- The midlife crisis of a man in the movie "City Hillbilly".

If you have time and don't want to do anything, just sit quietly and watch a movie.

It's one of the things an old man does when he's bored or worried. Probably a lot of boring little boys do the same. However, with different ages, the mood is naturally different, and the feeling of watching the movie will be very different

Lately, my life has been a bit unstable.

It is said that men also have what is called "menopause". Thinking about my recent state, it's a little weird, and I'm a little scared when I think about it. No way! Could it be that my "menopause" came so early?

O my God!

When I woke up in the middle of the night, I couldn't sleep, tossing and turning, something that was rare in twenty or thirty years.

I don't want to move, I don't want to read, I don't want to write, I don't want to practice the tunes I like.

Except for the occasional singing, which proves that I am still a little lively, the rest is a dull scene.

When the mood comes, I will also tidy up my room, and the most I do is cook, eat, wash the pots and dishes.

A dignified man is like a woman!

O my God!

We rednecks have two sentences that can be completely analogous to my recent situation:

One sentence is: "Miscellaneous smoke pot".

One sentence is: "Coax the baby to collect eggs".

These two sentences will not be explained in detail, and it is a waste of space. If anyone is interested in life in the countryside, please contact me and I can slowly talk to him/her for free.

I'm bored!

That day, I watched "City Hillbilly", also translated as "City Slicker" comedy.

Three men who are not confused, in the boredom of city life, fall into an inexplicable confusion. So, I had a two-week vacation to experience the cowboy life, trying to stimulate the passion for life, and the result was a wish! The plot is as simple as that, and the interpretation process of the story is worth savoring slowly.

Regarding the name of the movie, whether it is "City Hillbilly" or "City Slicker", I don't think it's very exact. Perhaps, it's because of cultural differences, we don't understand Slicker as well as Americans. "CitySlickers" is actually about the crisis of people reaching middle age, and the way the protagonist of the movie solves the crisis of middle life. Therefore, I think that if the title of this film is translated as "Midlife Crisis", it is closer to my understanding of the film.

The opening words are talking about my own state, compared with the movie, and I found that I also have a crisis.

O my God!

Three men, how did the crisis come about?

One suddenly lost his passion. There is no enthusiasm for work, and the confrontation with the supervisor is evidenced by the fact that the right to choose advertising is taken away. has no enthusiasm for life, and that speech to children made life very monotonous and boring. There is no enthusiasm for life, which is mainly spoken from the mouth of his wife, because her closest lover sees melancholy in his eyes, and sees the routine of conjugal life.

The other is that he suddenly got into a predicament. On the day of the wedding, it was his happiest and happiest day. On that day, he had a wife, assets, a job, and a family. But the catastrophe also began at that time, when he had a hot-tempered father-in-law whom he called a Nazi; He had a wife who yelled at him and treated him like a slave. The things in front of him seemed to be his own, but they were all in the hands of others, even his fate. Everything about him is the result of being sent under the fence. The result was very stressful and painful. Think about it, a normal man, in his married life, has not had sex for twelve years.

O my God!

It's really unimaginable to normal people!

China's "great man" said: "Where there is oppression, there is resistance". Therefore, he will have a relationship with the little clerk in the store. Officials, you must not say that this man is irresponsible, this man has a mistress. Actually, he was pitiful, and his reaction was a situation that could happen to a normal man. Because, he is completely on the verge of collapse! Later in the movie, he almost killed the two riffraff with a gun, as evidenced by this. He also said at the time that he had a gun in his shop and that he had played with it many times. If it weren't for this cowboy life, I suspect that he might have collapsed his father-in-law and his tiger-like wife from Mr. Lao She. It's a pity that this wife doesn't have the desires of a woman like Tiger Girl.

I can't think of it!

O my God!

And the other one is that I haven't played enough. A man around forty years old should have precipitated, but this one didn't. He married a beautiful model, but his wife's pregnancy caused him confusion and fear. He didn't want to end the two-person world so soon, he was afraid that the triviality of the child would no longer allow him to play the world in style.

In fact, it is not only the three of them, that era, and those people who are facing a midlife crisis; In this era, people of this age group will have this kind of crisis, or more and more complex than this. Moreover, this crisis will swallow up a lot of people. Not many people are able to find an effective solution to their crisis, and everyone endures, numbs, ages, and dies.

In order to give spiritual solace to those living in crisis, so as not to live too hopelessly. Therefore, the screenwriters and directors hope to use this cowboy experience to sharpen the majesty, enthusiasm and vitality of these three men and more men; At the same time, it also provides a little life guidance and a glimmer of life for those middle-aged people in crisis.

I won't talk about the other plots, let's watch the play by ourselves! Let's talk about that old cowboy. The old man doesn't have many scenes, but it's enough to steal the show.

If those three old men are the sufferers who rise and fall in the sea of evil, then the old cowboy is the Zen master who makes them "sail with a reed".

Most of life's crises, from a Buddhist point of view, are born from the mind. The so-called "heart demon" and "heart Buddha" are said to be true only after tempering the rounds of sand like the Ganges.

The bonds of external objects are all because our hearts have not been let go. We always have things that we can't let go, so we will have heavy pressure in our bodies and hearts.

What life is, in fact, is very simple.

The herd of cattle that returned to the farm after many difficulties and dangers were finally sent to the slaughterhouse, and everything was empty. This is a pessimistic life.

Although the group of cattle that returned to the farm after many difficulties and dangers were eventually sent to the slaughterhouse, we took care of them with our lives in the process. Because of escorting them, we learn to cherish life, we know what we want, we harden our will, we strengthen our hearts. This is an optimistic life.

The river of life never stops, and we are just a grain of sand in the Ganges.

Writing here, the dish in the pot is already completely burnt.

O my God!