitude was not friendly and kind. This made me very puzzled at the time, it was she who acquiesced to me entering the Cao family in this capacity, and she was the one who didn't let me swagger through the market, isn't it a contradiction?
Later, I understood. I was young at the time and didn't think much about it, but, suddenly, I understood why I was pulled in and was going to push me out, because, face.
The face of the Cao family is closely related to the personal face of the grandmother and her ability to manage the Cao family. When Grandma Li arrived, her words touched the bottom line of grandma's weakness, and grandma knew that the root of this rumor and rumors that made her lose face was my existence.
For example, if my father is simply good with my mother, but without me, then it is a quantitative change. My appearance has changed the essence of things into a qualitative change. Once a qualitative change is formed and occurs, it is an irreversible outcome.
It's just a pity that I am a person, a living person, and a person who will grow bigger and bigger, hidden, impossible.
Cao Ge patted Cancan and whispered if she wanted to sleep for a while, when Xue Hao suddenly came in from outside the door.
Xue Hao changed his shoes while cautiously observing the atmosphere of the Cao family. He saw that in addition to Cao Ge's expression, in addition to sadness, there seemed to be some residual anger on his face, and he asked in a low voice, "What's wrong?" ”
Cao Ge raised his eyelids: "Didn't you meet Aunt Li and Cui Yu who just went out?" ”
Xue Hao stretched his neck to look out of the door and shook his head: "No!" Cui Yu is back? ”
Cao Ge snorted.
"Come back, you don't need this expression!"
"It's not because of him, it's Aunt Li! Hey, she came and quarreled with my mom again. The quarrel makes my head hurt, you say these two people, it's like having a grudge in the previous life! Cao Ge said sadly.
"Normal. was already unconvinced by each other, who asked Cui Yu to chase you back then, but that kid is in his thirties, and he is still waiting for you, he is just such a son, see if your family can still be angry? ”
Cao Ge glared at Xue Hao: "Don't talk nonsense. Wait for me, I don't know how many girlfriends I've talked about outside. It's a nice thing to say, and I love one person. Hehe, look at my second brother, you will understand. ”
Xue Hao coughed and gestured with his eyes to Cao Cancan, who was sitting next to Cao Ge, intending to tell her not to talk nonsense in front of the child, and Cao Ge reacted to his gaffe. However, Cao Cancan didn't seem to hear it, and there was no reaction during the whole process. The two of them were embarrassed for a while and hurriedly changed the subject.
"Eh, what has my eldest brother been busy with lately? Why are you still not at home? I don't think I saw anyone in three days! ”
"Cao Qi, I don't know. But..."Xue Hao was halfway through his words, and then he dragged a long tail note.
"But what?"
"However, I heard that sister-in-law Zhang Jing has been involved in your eldest brother's work recently, but as a result, she has done bad things with good intentions. As for that Zi Yunfei, she helped Cao Qi get the secondment procedures, originally thought that this secondment was seconded, and it was basically logical to settle down, but Zhang Jing intervened, and the matter was yellow. Huang didn't say anything, I heard that the first two big leaders were not happy. Ay! Xue Hao lowered his voice and said to Cao Ge mysteriously.
"Zhang Jing? Don't say it, after the last time my eldest brother was mad at home, she seemed to be a different person, and she was basically at home during the day before, and now she basically can't see her. However, now that something is wrong at home, no one has the heart to ask her what she is doing. Oh~~ As soon as you say that, then I understand. Cao Ge said at the end and nodded to himself.
"What do you understand?"
"I guess, my sister-in-law doesn't want to divorce, but she can't get Ziyunfei away, so she wants to become the second her, and as a result, it's self-defeating."
"That's how it should be. Hey, let me remind you, be mentally prepared, I always feel that if Zhang Jing continues to toss like this, the grenade between her and your eldest brother is about to explode. ”
"Remind me~ If this is before, maybe I can still wait to see a good show, let alone fanning the flames. Now, be at ease! When Cao Ge said this, he let out a long sigh. It can be heard that she is helpless about the Cao family's successive thunderbolt self-immolation incidents, but also has a foreknowledge.
She is not wrong at all, the Cao family is like a military camp, and everyone in it has the ability to resist the enemy tenaciously and fight against their strong inner endurance. Aunt Qin is not an exception, she just charged into battle first, and learned about the situation of the enemy army for the "comrades-in-arms" behind her, so as to make a good military strategic deployment.
Who are the enemy troops? In the face of the collapse of the sky, the optimistic mentality and the useless realist assertion of the Cao family to set an example.
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