In fact, many things are not done by the three social strata, but subconsciously. But often subconscious actions can best reflect a person's heart, but when you do too many subconscious things, it becomes a habit of doing things. And what are the differences in the habits of doing things at the three levels of society?

Grassroots society pulls people back.

In fact, people in the grassroots society also have dreams, but they are very unconfident and do not have the courage to compete fairly in society, and their long-term inferiority complex makes them not believe that they can do it. So the way they get rich becomes a whimsical lottery to get rich, and the robber logic is exceptional. And the reason why it is difficult for grassroots society to succeed is that they do not exalt each other, but belittle each other. Because they can only find a little bit of pitiful self-esteem when they bully someone who is weaker than themselves. Here I will give you an example: "Standing wood for faith" in the Shang Dynasty reform. Everyone can see the style of doing things in the grassroots society by watching the changes of the crowd during the Shang Yang reform. In order to establish the credibility of the law, Shang Ying used the method of "standing wood for faith", that is, he set up a piece of wood at the south gate of the national capital, and told everyone that whoever can carry the wood to the north gate can receive a bounty, called "standing wood for the letter", the onlookers did not think so, because of the long-term oppression they were very distrustful of the official, it is this kind of habitual thinking that causes them not to believe that there are trustworthy officials in the world, let alone believe that these officials will give them the opportunity to make a fortune. But there is really one person in the crowd who stands up to try, because this person's relatives are sick and urgently need money, and he has no way out, so he can only stand up and try his luck. So this person was ridiculed by everyone, and when the person who dared to try carried the wood and marched, the masses in the grassroots society were unbalanced, they did not want to see others succeed, so they tried every means to obstruct the person who carried the wood, at this time they changed from ridicule to obstruction, and some simply lay down in front of the person to stop the person from advancing, but when the person who dared to try really overcame the difficulties and finally reached the end, and received the bounty, the onlookers were jealous for a long time, and the rest was only regret. The grassroots society almost follows this law for the entrepreneurship and success of the people around them: from ridicule to disdain, from disdain to obstruction, from obstruction to jealousy, from jealousy to helplessness, from helplessness to complaining, from complaining to resigning, from resigning to not changing, this is called a vicious circle. Therefore, the grassroots society can't make a friend who can help them, so they can only stay in the grassroots society honestly for the rest of their lives, which is their sadness.

The middle class of society becomes its own use.

In fact, everyone has jealousy, but the reaction of the middle society will not be as explicit as the grassroots society, in fact, it is not so much that the middle society is jealous of others, but that the middle society wants to take advantage of others, and the middle society sometimes reacts on the contrary, when he sees that someone he knows can succeed, and when he succeeds and will be used by himself in turn, they will try their best to contribute to the success of that person. Of course, if he thinks that someone's success is bad for him, they will also do the wrong thing. The grassroots society does things completely according to its own likes and dislikes, while the starting point of the middle society is to center on its own interests, so the middle society is much more rational than the grassroots society.

High Society, Adult Beauty.

Speaking of high-level society, I will first give you a case: the Hu Xueyan phenomenon. Hu Xueyan is also a part-time worker, but he can always meet a good boss, he works in a store, when a bigger boss wants Hu Xueyan to work with him, the current boss can always let Hu Xueyan go, this is called "adult beauty", which is a virtue. After Hu Xueyan achieved great success, he took good care of his former boss, which is the style of doing things in the high-level society. In fact, with Hu Xueyan's ambition and talent, he will not live under the people for a long time, if Hu Xueyan's previous boss forcibly does not let Hu Xueyan go for his own interests, Hu Xueyan will eventually leave, but in the future, Hu Xueyan will succeed and will not treat the original boss like a benefactor. Hu Xueyan does not belong to a certain person, but belongs to the whole society, rather than let Hu Xueyan create profits for you in your small shop, it is better to give Hu Xueyan a broader world, so that Hu Xueyan can make more contributions to the society and the country, so Hu Xueyan's boss not only understands the righteousness, but also has a very pattern, which is not only conducive to the development of his future career, but also achieves a good story of "adult beauty", which is widely praised and inspired by the world.

Cao Cao also did the "beauty of adults", Cao Cao's captured generals after the Battle of Guandu had a man called Ju Pei, he would rather die than surrender, and proposed to Cao Cao to be buried facing north after being executed, in order to be worthy of the ancestors. Cao Cao readily agreed. It's all about "adult beauty". The beauty of adults is something to be done in the high-level society, as long as a person is patriotic, righteous, and filial. Even if he is our enemy, we must respect him. Adult beauty is not just a virtue, but a pattern. The purpose of war is to stop war with war, and the purpose of business war is to promote prosperity, so "adult beauty" is to convince people with virtue and uphold justice. Therefore, such a person can become a leader in all walks of life, and it is also a well-deserved high-level society.