Different people have different opinions about "Dream of Red Mansions". Not only "Dream of Red Mansions", but many things in the world are probably like this.

Mr. Lu Xun's famous quote about "Dream of Red Mansions" does not need to be quoted again, for fear it will be suspected of overflowing. In the character comments of "Dream of Red Mansions", Xue Baochai and Lin Daiyu have always been the two major focuses.

Recently, someone on the Internet has a life titled "Marrying a Wife Should Marry Lin Daiyu". I think this is an attitude and an opinion, in which there must be a point of view that supports the proposition of the person on whose footing.

So, it can be inferred from this that among the fans of the pro-hairpin faction, the argument of "Marrying a Wife and Marrying Xue Baochai" has probably been finalized, maybe it is just a secret, maybe it is just a secret, maybe it is just because I haven't seen it.

Speaking of which, some people will ask: What is the author's opinion on hairpins? I guess I'll just laugh and not answer.

There really must be a result, and if you don't give up without a result, I can only say: marry a wife and marry Lin Daiyu.

If you already know this, why do you have to laugh and not answer? Buddhism has a saying: Don't say it, don't say it!

The reason why I can't say it is probably because I think it's wrong to say it. Don't talk about anything else, as far as my countryman's net worth is concerned, the door is not the right one,

"When marrying" Bao Dai, which one must be just a fool's dream! Even if it is really possible to marry one of the two, the result will inevitably be ridicule and ridicule, or criticism and abuse from the unmarried faction.

This is the poison of a Chinese-style gang, and it is no wonder that anyone who is naturally and unnaturally involved in it. When it comes to the wrong door, in fact, this is already logically paradoxical.

Although I know this, why do I still say this, it is because some people who are messing around will see the Buddha and kill the Buddha and deceive the ancestors in the case of logical confusion, so that you can get an embarrassing scene of showing talent and meeting soldiers.

Therefore, it must be stated that Hai Dai as a character in the novel, because the author has successfully portrayed the two of them as virtual idols and exist in the reader's mind.

Since fiction is so-called

"Fake village dialects" can be shelved in the courtyard of the deep palace, or they can be seen on the desk in the poor countryside; It can be studied by adults and gentlemen, and it can also be used by peddlers and pawns to rejoice...... Then, the characters in the novel and the idols created by the novel can be praised by everyone for themselves.

According to this point of view, on the spiritual level, the characters of fiction who exist as idols, as long as they have read novels, can think about these characters in all kinds of ways, all kinds of non-thoughts, all kinds of non-thoughts.

No matter who it is, whether it is a wealthy son or a farmer in the countryside; Whether it is a gray-haired old man or a personable teenager; Whether it is a literati or a coarse man...... As long as he has read "Dream of Red Mansions", as long as he still wants to get married, he can use the characters he likes and the characters of this novel as idols or rulers.

Of course, he can choose one of the two hairpins. Of course, he can also choose phoenix, peace, exploration, and attack...... From this level, no one cannot, and of course, there is no reason, at this time, to swallow any reader with the right person, age, even height, and so on.

On the premise of who to marry a wife, I will first express the voice of many men in the world. If conditions permit, it is also in that social environment where there can be a group of wives and concubines, there are two lovely people like hairpin Dai, if you want to ask men who should marry their wives, I think, most men's answer must be: If there is such a beautiful thing, it is better to have both.

Or, if you want one, however, this one is a combination of all the virtues and advantages of Hai Dai. Attention visitors.

What I'm talking about is

"A lot of men", and not

"All men". It must be clarified that among these many men, I must not be included. It's not that I'm pretentious, or that I don't have a diet for men and women

"human desire"; It's because: I have already said that in the case of not being able to give up, I must choose Lin Daiyu, which is a single-choice answer as a multiple-choice question, one of them.

Second, I also choose Lin Daiyu. Because, in terms of my attitude towards life and life, and following the principles of my life, I must choose Lin Daiyu.

Third, I still choose Lin Daiyu. As far as the novel itself goes, I do like her. Let's put the conclusion on this side first, whether it can stand up, and you don't need to take it to heart.

I'll take my time. I've never liked to follow the crowd and follow the crowd. Since I'm doing hairpin discrimination today, of course I also need to give a self-righteous reason.

Even if this reason cannot be said to others, first of all, I am convinced. If there is really an ideal in this world, and there is really a reality, then, in my opinion, Daiyu is the ideal, and Baochai is the reality.

If there are indeed all kinds of differences between real love and real marriage in this world that most people recognize, then, in my heart, Daiyu is love, and Baochai is marriage.

If there are really fairies and mortals in this world who don't eat fireworks in the world and mortals who don't eat firewood, rice, oil and salt, then, as far as I know, Daiyu must be the fairy, and Baochai is just a mortal.

If there is anything else in this world, you can continue to deduce and deduce based on the above patterns...... In the world of ordinary people, there is an ideal and a reality, and there is always a big gap between this reality and the ideal.

One of the tragedies of life is the interesting ideal death in the face of boring reality. In this case, Daiyu's untimely death is inevitable and has to be so.

When the ideal is hidden and depressed, and the reality completely loses its color, life is either a walking corpse or a painful torment.

It can be seen from this that Baochai's widowhood is also in response to the right path. Someone has made a detailed annotation on the names of the people in "Dream of Red Mansions", but the aliases of the characters have not been analyzed

"Incense and jade". The king of Wuwu, both horizontally and vertically, is to be barren: if the concubine is not selected, it is barren; It is difficult to stay together when married, and it is also desolate.

Between the ideal and the reality, the ideal is the individuality, and the reality is the custom. Therefore, Daiyu is a girl with a full personality, and Baochai often looks at people and acts.

After the talent reaches a certain height, it becomes spontaneous and natural; Before the fire is ready, there are marks of axes and chisels.

Looking at Daiyu's poems, you can see that there is no trace of freshness; Reading Baochai again, you will feel that you are attentive everywhere. Daiyu was born in a family of eunuchs and grew up in a wealthy family, doesn't she understand

Is it a "career economy"? Probably not, I think. Why didn't Daiyu talk about it in front of Baoyu

"Career economy" does not require Baoyu

What about the "career economy"? Because, Daiyu is romantic. It must be emphasized that the romance mentioned here is not the kind of romance that men and women talk about in today's society.

Daiyu's romance is the romance of the poet's temperament and the romance of idealism. Because Daiyu is romantic, she knows that this man mixed in the thousands of flowers, he and Jia Lian are different.

The romantic poet's temperament makes Daiyu think of a long-standing rather than a high-ranking lord. In addition to being romantic, Daiyu also knows how to respect the man she likes.

It is precisely because she knows how to respect that she will not tell Baoyu

"Nonsense", he respects Baoyu for choosing the lifestyle and path he wants. Romantic poet temperament, respect for the man he likes, this is Daiyu's preciousness, loveliness, and the reason why Baoyu likes her.

Baochai is different. The way she treats Baoyu shows a situation of trying to change. This is exactly a mistake that many women in the world will make: trying to change men!

Woman to man

The persuasion of "career economy" sometimes makes people feel that this woman wants not this person, but this person's family background and position.

Baochai to Baoyu

The persuasion behavior of the "career economy" can be said to follow the crowd, or it can be said to be vulgar. In the big family of Jiafu, there are too many

The persuasion of "career economy" has already made Baoyu tired, and the addition of Baochai will only make Baoyu even more bored, which is also an inevitable result.

The old ancestor Jia Mu would not say anything to her beloved grandson

The words of "career economy" are completely because of doting. Daiyu won't say it to Baoyu

"Career economy", because she understands this man, at least, she knows how to respect this man. Most people who don't like Daiyu have a common reason, saying that it is Daiyu

"Watch your eyes". If you are because of the so-called

"Be careful" and don't like Daiyu, that's not Daiyu's fault, and it won't affect Daiyu's image, and you have to reflect on yourself.

Here, I would like to propose a new perspective on hairpin Dai - from

From the perspective of "careful eye". At this point, it can be said that Daiyu is

"People in the realm of gods", but Baochai is manifested

"God of the earth". Why ask those who think Daiyu is

What about the "careful-eyed" person introspection? Why? You have to say Daiyu

"Be careful", I think, is probably because you don't know women too well. In "Dream of Red Mansions", it is considered to be

The incident of "careful eyes", carefully analyzed, is actually Daiyu's femininity. If you don't have these

In the "careful eye" incident, Daiyu will only be a god who has nothing to do with the world, and if she loses her flesh and blood, she will not be able to become a lovely girl.

It is these so-called

The details of "careful eyes" bring out Daiyu's girlishness and femininity. Daiyu's otherworldliness, pride and her talent, description, plus hers

"Be careful", naturally made Daiyu

The image of "a man in the realm of gods". She is both high and approachable. Baochai finally lost at this point.

Baochai is everywhere

"Righteousness" comes first, so that she is everywhere in the world

The image of "God" is revealed. Baochai's

"Deeply aware of righteousness" and her catering to the hearts of the people are establishing themselves step by step

The image of "the god of the earth." Baochai is in

When the image of "the god of the world" was successful, her image as a woman collapsed.

In this way, Baochai is not a cute little girl, not a charming little lover, not a well-behaved little daughter-in-law, but a dignified member of the parent community in "Dream of Red Mansions".

The image of a woman is gone, the femininity is gone, where to find the loveliness of the woman on Baochai?

I have no intention of criticizing the image of Baochai, but the existence of Haichai Dai seems to be for comparison, and there will be identification when there is comparison.

All this was done as a last resort. People who love Baochai should continue to love, I like Daiyu.