From Yu Qi's perspective as a father, two years later, his son will only be twenty years old, and it is not too late to talk about starting a family at the age of twenty.

Two years later, the third son is only twenty years old, one or two years younger than when he married his daughter-in-law?

The most important thing is that two years is enough for my son to pursue the person he likes, and enough for my son to grow up!

Two years later, if things don't work out, then the son should also let go!

After all, in two years, a lot of things may happen, and after two years, maybe the girl that the son likes in his heart has already married and had children?

"Since Zheng'er has an idea in his heart, let's be bold and break through! Two years later, when you are twenty years old, it is okay to marry and have children. Yu Qi looked at Yu Zheng's son encouragingly, and the deep meaning in his eyes made Yu Zheng stunned for a moment.

Father's meaning is to support him in working hard for his own happiness and striving for his own happiness......

Yang Yueniang was completely stunned, opened her mouth wide in surprise, and looked at Yu Qidao in disbelief: "Daddy ...... child"

Starting a family, starting a family and then starting a business, this is the eternal truth!

What the husband means is to let the child temporarily put aside the major events in life, go out to work hard for a year or two, and do not mention the matter of marrying a wife and having children for a year or two......

As a mother, it's not that she doesn't support her son to go out and work hard, but after one or two years, when she gets older, where can she find a good girl?

Yes, after a year or two, you may have made some achievements and worked hard to make a career, but when you are older, there is a good girl who is willing to marry, most of it is for the sake of money......

"Aunt, uncle and cousin's idea is quite good, one or two years is not a long time, and in two years my cousin will only be twenty years old, and twenty years old is still very young. Maybe after two years, you don't need to worry about your aunt, and your cousin will bring you a daughter-in-law back by himself? ”

Baili Guo'er opened her mouth half-jokingly, thinking secretly in her heart that it was very likely that this would really be the case.

Cousin Yu Zheng already has a woman he likes, and in two years, as long as the woman does not marry, and Cousin Yu Zheng never gives up, no matter how hard-hearted he is, he will be moved.

In addition, two years is not a big feeling, but it is enough to make one person feel dependent on another person.

Things in the world are actually very wonderful, many times, two people finally come together, not because of the initial affection, not because of the beauty and ugliness of appearance, but because the two people are just right and just need each other.

The person you love most in your heart may not be the future husband or wife, but the person who becomes the husband or wife is the most suitable.

"......" Yang Yueniang looked at Baili Guo'er in a daze.

What does the words of the county lord's niece mean to encourage her son to make a private life with others?

Privately decided for life, how ugly it is to spread out!

Although she wondered who the girl her son liked was, she didn't agree with her son and other girls' private lifelong agreements.

As the sibling sister said, it is the daughter-in-law who will live with her son in the future, not their father, she may not like the daughter-in-law chosen by her son, but she does not want the future daughter-in-law to carry a reputation that has been privately agreed with others for life.

The three of Yang's and Baili Sang'er were dumbfounded, and they only felt that their brains couldn't keep up with Baili Guo'er's amazing words at this time.

What do you mean two years later, Yu Zheng's cousin brought back a daughter-in-law to his aunt by himself......

What are these words?

Marriage matters, the order of parents, naturally have to be decided by parents, and there is a matchmaker to testify, how can he bring back a daughter-in-law by himself?

Bai Tao'er thought for a while, and said with a forced smile: "It can't be like this, this hire is a wife, Ben is a concubine, my cousin brought back a daughter-in-law to my uncle and aunt, it may be nothing to us men, at most it is young and affectionate, and for women, it is a stain that cannot be washed away in a lifetime." ”

"I don't want my cousin to want his future wife to be pointed at and despised in the future. Uncles and aunts also don't want their future daughter-in-law to be a ...... whose origin is unknown or whose reputation has been damaged."

When she said this, Bai Tao'er invisibly shook her head at Baili Guo'er, the county lord's sister-in-law, and signaled that Baili Guo'er couldn't make Yu's cousin do something deviant!

If you hire a wife, you will be a concubine, but anyone who makes a private agreement with someone for life will carry a lifetime of stains.

The world will not approve of this woman's courageous pursuit of true love.

There are too many constraints on women in the world, and every step a woman takes, she must be cautious, and she can't do things that she regrets her life because she is young and vigorous, so that she will live in pain and regret for the rest of her life......

Baili Guo'er listened to her sister-in-law Bai Tao'er's words, and her heart chuckled, and her face was pale.

How did she forget about it for a while?

This is in ancient times, in feudal society, not the new century in which she lived in her previous life, not the era of equality between men and women, advocating freedom of love.

In this era, it is very unoptimistic about the love between men and women.......

The feudal ideology shackles women, imprisons women, and the deep-rooted concept of God tells the world that women should follow their fathers at home, marry their husbands, and follow their sons when their husbands die, and women should teach their husbands and children well.

The world tells every parent that their daughter is the private property of their parents, and they marry only to bring benefits to the family and help the son of the head of the family!

The world is so ignorant, not everyone can be as enlightened as her father, who spoils her daughter.......

In this era, although the social economy is underdeveloped, if it really happens that a girl from a certain family elopes with someone, or makes a private agreement with someone for life, it will spread ten, ten and hundred, and it will be spread loudly.

The ancients did not have any laws that bound people's speech, and people could say whatever they wanted.

In ancient times, there was no entertainment, people liked the east and the west, and at this time, the spitting stars were afraid that they would drown people?

And the person who was drowned by the spitting star, people will not sympathize, they will only feel that this person deserves it, deserves to be indecent, and deserves to end up like this......

If it is a powerful family, they can still use the powerful position in their hands to suppress this gossip, and those who have no power and no power, I am afraid that they can only be forced to be pointed at by others, and the family will not be able to raise their heads from now on.

What's more, the ancients valued their reputation and regarded human life as a mustard, if there was a woman who was unmarried and lost her virginity, unmarried and pregnant, spread the word, waiting for the fate of this woman, it was a dead end, and she was drowned in the pond alive......

This is also why after she knew that she was pregnant, she immediately advanced all her plans, and tried to damage her reputation, but also to marry Assi as soon as possible, give the child a serious background, and prevent the child from becoming an illegitimate child in people's mouths in the future.