Chapter 161: Joy, Anger, Sorrow, and Sorrow
Zhen Huan's words pierced people's hearts!
When Qin Tian heard Zhen Huan ask this, he suddenly became sad, "Alas, it's not a story, it's an accident!" The past is unbearable, every drop is tears, don't mention it, don't mention it! ”
Zhen Huan said: "Since you have so many experiences and so many stories, then cherish it, you are all engaged in art, and one is a handsome guy, the other is a big beauty, what a match, right, chief?" ”
When I heard this, I felt very uncomfortable in my heart-
MD! Isn't that gag my mouth!
I didn't want to eat it!
However, the autumn moon is so beautiful, it is a pity for Qin Tian to enjoy it!
Zhen Huan didn't answer when he saw that he left the day, and added, "Chief, am I right? ”
Liri could only stubbornly answer, "Qin Tian, the queen is right, cherish it, Qiuyue is a good girl." ”
"Thank you, Chief, I'll cherish it." Qin Tian was most worried about competing with him, but after Zhen Huan said this, he was much more relieved.
Liri took the opportunity to say: "By the way, Qin Tian, you have to take good care of Feng Wu, this girl's life is not good, she may be disabled, and if you spend more time, it can be regarded as a contribution to the migration." ”
As soon as the words of the day fell, there was a sudden noise outside!
Zhen Huan walked to the gate in a few steps and shouted, "What's the matter? ”
Wu Wei said: "It's Feng Wu, Feng Wu is crying!" ”
Liri glanced at Qin Tian and said, "Hurry up!" ”
Zhen Huan had already run out, and Qin Tian hurriedly followed.
Next to the fire, several children were playing together, and Feng Wu was sitting on a wooden stool crying!
Zhen Huan rushed over in a few steps and asked, "Feng Wu, what's wrong?" ”
Feng Wu became a tearful person, crying in a low voice, "They don't play with me, they still scold me and beat me...... Woowoo woo ......"
"Who hit it?" Zhen Huan glared.
"Feng San, she scolded me and beat me ......"
Zhen Huan felt that Feng Wu was very pitiful, it turned out that when she was not injured, this little girl was lively and eccentric, but she didn't expect an accident that made her lose her freedom of movement from then on, and she became silent day by day.
"Feng San, did you scold Feng Wu?" Zhen Huan grabbed Feng San, who was circling around the fire.
"I didn't scold her, I just said she was a waste." Feng San pursed his lips, not afraid of Zhen Huan at all.
"Wasted? At such a young age, how can you say such a thing! Zhen Huan was so angry
G preserves together with one volt.
"I can't walk, I'm a waste!" Feng San rolled his eyes.
"Feng San, who taught you to say that? It's so ignorant! Zhen Huan thought to himself, what kind of virtuous person brings what kind of child, Shangguan Ting is really not a thing.
"Queen, what do you say?" Zhen Huan was thinking about Shangguan Ting, and Shangguan Ting came out, "The two children are bickering, are you going to go online?" As for favoring Feng Wu? ”
Zhen Huan didn't want to talk to this idiot, so he squatted down to comfort Feng Wu.
Qin Tian walked over with a straight face, picked up Feng Wu, turned around and went back to the "cave", and when he was about to enter the door, he turned around and said, "Second sister Shangguan, you are such a fool!" ”
Shangguan Ting didn't expect Qin Tian to scold herself in front of everyone, and shouted, "Qin Tian, I curse you, curse you that you will never sleep in Qiuyue!" ”
Qin Tian replied, "I also curse you, curse that you will never sleep with Mr. Gongsun!" ”
Shangguan Ting laughed loudly, "Hahaha......"
The conversation between several people was heard clearly in the "cave" by Liri, and Liri was a little depressed-
Everyone hasn't been together for long, why did they start to have conflicts?
Aren't all civilized people? Aren't they all intellectuals?
Also, these children, all of whom have been carefully selected, why are they not as obedient as they imagined?
How do you feel like there's an evil budding in them?
Could it be that we are also here like Zhen Huan said just now, where there are people, there are rivers and lakes?
Leaving the day was troublesome, Zhen Huan walked in......
"Chief, you heard it all!"
"Alas!" Liri sighed, "Why do you pinch it up for a trivial matter!" ”
"Chief, when everyone came to 'Look at the Stars', they were ambitious, enthusiastic, and heartbroken
g is so open-minded, but now he has become eccentric, calculating, and even bothering over a little thing. ”
"Queen, you are studying psychology, how can you explain this phenomenon?"
"Chief, I've been thinking about this for a long time, I didn't understand it at the beginning, but the last time I heard Bai Bingbing say, to understand all people's behaviors, you can start from the word 'demand', so I gradually figured out a truth."
"What's the truth?"
"People have seven emotions and six desires, joys, angers, sorrows, and sorrows, and when something promotes or hinders the realization of a certain need, people will be happy or upset."
"Oh? It seems to make some sense. Liri thought about it and said.
"For example, the chief, as the leader, wants everyone to live in harmony, which is the chief's responsibility, and once everyone has a conflict, it is difficult for the chief to fulfill his duties, so he is upset.
For example, Qin Tian longed for Qiu Yue's love, but Qiu Yue was very cold to him, which made Qin Tian's need for love unsatisfied, and everything related to this matter would make Qin Tian feel uncomfortable, so just now Shangguan Ting cursed Qin Tian, and Qin Tian would be angry.
For another example, children have the need to play with other children, and they have the need to be respected by other children, and Feng Wu is injured, which hinders the realization of this need, and once other children do not play with her, or scold her, she feels very uncomfortable. ”
Liri said: "Well, that's true! ”
Zhen Huan is a person who loves to learn, and Liri is also a person who loves to learn, and the two sides chatted very speculatively.
Zhen Huan continued, "Now our situation is that everyone lives together, which not only satisfies the common needs of security, communication, entertainment, etc., but also hinders certain needs, such as ......"
Liri asked, "Like what?" ”
Zhen Huanhe said, "For example, if you fall in love with the same man or the same woman, in this case, some people can't meet their needs for love, and then they will work hard, and even jump off the wall in a hurry!" ”
Zhen Huan's meaning is obvious, reminding the departure day, don't see one and love the other.
Of course, Liri understands what Zhen Huan means, and from the bottom of his heart, he didn't mess with flowers, it was other women who provoked him, and he always maintained restraint, although he was also a little impulsive in his heart.
Zhen Huan squinted at Liri, Liri was not weak at all, but continued to ask: "I still haven't figured it out." ”
"The chief said to hear it."
"These are some small things, how can they have such a big impact on everyone's joys, sorrows, and sorrows!"
Zhen Huan tilted his head and thought, and suddenly a new term popped up, saying: "This has nothing to do with the size of the matter at all, but has something to do with the 'life field'." ”
"'Life Field'? What do you mean? ”
"The 'life field' is all the physical and spiritual scenes that a person is exposed to as he grows up, and these scenes make up a person's unique 'little world'.
For example, each person's family conditions, living environment, education, various experiences, friends, etc., all these factors constitute the 'life field'.
One flower, one world, one leaf, one Bodhi!
Different people have their own unique 'life field'.
Different 'life fields' determine the degree of importance attached to a certain need, and also determine the degree of joy, anger and sorrow when a certain need is satisfied or lost.
For example, in ancient times, many princes lost their lives in order to become emperors.
If he were a commoner, he would think, how good it would be if I were the prince, I could eat and drink spicy and hug beautiful women without working every day, so that Lao Tzu would not be stupid to fight for the emperor and lose his life.
The 'life field' of the prince and the commoners are different, and the degree of demand for whether to be the emperor is also different, so it is difficult for the commoners to understand the behavior of the prince.
For another example, some people can kill people and set fires for a few thousand yuan, while some people are unmoved in the face of the gains and losses of tens of millions of assets.
Because their 'life field' is different, their feelings about money are different. ”
Liri said: "The queen's 'life field' theory is quite interesting, how can we use it to explain the phenomenon we have here?" ”