(1) My first meeting with Fu Chengwen
The first real meeting between Fu Chengwen and I can be traced back to when my mother accompanied Fu Chengwen's mother to go for a prenatal checkup.
At that time, Fu's mother was not in good health, and when she was pregnant with Fu Chengwen for three months, she showed signs of miscarriage and needed to go to the hospital for regular checkups. Because I need to be accompanied by my family during the examination, and Fu's mother thinks that Fu's father is clumsy and it is a trouble to take him there, so I will ask my mother to accompany her every time.
As a girlfriend who grew up with Fu's mother since childhood, lived in the same community after getting married, and often met to go shopping, eat and buy together, my mother naturally had no hesitation to complete such a task, so when I was in the obstetrics and gynecology department, I often saw my mother carefully holding the exaggerated figure of Fu's mother, who had not yet shown her pregnancy.
At that time, the doctors and nurses in the obstetrics and gynecology department joked that my mother should hurry up and have another one, so that maybe she could set a baby kiss or something, and the two families could kiss each other. At that time, my mother was still resolutely opposed, saying that they couldn't have children at the same time, otherwise the two families would not be able to take care of them. Unexpectedly, it didn't take long for this joke to come true.
Four months after Fu's mother was pregnant, I also became molded in my mother's womb.
According to Fu's mother, when my mother got the test results to confirm her pregnancy, she was unhappy with Fu's mother, she said that if they were both pregnant, it would be too difficult for the two children to get together and be naughty in the future, and she would not be able to help beating people. When I heard about it later, I had to admire how prescient my mom was at that time. Because since we had us, our two families have really been stirred up and down by the two of us, and we haven't had a moment to live.
But we can't all blame us, who made us both follow the naughty genes of our respective families, and besides, the genes are not something we can have as much as we want, so the four of them also have to bear part of the responsibility for this matter.
Although my mother was worried when she learned the news of her pregnancy, my father was very happy that I appeared, and dragged Fu Dad out for a night of wine that day. Whether the two men were really happy about the arrival of the two children at the wine table, or mourned that the days of their freedom were gone, no one knows, anyway, after waking up the next day, the two of them went against the norm and began to work hard to learn how to maintain their image as a good father.
Although we were all curious about what the two of us did that night, the two men were really tight-lipped about the secret and haven't told us a word for more than 20 years. But curiosity is curiosity, and the two mothers are still very happy about the transformation of these two people. Because they are now not only responsible for making money to support their families, but also contracting all the housework at home, and their requirements for their wives are also obedient, and they dare not say half a "no".
As for the two expectant mothers, they are responsible for eating and drinking every day, raising the fetus with peace of mind, and they don't have to do anything.
After more than five months, Fu Chengwen saw the world one step ahead of me. And three months later, I jumped out of my mother's belly and not far behind.
The newborn Fu Chengwen is a crybaby, he cries when he is hungry, he cries when he is thirsty, and he cries when he wets the bed.
On the other hand, I didn't make much noise all day, I didn't cry or laugh all day, and if I didn't blink my eyes, I looked like an ugly rag doll.
All four parents were first-time parents and had little experience, so after Fu Chengwen and I formed this stark contrast, my parents always thought that I had some incurable disease. Even though I went to the hospital several times for check-ups, and each time the doctors said that I was fine, they were still very worried about me and always tried to make me laugh and make me cry. And I didn't give them any face very coldly, and kept going my own way, except for the symbolic howl twice when I had normal physiological needs, and ignored them the rest of the time.
Every time Fu's mother came to my house to see me, she would comfort my mother and say that I must be her own girl, and let her accept her fate. Later, I asked Fu's mother once why she was so sure that I was not wrong, and she told me that it was because when she first met my mother, my mother was this unreasonable person. At that time, she always thought that my mother should be a particularly difficult person to contact, but after a few contacts, she found that my mother's heart was completely different from what she showed on the outside. I think this explanation not only solved my question, but also made me understand why, for a long time after I became sensible, as soon as my mother saw me, she would educate me and say, let me and her learn more about how to be a good wife and mother, and not become my mother's always toothy and claw-dancing appearance.
She probably didn't want me to follow my mother's old path and deceive others by appearance.
However, although I looked very cold to everyone at that time, as long as I met Fu Chengwen, I would inevitably cry before he opened his mouth, and the crying must be ten times louder than him, anyway, it must reach the level that as long as I cry, even if he cries harder, he can't cry me. Both families felt very strange about this phenomenon, and after coaxing the two of us countless times, they finally came to a conclusion, that is, I was jealous of Fu Chengwen's good looks.
Although Fu Chengwen at that time was white, tender and cute, I really don't understand why my parents would agree with this theory that sounds very unreliable, and what I don't understand is that this theory is actually summed up after analyzing countless possibilities day and night. I'm biological, aren't I? And just because he's good-looking doesn't mean I'm jealous, maybe I'm jealous that he can cry better than me, how can I attribute the reason to my ugliness, is this something that biological parents can do?
Of course, I am indeed jealous that Fu Chengwen looks better than me now.
But that's for later.
Every time this happened, my mother would always hold me and coax me to say that as long as I learned more in the future, I could always make up for the gap. Of course, I didn't understand what that meant at the time, but the two mothers seemed to have come to a consensus on "learning" and began to figure out how to give the two of us a name that sounded very knowledgeable.