The eldest lady secretly thought like this in her heart, and at this time, the second lady was on the side, looking at it with a smile on the corner of her mouth, and her face was also deep in thought.

Yes, more than 20 years, more than 20 years, fast is not fast, slow is not slow, more than 20 years, she has changed from a young business girl to an old man who is nearly forty years old and is a grandmother.

In more than 20 years, she has gone from the daughter of a merchant family to the second lady of a first-class powerful family in Yanjing, with a group of children under her knees.

The second lady looked at Baili with a smile on her face, and said with a smile: "Fourth sister, what the sister-in-law said is very true, let it pass in the past!" In everything, we have to look forward. ”

"In the past, let it be a nostalgia!"

But it's not, what has passed is in the past, and it can only become a kind of nostalgia.

There is no 100 days of flowers, no one is young, no one can rejuvenate and return to the time when he was young.

In the past, when she was in the boudoir, she was just a merchant's family, and the lady of the main house was nearly thirty years old, and she was a woman who did not have a brother of her mother's compatriots.

When I was in my mother's house, I was not loved by my father, and I was cautious if I had the name of a daughter......

is obviously a concubine, but she is not as good as a favored concubine!

However, the world is impermanent, who would have thought that she, a merchant family and the daughter of a merchant who was not loved by her father, was able to marry into Lanling Houfu, one of the most powerful families in Yanjing, by chance?

Or do you want to be a wife?

Her father, who spoiled his concubine and killed his wife, doted on his concubine, and despised her, the daughter born in the main room, was full of copper smell, and regretted it in his heart.

I regret that I once despised their mother and son, and favored the concubines!

The elder brothers born to the favorite concubines of the businessman's father, the son inherited his father's business, and was still a lowly businessman, but she was the daughter of a wife who was not loved, but she became the wife of an official eunuch.

So many years have passed, although she is also a mother, the age of being a grandmother, but she still can't let go, she can't forget when she was young, and her mother was in a deserted small yard, and the days when the mother and daughter were huddled together to keep warm, and she couldn't forget that she once wanted to see her father and secretly ran out to find her father, but she saw her father facing several brothers and sisters, and she loved her aunt with her aunt......

All of them are because her mother is a wife, but she has no children for many years, and she only gave birth to a daughter.

Oh, it's not that her mother can't give birth, but when she was young, she fell in love with her father's childhood sweetheart's favorite concubine and hurt her body, so she didn't give birth to her daughter until she was thirty years old.

Knowing that her mother was a victim, her father, turned a blind eye, and when nothing happened, how could she forgive such a father?

Because of these various reasons, after she married into the Lanling Houfu, she only visited her biological mother when she returned to her parents' house, and ignored her mother-in-law and brother-in-law.

Later, when her biological father was old, she had to support her childhood sweetheart, give birth to many concubines, and after the favored concubine took the place of her biological mother, she never stepped into her mother's house.

This time, the second lady looked at Baili's who was married to Yunzhou, and this sister-in-law touched the scene, and for no reason thought of the time when she was not married.

Her experience is different, so she can't understand the mood of this fourth sister who married in Yunzhou at this time!

However, when her biological mother was still alive, although she was married and was the daughter-in-law of the Baili family in Lanling Houfu, she was not worried about her mother's family all the time, because she had no children and was ostracized, and her mother lived a lonely life.

"What the sister-in-law and the second sister-in-law said is that Siniang was stunned for a while!" Baili pondered for a moment, nodded, and said secretly in his heart, isn't this the reason for things?

She has been married for many years, and after a woman gets married, she will be a member of her husband's family!

At home, from the father, married to the husband, and the person who became the husband's family, it is impossible to ignore the change of his identity, not to be able to twist the form, not to teach his husband and children in the husband's house, to be filial to his in-laws, but to return to his parents' house in three days.

If you marry and become a daughter-in-law of your husband's family, your words and deeds represent not only yourself, but also the reputation of your husband's family.

There are no rules, if the married girl can go back to her parents' house at will, once this matter is precedent, won't the world be chaotic?

Baili's and the eldest lady, the second lady, and the three sisters-in-law were talking with a smile, and the two Tong Qiaoxin sisters were on the side, listening to them in their ears, and fell into deep thought.

The two sisters, since childhood, have been carefully taught by Baili's mother, although the two have different personalities, but they are not stupid people, many things, are able to see the inside through the surface of things, can pass through the appearance, and according to the appearance, into the depth of thinking about things.

This time, their mothers and daughters, in three or four years, have not come to their grandfather's house, and they think that they are touching the scene.

This courtyard is said to be the courtyard where the mother and several aunts lived before they left the pavilion, and now looking at the little bits and pieces of these years ago, it is natural to miss the leisurely time when they used to be a girl.

Being a girl at home and marrying someone to be a daughter-in-law are two completely different concepts!

Being a girl at home, especially the girl in Lanling Houfu, my grandfather's home, was raised by her father and mother and raised in the palm of her hand, and when she went out and became a daughter-in-law, she not only had to be filial to her in-laws and serve her husband, but also to have children and take care of housework......

The two sisters, Tong Qiaoyin is better, after all, she is young, and she is still seven or eight years away from getting married, and Tong Qiaoxin is already in time, and the wedding date is in March of the next year.

When she was at home, her father only had a wife and no concubines, she was envious of her father and mother's life as a couple, and she also wanted to live a life of a couple, but ......

In the world, except for those poor families, the grandfather's family here in Yanjing, who have a couple for a lifetime, but all the families with some powerful positions are afraid that they are all wives and concubines.

Her future husband's family, the Pingyang Hou Mansion, is not as valuable as her grandfather's family in Yanjing, but it is also a powerful and wealthy family, and a man from a rich family must have one or two beautiful concubines with red sleeves and fragrance.

A beautiful wife and concubine, hugging left and right, isn't it what the man of heaven pursues all his life?

As the saying goes, all men in the world are lucky, and all men in the world are lustful.

In this era, concubines became a common practice, that is, a slightly poor peasant family, with some surplus grain and some silver money at home, all thinking of taking a young and beautiful concubine......

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Haha, all men in the world are lucky, this idea is actually a bit absolute, but the times are different, and the circumstances are naturally different.

Just as in the Northern Song Dynasty, concubines became popular, and there was a poem that wrote: Eighteen brides and eighty langs, pale hair and red makeup.

It can be seen that in the era when concubines became popular, men's concubines seemed to have become a symbol of status, and if they did not take concubines, they seemed to be sorry for their identity, and they seemed to be despised and looked down upon because of this!

In this regard, Xiaosheng is here, and he can only look up to the sky and laugh three times, ha....... Ha...... Ha......