A reinterpretation of "Ten Sentences to Remember for Breakups".

Today, I had nothing to do, browsed the web, and saw a post - "10 Sentences to Remember for Breaking Up". This post is written for girls who have broken up or fallen out of love, and it can be regarded as an interpretation of what girls should do when they break up. Regardless of whether the person who wrote this post is a man or a woman, he or she has a delicate heart to care for girls, and he or she has a kind heart to abandon past suspicions and give people hope.

Although I also respect this kind of chicken soup for the soul, in my eyes and heart, the world is not what it is like in a "fairy tale", so I want to make a big deal out of the scenery and write my reinterpretation of these ten sentences.

The original text is written for resentful women, and my reinterpretation can be read by crazy men and women.

Original text 1, when love is no longer there, please bless him, after all, he once loved.

Interpretation 1: Actually, how many people can remember the love they once loved? After a breakup, as long as you don't deny yourself (for example, you always feel like you were blind or something...... ), not to hurt the other person (e.g., to think that the other person doesn't deserve anything at all in the first place...... It's already remarkable!

Original text 2: When it's over, don't tell him I hate you! Love is a matter of two people, and if you miss it, everyone is responsible.

Interpretation 2: In fact, as long as two people have been sincere and have gotten along sincerely, there is no so-called right or wrong. Breaking up is just that the environment is not suitable, the timing is not suitable, or two people feel that each other is not suitable.

If you really hate, then hate, it's better than pretending to be tolerant. Many times, many people have already torn their faces before breaking up, and what should be said and what should not be said has already been said. What else is there to say after it is over?

Original text 3: After leaving, what comes to mind must be a lonely picture, please forget it! A person must always have a new beginning, and don't let the past tie you to the temple of sorrow.

Interpretation 3: In fact, what comes to mind after leaving is not necessarily a lonely picture, and there may be more warm scenes. However, it must be clear that whether it is lonely or warm, it can be sad. After a breakup, it's impossible to forget, unless you have complete amnesia. The only thing that can be done is to think about it as little as possible.

A person must always have a new beginning, and don't let the past tie you to the temple of sorrow. Of course, you can't let the past ruin your current happiness and hope for the future!

Original text 4: Don't say who you love the most! Life is still very long, no one can predict tomorrow, maybe your true love is still waiting for you in the next second.

Interpretation 4: In this life, to paraphrase an advertising slogan, that is, "there is no favorite, only more love". It's just that whether you can "love more" depends on your fate and luck, and it depends on your vision and choice.

Perhaps, your true love is still waiting for you in the next second. Perhaps, you will never find such a good person again in your life.

Original text 5: Don't be noisy when you break up! After all, the two have been together for so long, and he will be sad when they are separated, but he is wiser and doesn't want to bind you or his tomorrow. It's good to get together and disperse, and we will still be friends in the future, and everyone has their own helplessness.

Interpretation 5: In fact, we are all ordinary people, and not many people can be rational enough not to make noise when they talk about breaking up. Once the love is broken, the past is all ashes.

Everyone has their own helplessness, and it is true that this is useful for people with empathy.

If you break up, you break up, and if you can still be friends, you won't break up when you're lovers. Entangled is the worst poison, if you can't control yourself, don't believe in the nonsense of being friends, harm others and yourself, and the legacy will be endless!

Original text 6: Don't talk about grief! Everyone has their own story. To live is not to be nostalgic for yesterday, but to wait for hope. Let everyone see that you are strong, and you can live well without him.

Interpretation 6: Don't talk about grief, your grief may make people think that you will never forget the old love.

Isn't it to live to remember yesterday? In fact, some people live to be nostalgic for yesterday and to get long-term morbid pleasure from constantly licking the so-called old wounds.

In fact, people don't live to let others see how you are. Don't suffer yourself for the sake of establishing a so-called image. After all, we are living ourselves, not living anyone else, living for anyone else.

Give yourself a little time and let time dilute the sadness. If that doesn't work, then find someone else to love you again.

Original text 7: After leaving, tell him loudly: I love you, it has nothing to do with you! Love is your right, say what you want to say, calmly remember your past, and cry! After crying, leave everything for yesterday and never touch it!

Interpretation 7: If you are a little girl who is ignorant of the world, you can say "I love you, it has nothing to do with you!" "If you're not, you don't have to do it at all, because there's too much acting in it, and you can't say anything like that.

After the breakup, it is a man, and he may cry, not to mention the woman. Can you be calm when you "reminisce about the past calmly"? In fact, it's better not to think about anything and live as little as possible!

It's impossible to never touch yesterday, unless you're hypocritical all along. How can people never touch them? Maybe in a certain scene, at a certain moment, just a similar word or similar action from a certain person...... can make you cry silently.

Original text 8: When you think about him, just think about his goodness, his smile, remember that you once loved someone, don't care who started the betrayal in the end, just be happy.

Interpretation 8: After the breakup, don't think about anything anymore! Keep going, there's still a lot to do in life!

About "betrayal", it is a false proposition. In fact, there is no such thing as "betrayal", just not understanding each other. You have to believe in the sincerity of the mountain alliance and the sea oath, but you will never believe that that family is reality. Love, most of the time, is nothing but the romance of a promise, never a romantic promise.

If someone makes up their minds to deceive and play with the moment they have the idea, then this process is not the relationship between two people.

Original text 9: If you break up, just be yourself! A person's world also has the moon rising and setting, and there are also beautiful moments, classify him as a memory!

Interpretation 9: If you say that you are yourself after breaking up, that is to say, in the process of two people falling in love, you have probably been compromised, disguised yourself in good faith, and sacrificed yourself. Love is a matter of two people. If you weren't yourself in the first place, your love would have been doomed to fail and die at the beginning. Will you carry the cross on your back? Equality and nature are the prerequisites for love to continue. You don't have to wait for a breakup, you should be yourself right away.

You have to understand that in a world of one person, you can only pick up everything in life with your fragile shoulders alone, face the wind and rain alone, and accept the snow and frost alone. Therefore, after the breakup, you have to learn to face the coldness after the heat.

For that "him or she", no matter what, don't remember it anymore, learn to forget, learn to forget.

Original text 10: One person's world always needs another person as a foil. He left, that's because he can't stand you, and I believe that I will have a better tomorrow!

Interpretation 10: If one person's world always needs another person as a foil; Well, remember that the world of two people needs to be a reflection of each other.

He's gone, is that because he can't stand you? Ask your heart calmly, without malice or resentment. At any time, don't deceive yourself, there is no need to elevate yourself by belittling the other person. Remember how tall he or she is when two people love each other and how tall he or she is after a breakup.

You must believe that you will have a better tomorrow, because at this time, the hope of your future relationship after breaking up is also the hope that everyone will live regardless of whether you break up or not.