The moderator turned to Wang Yifu.

"So, the child has been living with you all the time?"

Wang Yifu sighed.

"No, the child has been living with his grandparents."

"I want to ask, what is the reason for this?"

Wang Yifu sighed again.

"I'm ashamed to say that, as a man in the family, it is indeed my incompetence to not be able to give my children a stable life. At that time, after the divorce, I left the house cleanly, and the salary of the unit was not high. I rented a small house outside to live in, and it was really inconvenient for me as a big man to take care of a child. The parents of the family happened to be retired at home, so the children were sent back to live with their grandparents. ”

"So, how is the relationship between the child and you, is it okay?"

Wang Yifu hesitated for a moment.

"To tell the truth, it is the point where fire and water are not compatible. Now that I think about it, I still lack communication with my child, and I always think that as long as I give him the best material conditions, it is better than anything else, but in fact, this idea is wrong. ”

Moderator: "Can you give an example?" ”

"Later, I resigned from the unit and started a business in partnership, to be honest, at the beginning, because I was a layman, I took a lot of detours, and I also owed a lot of debts outside, it was my current wife, she encouraged me, saying that there is no road in this world is a broad road, failure is the mother of success, it was she who sold her small house, gave me money, and let me stand up again. Later, the business slowly got on the right track and made money. I also bought a big house, and my current wife also got a license, my wife is very open-minded and kind, and the day I got the house key, she asked me to take my son back to live with me. I'm so excited that I can finally give my son a good life. But I ignore the fact that at that time, my son was already deeply hostile to me, and he believed that everything that had been unfortunate for him and his mother was caused by me and my current wife. ”

"So, did your son live with you now?"

"Actually, there was someone who lived for a while, and at first I said that he didn't agree to live with us, and then one day, all of a sudden, he agreed again. My wife and I were so happy that we cleaned up his room and took him to buy a lot of things he liked. I thought that this kind of life could go on beautifully. Who knew that something happened later, and we completely turned our father and son into enemies. ”

"What's the matter?"

"Actually, I can't tell what the truth is now? At that time, it didn't take long for the peaceful life to live, and I found that Wang Bing would do some incomprehensible things, such as deliberately messing up the freshly done hygiene, applying ink to the freshly washed bed sheets, etc., at first, his attitude of admitting his mistakes was very good, saying that he didn't mean it. I didn't care, at that time, business was very busy. My wife took care of him at home most of the time, and later, my wife told me that something seemed wrong with Wang Bing and that she should see a psychiatrist. ”

"What's wrong."

"He's a bad boy in front of my wife, and he's pretending to be so good in front of me. When my wife told me about it, I didn't think so, since ancient times, the role of stepmother has been like this. is not his own biological child, there will always be times when he is not taken care of. Besides, my wife didn't have any experience in this area at the time, so I naively thought that it would get better after a slow run-in. By the time my wife got pregnant, it was probably three months! One night, when I got up, I saw the door of the child's room open and the light turned on, and I saw him holding a doll and hammering it vigorously, and he was talking to himself as he hammered it, presumably, I'll kill you or something. ”

"And then?"

"I think my divorce from his mom hit him hard, he needed to see a psychiatrist, and I took him to see him, and he was very cooperative at that time. I was also very well-behaved at home, and then one day, I was outside talking to a client, and the phone called from home to say that my wife had fallen to the ground and was in the hospital. At that time, the family hired a nanny to help with the cleaning. When my wife went to the bathroom, she didn't notice a large puddle of water in the bathroom and slipped when she stepped on it. The nanny felt guilty at the time, but she insisted that she had wiped the water in the bathroom with a rag that day, and she didn't know where it came from. ”

"Did you suspect that your son did it?"

"Actually, it's a mystery, and I don't believe he did it, I believe he was still kind, until I saw him in the corridor of the hospital with his back to us and laughing secretly. I suspect it has something to do with him. I was also angry at the time, and I didn't give him a chance to explain at all, so I stepped forward and gave him a slap. It was this slap that completely broke our father-son relationship. That day, after being slapped in the face, he ran away and never came back. I didn't see him for several days, I took care of him flawlessly, my wife had a miscarriage, and she never had a child after that, which will be the regret of her life. ”

"Well, I remember that you and your wife had a daughter."

"That's what we adopted at the orphanage."

"And then, is your son coming home?"

"No, after a week, our family went up and down like crazy looking for him, and finally found him in an Internet café, and I loved and hated him at the time, and slapped him again. He didn't run away, and went straight back to his grandparents' house. ”

"After that, he never lived with you again?"

"Actually, I also tried to salvage our kind of ice-cellar father-son relationship, but he never gave me a chance, and whenever he saw me, he wanted to cut me with a knife and look at me. I was scared, I was afraid that he would take me for his enemy. For everyone's good, I have no choice but to stay away from him. ”

"So, to this day, you father and son haven't communicated well with each other once?"

Wang Yifu shook his head.

"I want to, too, but it seems unlikely. In fact, there are no parents in the world who don't love their children, but they use the wrong way. For Wang Bing's apology, it is indeed a hurdle that I can't overcome in my life. I would say that it was I who ruined everything about this child, who was the victim of our unsuccessful marriage. ”

When Wang Yifu said this, his voice was choked, and he hid his face and wept.

The host paused for a few seconds and then shifted the topic to Tian Xiufang.

"So, what about Mom, what role does your son play in your life after that?"

Tian Xiufang was probably infected by Wang Yifu at this time, and tears were rolling in her eyes.

Hearing the host's question, the tears could no longer control themselves and fell with a snap.

She tried to wipe her hand, but she felt that this situation was not appropriate, so she withdrew her hand again.

The host handed her a tissue, and she just clutched it tightly in the palm of her hand, which was useless.