Chapter 38 School Fights, Psychological Problems
Yu Xi has always been a master of protecting the short, and his gaze shifted to the little boy in the arms of a woman wearing a cheongsam.
may be because of development, half a head shorter than Xingyu.
Seeing her gaze projected, he pouted aggrievedly. He stepped back, firmly grasping the arm of the woman who was holding him.
"The cause and effect of the incident have not yet been decided, if it is our family Xingyu's fault, I will definitely not deny it, but if not, I will definitely not let other people bully my son."
In a word, he was mighty and domineering, but Bo Xingyu lowered his head even lower.
The kindergarten teacher knew that these two could not be provoked, so they simply stopped reconciling. Directly called up the monitoring.
"Here's the thing...... We didn't expect Bo Xingyu to suddenly make a move. ”
The kindergarten teacher looked at Yu Xi with an expressionless face and cold eyes, and she used to just think she was beautiful, but now when she looks closer, her skin is as white as snow, and her skin is as delicate as an egg that has just been peeled. I don't know how there is such a perfect person in this world.
"Anyway, our family cola never causes trouble, obediently listens to the teacher in kindergarten, and is sensible and well-behaved at home. On the contrary, your children seem harmless to humans and animals on the surface, but in fact they are ruthless. ”
Holding her younger brother, the woman in the cheongsam became more and more distressed.
Looking at a red finger mark on the child's face, I became more and more sad.
As if sensing that his sister was not very happy, the boy called Coke tried to raise his face, and smiled at the corners of his mouth: "Cute, in fact, it doesn't hurt much." It's just a little uncomfortable, just go home and ask grandpa to smear some medicinal wine on me, don't worry. ”
was so sensible at a young age, hearing these words.
Yu Xi couldn't help but feel a little ashamed, but after reading the parenting book for nearly five years, Yu Xi was not the first to give an explanation in front of outsiders. Instead, he asked Bo Xingyu what happened.
Sometimes language is deceiving, and what you see and hear is not necessarily true.
Compared with outsiders, helping relatives does not help.
Bo Xingyu was silent, hugged her neck amid Yu Xi's stubborn gaze, and put his head around her neck.
The hot liquid flowing out of his eyes made Yu Xi shiver all at once.
Bo Xingyu trembled and said aggrievedly: "I don't like him, he always shows off his father to me, if he doesn't always show off his father, I won't do it." ”
Hearing this answer, Yu Xi was stunned for a moment.
It's not because Bo Xingyu cares about his father, nor because of his grievances. But I didn't expect him to beat others for such a small reason.
She saw with her own eyes that the little boy in the video also gave him the meat in his bowl, and the show-off in Xingyu's mouth was more likely to be shared by a child.
Yu Xi hugged him vigorously, and then stood up vigorously, his eyes were full of guilt, looking at the woman wearing a cheongsam with a temperament like Lan, and said embarrassedly: "Sister Cole, I'm really embarrassed, I didn't expect our family Xingyu to be because of this kind of thing." ”
I really couldn't say it, so Yu Xi had to change the topic.
"If you can, I will be responsible for the child's treatment fees, nursing fees, and follow-up mental compensation, I hope you don't mind."
The child cried so aggrievedly, and the sound of sobbing could be heard in the office. Cuteness can't really be pestered with a little child.
But my own child has a wound on his face, and he can't swallow this breath no matter what. The cute half-squatting body, and didn't look at the handsome-looking and fashionably dressed woman, and said to her child half-discussed: "Coke, if you have any ideas, just tell your sister, as long as it's not too much, your sister can help you do it." ”
At the beginning of man, nature is evil. That's why you need rules to regulate your behavior.
Cute didn't feel that there was anything wrong with not immediately forgiving the bad boy, but what she didn't expect was that Coke shook her head.
The milky voice wrenched her fingers and said, "It's okay, cute." When we went home, I just hurt a little, and when Xingyu hit me, it wasn't even heavy, I just couldn't help but feel aggrieved and wanted to cry. ”
The more I listened, the more embarrassed I became, Yu Xinu was about to explain, when he heard a cute and sharp voice, "I can ignore this matter for the time being, but I reserve the right to pursue it, and it is impossible for our children to stay in the same class with this violent child, whether it is to transfer classes or schools, I need to go back and discuss with his parents, that's all." ”
waited until the end and didn't wait for the child to apologize, but she heard his mother say sorry several times, and she didn't feel moved by anything about being able to make that kind of strong woman in the mall so embarrassed and out of shape, but she became more and more disgusted with Bo Xingyu.
After saying hello to the teacher, Yu Xi carried Bo Xingyu out of the school gate and came to the car.
After fastening his seat belt, Yu Xi looked at the rearview mirror with an indifferent face, and Bo Xingyu was also aware of his mother's emotions, and squeezed his hand uneasily.
"Mom, I'm sorry."
"The person you're sorry for isn't me, it's the Coke kid."
There is no habit of teaching people on the road, and because of Bo Xingyu's body over the years, Yu Xi has basically been obedient to him.
But on this kind of major issue of right and wrong, she has always refused to give up an inch of land.
She can accept that her son is not in good health, not smart enough, and just a mediocre person, but it is hard to imagine that he will fight with well-behaved and sensible classmates at school, and he will not change his mistakes.
Bo Xingyu also knew that what he was doing in kindergarten was wrong.
He lowered his head, and his clothes were soaked with tears drop by drop.
He remembered the bits and pieces of Coke playing with him on weekdays, and the children in the kindergarten thought he was cold and didn't want to play with him. Only Coke doesn't dislike him, and will take him with him no matter what he does. Even when eating, he will give himself half of the food he likes to eat in the bowl.
And he, instead, started playing Coke.
I think of the scene where Coke sits on the chair and cries out of a wow. Bo Xingyu became more and more sad, he just didn't want to listen to Coke and keep mentioning his father, he just wanted him to shut up, who would have thought that he would be so fragile.
"You're saying Xingyu has autistic tendencies?"
Sitting on the sofa, Bo Qianchuan raised his eyelids, and was finally willing to give Li Jiarui, who had been chattering, a reaction.
Li Jiarui knew that he was not in shape, but he didn't expect him to be indifferent to this kind of thing. Standing up and raising his footsteps, he planned to go to the marketing department to find Yu Xi, who was also his biological mother, and would always pay more attention to this matter.
Seeing his movements and the serious expression on his face, Bo Qianchuan also put away his playfulness and asked in disbelief: "What you said is true, confirm that you are not joking." ”
"What's the point of me joking with you about this kind of thing, the reason why I tell you is also because the child is not very obvious now, if he can be correctly guided, he may not be cured, but at least he will not be able to get worse."
Although he majored in psychology at a foreign university, he paid more attention to the psychological profile of the suspect, and as for the rehabilitation of children, he still had to find a professional.
"How could this be."
Asakawa frowned, his hands clenched the chair tightly, and his eyes rolled as if he was thinking about something.
Li Jiarui also heard the professor talk about some criminals because of their autism when they were children, so they will have anti-social tendencies, but he didn't do much in-depth understanding at the time, but simply remembered a few characteristics, "No matter how you say it, it's his father, even if you don't care about him, think about whether Bo Xingyu has the following characteristics, such as not liking to talk, like to be alone, dull eyes, and unable to concentrate in some aspects of learning, But in some aspects, he has extraordinary talents, and he is unwilling to communicate with others. ”
Recalling Bo Xingyu's attitude towards living at home for a period of time, Bo Qianchuan found that what he said to Li Jiarui was really right.
The expression on his face was instantly stunned, and he clenched his fists tightly, "How can it be autism, he is usually very close to Yu Xi, and Aunt Wu ......"
"Stop, it's useless to speculate here now, you might as well go home now and transfer Xingyu to the relevant agency, and come back after the examination. If he has autistic tendencies, then treat it early, if not, everyone is happy, you know. ”
has always been calm, Li Jiarui analyzed, but a glimmer of light flashed in his eyes.
"Don't worry, like an ant on a hot pan. The calm and domineering Bo Qianchuan on weekdays will come back for the time being, and you don't think you should call Yu Xi now, she is the mother of the child, and you also said that Xingyu is the closest to her, and if she is by her side, it should ease his uneasy mood. ”
It is naturally self-evident who he is in Li Jiarui's mouth, and Bo Qianchuan thinks of that fleshy round face, and remembers his unconscious dreams when he wants to sleep at night.
Slammed his fist on the table, "How can it be autism, I don't understand, I don't understand." ”
Autism is divided into congenital and acquired, but according to Li Jiarui's meaning, Bo Xingyu's autism is likely to be acquired.
Like a straight poplar sitting on the sofa, Li Jiarui's eyes are like torches, as if he can penetrate all the darkness in the world and go straight to the light.
His lips opened slightly, "What's not to understand about this, have you fulfilled the responsibility of being a father over the years, to be honest, if it weren't for Yu Xi, maybe the child's condition would be a little more serious, at this stage of a child's early growth, the company of parents is the most important, and the influence of the original family is likely to guide the development of this life." ”
There are many tragedies in this world because of the rapid transformation of the soul brought about by the environment of the original family.
When Li Jiarui was waiting for the psychological profiler of the police, he had seen countless darkness. It is precisely because of this that he believes in the light more and more.