Chapter 389: Dignity and Humility
The maid bean sprouts sneered in her heart, her young lady was like a god, and guessed that the delicate Du Aman in the Du family's big house followed Miss Ah Ruo, and specially sent her to stop Du Aman here, so as to prevent this person from entering the small flower hall as his name suggests!
The young lady personally ordered that Du Aman should not be allowed to enter, and she would not let Du Aman in......
Yu Yan and the others paused slightly, and then continued to walk forward with a look of irrelevance, while Du Aruo subconsciously wanted to cut his mouth and say something, but under the shaking of his head by Yu Juan beside him, he swallowed the words that came to his mouth.
If Du Ah is not a stupid person, he naturally knows why the maid is doing this, and at the same time he is grateful, he is a little scared!
Her father, but he loves his sister very much, if after going back, Du Aman sues his father, what will she do? She's going to be beaten up by her own father......
But this is in Chengenbo Mansion, and he is a guest, which is on the territory of Chengenbo Mansion, how can he be a guest?
Duaro was caught in a dilemma, absent-minded along the way.
After walking a distance, Yu Juan, who was holding Du Aruo's arm, looked at Du Aruo with a smile, "Sister Aruo, which sister of yours is not from the same mother, right?" It stands to reason that your mother is the original wife, and the mother of which of your sisters is the step-room to fill the house, and the step-room is in front of the original tablet, and she has to perform the concubine ceremony. ”
"You are the daughter of the original concubine, this identity is more noble than the stepfamily, some people, you blindly give in, will only let her gain an inch, people respect me, I respect people, only when you stand up, can you not be bullied......"
Yu Juanyan said these words with a smile, seemingly careless, but in fact she was mentioning Du Aruo.
The matter of the Du family's big house in Xiaoyang Village can be seen clearly by anyone with a discerning eye, and most people feel sorry for Du Aruo, the eldest daughter of the original spouse who has no mother.
Of course, in a village like Xiaoyang Village, it is reasonable for the villagers to have limited literacy and not understand the rules of large households, but what Yu Juan said is the rules of large households.
Three wives and four concubines, although it is said that the house is filled, and the steproom is also considered a wife, but in front of the original tablet, after all, the concubine ceremony must be executed, and in front of the concubine and concubine who came out of the original match, it is a concubine, and it is a concubine who wants to carry out the concubine ceremony......
Not only is the steproom filled in front of the original tablet to perform a concubine ceremony, but the lower original concubine is the children of the steproom, although they are also concubines, but they do not have the dignity of the original match.
The family of Dayan is a big family, and the concept of hierarchy is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
Because of such a reason, all those who leave children after the death of the original spouse, they will try to get rid of the children of the original spouse when they enter the door, one is for the children born to their own children, and the other is to deceive themselves and tell themselves that the children left by the original spouse and the original spouse are gone, and she is the mistress of the house, which is extremely noble.
Duaro was lost in thought, and she .......
From childhood to adulthood, she received the teaching that there are three unfilial pieties, no queen is great, a woman is virtuous if she is not talented, and she can't give birth to a son's daughter, and she is inferior.
The biological mother is gone, and the stepmother is also a mother, so she must respect her stepmother and treat her as her biological mother.
Now the sister of the Yu family told her that she was the daughter left by the original match, and her identity was more noble than that of the stepmother, and the stepmother had to perform the concubine ceremony in front of her deceased biological mother's tablet, which was inevitable.......
Du Aruo was stunned and said, "Sister Yu, this ......."
Is this really okay?
She has been tormented by her stepmother since she was a child, and she hated her stepmother, if she could clean up her stepmother before she got married, and report the suffering she has suffered over the years, how good it would be!
Du Aruo looked at Yu Juan with shining eyes, there were a thousand words in her eyes, Yu Juan smiled and said nothing, but Yu Yan on the side smiled and said: "Sister Aruo, this is indeed the truth, if you want to not be controlled by your stepmother, you must stand up by yourself, otherwise everything is in vain." ”
"Speaking of which, Village Chief Du shouldn't be so confused, let which of your stepmothers be powerful and bully your eldest daughter! There is a hidden secret in this, or Village Chief Du is patriarchal like most people, and if it is patriarchal, it will be a little difficult......
Yu Yan sighed, and sighed in her heart that it is really not easy for a woman to survive in this world!
The world is accustomed to patriarchy, if you are born in a family with a good father, you can still live a comfortable life, but if you are born in a family that despises your daughter, I am afraid that it will be in dire straits!
In the past, the people in their mountains, who were obviously poor and white, gave birth to seven or eight daughters in a row, so they passed on the family line in order to give birth to a son, and even sold the daughter who was conceived and born in October in order to give birth to a son......
She wondered why those parents who sold their children sold their daughters instead of their sons.
When Du Aruo heard this, she thought about it in her heart, she felt that what the two sisters of the Yu family said made sense, but they were deviant, and they were different from the three subordinates and four virtues that their country women came into contact with, and they couldn't make up their minds for a while.
"Sister Aruo, your biological mother died early, if you don't stand up on your own, when you arrive at your husband's house, I'm afraid it will bring endless trouble to your husband's family, and there are people in this world who have thicker skin than the city wall......"
Yu Yan's fluttering voice sounded in Du Aruo's ears, and Du Aruo was stunned for a moment, and Yu Yan's words kept echoing in his head.
If she doesn't stand up, will she bring endless trouble to her husband's family?
Thicker than the city walls? Is it her vicious stepmother?
On the side of the language sisters and Du Aruo, there is talk and laughter, and on the other side, there is another scene.
Du Aman was holding her breath in her chest, she was the daughter of the Du family, not Du Aruo's maid, but she was regarded as a maid, she was angry in her heart, but she thought that this was Chengenbo Mansion, and she endured it all her life, just to be able to show her face in front of the county lord of Qingyang, and get the help of the county lord of Qingyang in the future, and marry a rich and noble family smoothly.
I never thought that I was first ridiculed by the two sisters of the Yu family, and then I was ridiculed by the maids of Chengenbo Mansion.
All this, how is it different from what my father and mother said? This Yang Xia went down, what her father said, what her father planned for her, will it not succeed?
Du Aman was slapped in the face twice in a moment, and he couldn't bear it anymore, staring at the bean sprouts with a fierce face, gritting his teeth and opening his mouth, "You ......"
You dog slave, dare to be the way of this girl, are you impatient?
When she was at home, her father and mother told her that she must not offend the people of Chengenbo Mansion, if she scolded like this at this time, she would offend Chengenbo Mansion, and her father's calculation would be in vain.
Glory and wealth, maids and slaves are waiting in large groups, no, you have to endure it......