Chapter 981: I don't want to take a child
After Gu Yan gave birth, she was not depressed after giving birth, but she was really not very happy.
She was sullen, not too uncomfortable, not too happy.
Gu Yan didn't want to go, so Mo Yichen made a special trip to get a wheelchair to push her, and the two walked on the grass in the yard, the tires of the wheelchair pressed over the grass.
Behind her, when Mo Yichen pushed her, he said to her.
"I feel like you're sullen, what's wrong? Feeling bad? "
In the past two days, she didn't talk much, she didn't laugh much, and the most she did was sit there in a daze.
Mo Yichen has heard people say that there is a postpartum depression.
He didn't know what it was like, after all, he wasn't a woman and couldn't understand that feeling.
In the wheelchair, Gu Yan muffled his voice.
"No, I don't know myself, I just can't be happy......"
Seeing this, Mo Yichen thought about it and said to her.
"You just stay in the house for too long, and when you're in a bad mood in the future, I'll push you out for a walk, relax, so that the mood will be better, I think, people stay in the house for a long time and don't come out, it's really suffocating......"
Regardless of whether what he said made sense or not, Gu Yan also felt that his state was like this.
Now that she's out for a walk, she's in a much better mood.
When she stays in the house, her mood will always be in a depressed mood, and she will always remember the unpleasant things in the past.
Therefore, Gu Yan thinks that the so-called postpartum depression should refer to this, right?
If you don't let go of the previous unpleasantness, you will remember it as soon as you calm down, of course, you will be depressed after giving birth, especially in ordinary families, nesting in such a small house, it is more likely to lead to postpartum depression.
Gu Yan agreed with Mo Yichen's approach, she said.
"Okay, if I'm in a bad mood in the future, you can push me out for a walk and relax, maybe, my mood will improve......"
Seeing that she agreed, Mo Yichen nodded.
"Well, that's ......"
Mo Yichen looked at Gu Yan from behind, her body shape had not been reduced yet, and she was still a little fat, but he didn't dislike her now.
She had just given birth, and it was impossible for her to get back in shape so quickly.
And she's been in a bad mood lately, and it's even harder for him to ask her for this, and she's now draining lochia every day, and her body hasn't recovered.
Mo Yichen pushed her for a walk here, and then pushed her in.
He went to take care of the baby, Gu Yan looked at the baby, but she was not very interested.
For some reason, she found that she sometimes cherished her children, but sometimes, she felt upset when she saw them.
Gu Yan can't say why, it's just a mood problem, and she can't say it well.
Fortunately, when she was upset, Mo Yichen didn't hold the child to bother her, at this time, Gu Yan didn't like the small ones, but liked the big ones, that is, the loud ones.
Xiangyan has grown so big, and he is already sensible.
Therefore, Gu Yan called Xiangyan, Xiangyan can at least communicate.
The little one, it's not good, it's always crying, telling it to cry if it doesn't cry, when Gu Yan is in a good mood, she can also be indulgent, and when she is in a bad mood, she really has impulsive emotions.
Therefore, Gu Yan knew this shortcoming, she tried not to take children, and Mo Yichen took them.
He has a good temper with the little ones, so it will be safe for him to carry them.
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Because of her physical weakness, Gu Yan has been taking supplements these days, otherwise, she will be even less energetic, she doesn't even have the strength to walk now, and when she goes outside, she still relies on Mo Yichen to push her wheelchair.
At this time, it's not yet a meal.
Gu Yan sat on the sofa and ate porridge, she especially likes to eat porridge recently, small porridge with mustard, it is really delicious.
Mo Yichen was busy.
Because Gu Yan refused to take care of the children, he had to deal with the company's affairs while trying to find time to take care of the children as much as possible.
He was so busy that he didn't have time to sit down and take a break.
At this moment, Mo Yichen finally coaxed the little one to sleep, and when he went downstairs, he saw Gu Yan sitting there eating porridge.
She was watching TV, and maybe it had finally piqued her interest, and now she was watching it with relish, laughing from time to time.
Seeing that Gu Yan was in a rare good mood, Mo Yichen raised his eyebrows.
He stepped down and asked her.
"It's rare, I finally laughed today......"
Hearing this, Gu Yan responded to the voice, seeing that it was him, she raised her eyebrows, but she didn't say anything.
Mo Yichen went down to the staircase, he walked over to her and asked.
"What did you eat?"
On the sofa, Gu Yan looked down at the porridge in the bowl, then she looked up at him and replied.
"Porridge ......"
After Mo Yichen arrived, he sat down next to her, he saw that she was eating, Mo Yichen knew that every time Gu Yan ate, most of her mood was very good.
And she likes to find things to do when she eats, the kind that eats and watches at the same time.
He didn't know if this way was healthy or not, anyway, this way could make Gu Yan feel better, so he let her and even encouraged her to eat in this way.
Nothing is more important than people's moods.
Mood is absolutely the root of all things.
Gu Yan seemed to be in a good mood to eat, she didn't care about him anymore, and was eating at the same time and started watching her TV.
Seeing this, Mo Yichen didn't bother, he just asked her.
"Anything else? I'm going to eat ...... too."
He's a little hungry, it's true, he's been taking care of the kids, so tired that he's hungry, but he doesn't have time to eat.
Gu Yan saw that he was going to eat too, so he turned his head to look at him and nodded.
"Yes, there's still in the pot, you go scoop it......"
Seeing this, Mo Yichen immediately stood up and really went, Gu Yan looked at it, and didn't say anything, the rich also have a time to eat porridge, it's nothing.
At home, he wasn't a rich man, he was just her husband.
Mo Yichen went to scoop a bowl out, and then, with the mustard on the coffee table, began to eat with Gu Yan, he said while eating.
"I'm starving, I've been taking care of the children just now, and I'm so tired that I don't have time to eat......"
She listened and thought it was funny.
She turned to look at him and hummed.
"You deserve it, who told you to insist on living in the first place? Okay now, right? Since you have to insist on giving birth, then you are responsible for bringing it, anyway, when I am in a bad mood, I will not take the child......"
Seeing this, Mo Yichen hooked his lips, and he leaned on her.
"Okay, okay, I don't want you to bring it, I'll bring it, okay?"
Gu Yan didn't say anything, anyway, she really didn't want to take care of the child recently, and after she gave birth, she couldn't take care of it.
If she has done everything, then her husband, who doesn't have to give birth or bring it, what's the use of coming?
The two ate porridge and chatted there.
Gu Yan doesn't like to talk about children, so Mo Yichen talks to her about other things, so that Gu Yan's mood can be better.