29. Not only does he turn a blind eye to the world, but he also goes along with it

When we are young, life is a shield, we are a spear, we think we are hard, so we always love to run at it with edges and corners to see what is hidden behind it. But at that time, life forgave us for our youth, so it didn't care about us. And when we grew up, when we walked out of the campus and adolescence, we found that the true face of life is a spear, constantly impacting us, hard and cold, so we can only turn ourselves into a shield, and no matter how painful it is, we have to smooth out the edges and corners.

Su Guo packed a bowl of white porridge in "Old Shengchang" and added two pickles. Drive all the way to XX foreign trade company.

Ye Chenxi received a call from the doorman saying that someone was looking for him, and went downstairs and went out of the elevator to see Su Guo hanging in the lobby.

"Su Guo, why are you here?"

Su Guo handed the things in his hand to Xiao Ye, "Qin Yao is sick, you bring these to him." ”

Xiao Ye looked through it twice, there was packaged porridge, and there was medicine.

"Why don't you send it yourself?"

"I can't send it."

"He even told you that he was sick, and he didn't feel that it was inappropriate, so it was appropriate for you to send a medicine!"

"You're his girlfriend, and it's okay for me to get sick."

"It doesn't matter, what porridge do you buy, what medicine do you give?" Xiao Ye sneered, "Besides, as an ex-girlfriend, you should have more experience in taking care of Qin Yao than me, right?" ”

"If you don't want to give it away, you can lose it." Su Guo was not interested in fighting with Xiao Ye.

"Su Guo, wait-" Xiao Ye chased out, "I really don't have time to send it, I haven't finished a lot of work today......"

Su Guo didn't even look back, "Then you throw it away!" ”

Su Guo received a strange call before he walked out of the door of the business building, and he thought it was a customer, so he picked up the phone and reacted.

OMG, the young talent she has forgotten!

Su Guo glanced at the time, and it was more than half an hour late from the agreed meeting time in the text message......

Su Guo walked all the way out and explained to the other party, "I'm sorry, yes, yes, it's my negligence, I'll come over right away......"

The young talent asked her to meet at "Avoiding Cloud Pond", a Hong Kong-style tea restaurant.

"Mr. Xu, I'm really sorry, just about to go out, a customer came......"

"It's nothing, just wait for more than an hour." Su Guo's blind date pushed the menu in his hand in front of Su Guo.

"Did you order it?" Su Guo was at a loss, so he didn't care about the yin and yang in the other party's tone, "What do you like to eat?" ”

"Whatever."

"Okay, then I'll order a few specials." When I ordered the food in a hurry and took out the card to pay, the other party had no opinion.

Su Guo felt that he didn't refuse first, causing people to wait for more than an hour, and it was natural for him to invite this meal. Although this Mr. Xu did not come to inquire about his time arrangement in advance, but decided the time and place of the meeting by himself, Su Guo was not sure if the arrangement this time also had her mother's intention in it, and they just followed the agreement.

"I heard that Miss Su works in a bank?"

"Yes, mixed food. Mr. Xu ...... in XX Company"

"Marketing Manager."

"The marketing manager of XX company, yes, yes, very good."

From the text message sent by the other party before, I learned that the name of this blind date is Xu Jun, who is seven years older than Su Guo and works as a marketing manager in an e-commerce company. Su Guo has never heard the name of this XX company, and various companies have been lined up one after another in recent years, and I don't know how many have popped up and fallen silent for a while.

This Mr. Xu Jun is of moderate stature, neither fat nor thin, because he can't see his height when he sits. He doesn't look ugly, and of course he won't stand out, otherwise he wouldn't be thirty-seven or eighteen years old as a "marketing manager", and his family would arrange a blind date.

Anyway, it's just an ordinary person who throws people and you definitely can't pick out. Decent and ordinary.

Just like Lao Liu said, marry an ordinary man, find a job to make ends meet, and have a child to prevent old age. Live an ordinary life, without ups and downs of the plot, and without bloody sensationalism.

Su Guo commented on Lao Liu's point of view at that time - one word "vulgar".

Lao Liu sneered: The smartest way to deal with the world is to not only turn a blank eye on the world, but also go along with it.

Su Guo is now in the same stream as the world, forced by his parents to sit on a blind date with a man who was a stranger a second ago, chatting with each other about marriage, maybe the future of the two of them will have a result in this meal.

"Is Miss Su usually busy?"

"The end of the quarter and the end of the year are busy, so it's okay usually."

At first, the two didn't talk much, chatting about work or two, but then the food was served on the table, and the conversation began to go deeper. This Mr. Xu Jun, no wonder he is from the marketing department, can indeed speak well, from work all the way to talk, talk about academic qualifications, talk about colleagues and friends, and the current situation of society...... Su Guo felt that he couldn't say anything at all, so he could only respond to Mr. Xu's opinion while eating.

"I think it's better to be busy with work, because it's not easy to have unrealistic ideas when you're busy with work. Now the little girl has too many ideas, one moment like this, the other and the other. Someone introduced me to a little girl before, very young, very young, just graduated from college, the key is also beautiful, they said that she has been the school flower in school since she was a child. ”

Su Guo was gnawing on the pigeon, and with a clatter, he bit the pigeon's hind leg bones.

"You said that the little girl just graduated from college, although she is young and beautiful, then you can't use these as capital, and her eyes are on the top of her head to pick a man, right? He also said that he originally planned to get married as soon as he graduated, and he would not go out to work, and he would rely on men for the rest of his life! Tell me, who is not a dual-income worker these days? Relying on men alone, how can the expenses of the elderly and children be borne by this housing loan and car loan? ”

"With your salary, you should be able to afford it, right?"

"Of course I can! I'm talking about the girl's mentality, this kind of young girl's mentality is not good, she wants to get something for nothing, relying on her young and beautiful capital, and she is not willing to pay at all. Men looking for this kind of little girl are also unlucky. ”

Su Guo: I guess other girls don't like you! Young and beautiful is capital, and ugly talents without backstage need to work hard......

"So, I thought about it later. It's still a little older and more reliable. ”

Su Guo: "......"

"You have to have a certain economic foundation of your own, preferably a house and a car, and a little savings." Xu Jun glanced at Su Guo and picked up the tea in front of him, "Miss Su has worked for so many years, she must have a house and a car, right?" ”

"The house, the car, yes." Su Guo replied without hesitation, seeing the happy expression on the other party's face after hearing his answer, he sneered in his heart, "But the house is rented, and the car is a second-hand broken car." ”

The look of joy on Xu Jun's face had not completely faded, and his expression was stiff.

"Mr. Xu, eat, there are so many dishes!"

"Miss Su, do you have a good appetite!" Xu Jun's tone was no longer as polite as before, and he changed to a condescending and somewhat contemptuous attitude, "Miss Su is almost thirty, right?" Why do you stay single? Is it also picky, you can't look down on those who don't have money, you can't climb high, and only now is left? ”

Many girls fantasize about marrying a man who treats them as treasures from an early age: he will tolerate my little faults, be considerate of my inconsiderateness, he can take care of me, he can spoil me, as if I am his little pet. He can drive away my occasional bad mood, he can sleep with me, make me a pillow, and don't think I'm cold all day long, and he doesn't think I'm hot in summer.

But the truth is, such a man does not exist at all, and even if he exists, it has nothing to do with you. You can only sit in front of a so-called "elite" in the mouth of your parents, and listen to him accuse the current girls of being too materialistic and realistic, and there is no trace of the virtuous and virtuous ladies who used to be able to go to the kitchen and the hall. Don't want to work? Don't have a house or a car? Then why did you come out on a blind date!

"I was forced to go out on a blind date alone, isn't Mr. Xu?" Su Guo has already practiced the skill of smiling without smiling in the workplace over the years, "Mr. Xu is not the first blind date, right?" Why didn't you find a suitable one? No matter how beautiful and young you are, you should be able to win it according to your conditions, so where are you ......?"

Su Guo had something to say, and he returned the scolding to him in four or two pounds.

What Su Guo means, you have always said that girls are material and realistic, but there are always people who don't love money and love you, right? You're almost forty years old and unmarried, and you came here to go on a blind date with me, could it be that there is some physical or psychological defect?

Xu Jun listened to Su Guo's words, his face was a little ugly, and he didn't eat anymore, he hugged his hands to his chest and looked at Su Guo with a hint of mockery at the corner of his mouth.

"What do you mean?"

"I'm not interesting."

"If they hadn't said that you worked in a bank, had a car and a house, and said that you were beautiful, I wouldn't have wasted my time coming over today, do you know how high my daily wage is?"

"I don't know, and I don't really want to know. But since your daily salary is very high, let's AA system for this meal. ”