To understand a person, you must understand two things, the first is to see what the person reads, and the second is to see what friends the person makes. So a person's way of making friends often reflects the person's values. Let's take a look at how people from all three social classes choose their friends.

Grassroots society has similar interests.

The way to make friends in grassroots society is "like-minded", if they really have taste, it's okay, but most grassroots society is some low-level fun, they are either talking about women together, or talking about the peach news of a certain star together, which is meaningless. This is also the most important reason why the grassroots society can't make friends with the upper class, because people who are slightly self-motivated avoid such people.

The middle class climbs the dragon and attaches the phoenix.

Compared with the grassroots society, the middle class society has a higher way of making friends, they will have a purposeful way of making friends, they will ponder each other's interests and hobbies, so that they can quickly read such books according to each other's hobbies, and now learn and sell. Therefore, most of the people in the middle class are vassal, elegant, and flashy. But we will see a phenomenon: no matter how hard the middle society tries, it will not be able to make friends with the higher society, the reason is that the people of the middle class take the individual as the starting point everywhere, there is no pattern of inclusiveness, let alone high-level conversation, this is the inner quality, no matter how much the appearance can not pretend, and it will appear very hypocritical.

The high-level society is full of friends.

In fact, people in the high-level society are not as difficult to make friends as people think, and the principle of making friends in the high-level society is very simple: be self-motivated and honest. However, people in the grassroots society are not self-motivated, and people in the middle society are hypocritical, so it is not that the high-level society does not make friends with them, but that those people cannot be friends at all.

There is also an important kind of friend in the upper society, which does not necessarily have to meet or be in the same time and space. In addition to communicating with friends in reality, the high-level society pays more attention to "divine friendship", they can be friends with Zhuge Liang in ancient times, and they can be friends with Emperor Qin and Han Wu, so there is a saying called "Reading his books is like watching his heart." "The high-level society is to read the books of the sages and make friends with them, and the same book can be read several times, and even read all the time, but every time you read it there is a different understanding, although the ancient sages have quietly passed away, but the wisdom in the book is left to future generations, so that they can communicate with the world, every time they encounter a problem, they can always find the answer from their books, every doubt, can always suddenly understand from his book, so the people of the high-level society can make the eternal distance into a heart through the understanding of the heart. The next decision in the high-level society can be what Zhuge Liang told him, and his next plan can also be reminded by Han Xin, so their pattern is always so big, and their strategy is always so far. Therefore, there is no time and space limit for high-level society to make friends, and a table, chair and book are enough to make friends all over the world and dominate the world.