Chapter 200: Exhortation
"Huh? Oh, oh, today, she came to me and talked a lot. After listening to Li Xueyue's question, Li Xuezhe hurriedly said. However, this answer was the same as not saying it, and Li Xueyue wanted to roll her eyes when she heard it.
Came to him and said a lot? Isn't this nonsense?
Throwing all the way over and not speaking, are the two of them standing at the door blowing the cold wind? Even if it is a cold wind, looking at Li Xuezhe's dizzy appearance now, I haven't seen how sober he is blown!
Li Xueyue patiently asked again, "I know you have said a lot...... It's just that what I want to know is what she came to you specifically for and what she said. ”
Li Xuezhe is not sober now, and he is not so stupid that his IQ is offline. Li Xueyue's words have all come to this, and it is impossible for Li Xuezhe not to have reflected how stupid his answer just now was.
"When she came to me, she told me that her family was ready to let her remarry." Li Xuezhe said.
"Marry?" This really surprised Li Xueyue.
What kind of person Zhang Qiaoqiao is and what has he done, is there still anyone who doesn't know? Even if so, will anyone marry her again? Li Xueyue couldn't figure it out, was that person full of food?
"To be honest, I was shocked when I heard the news." Li Xuezhe saw the undisguised surprise on Li Xueyue's face, and said with a wry smile: "I didn't expect that she would ...... so soon."
"Could it be that you still think that after a while, your father and grandfather will be angry, and then get Zhang Qiaoqiao back?" Li Xueyue said: "However, I think with their temper, it is impossible to forgive this kind of thing." So I advise you to dispel this idea as soon as possible. ”
Li Xuezhe shook his head, "I didn't have such an idea for a long time. ”
Li Xueyue keenly grasped the point of her words, meaning that she had really had such an idea before? She couldn't help but shake her head, Li Xueyue really couldn't think of what was so good about Zhang Qiaoqiao's woman that Li Xuezhe would never forget? He's still young, and he can't get down this crooked neck tree?
"That Zhang Qiaoqiao came to see you today just to talk about this?" Li Xueyue asked, "Does she want you to change your mind?" ”
Li Xuezhe shook his head, "Even if I wanted to, they wouldn't agree." ”
"It's hard to figure this out. Didn't you talk about it for a long time? Didn't she tell you anything else? ”
Li Xuezhe shook his head, "In addition to this incident, what she said the most was how she regretted it, saying that she felt sorry for me for what happened at the beginning, but she didn't say anything to make me forgive." ”
"She is not worthy of forgiveness like that, listen to the advice of the eldest sister, don't nest in the house every day and do nothing, look at what kind of life you are living now? Hurry up and pack yourself up, there are still a lot of women waiting, why bother to be like this for the sake of someone who betrayed you? How can there be a man? ”
The previous words Li Xuezhe went in and out of his left ear and out of his right ear, after all, he had heard similar words many times these days. His father, his grandfather, and the rest of his family, every time they saw him, they couldn't help but hate him for educating him.
Li Xuezhe was tired of hearing it, anyway, it was just a few words.
But when you hear the last sentence, how can you still look like a man?
It made Li Xuezhe think of Zhang Qiaoqiao again.
She used to love to say that about him, cowardly, not like a man. Li Xuezhe has also secretly condemned himself more than once, and he also wants to change it, but there is no way. Since he was a child, he has always been like this, and after so many years, he has never changed much.
So no matter how Zhang Qiaoqiao usually scolds him, Li Xuezhe doesn't think there's anything wrong with Zhang Qiaoqiao. Because he knows what kind of person he is, Zhang Qiaoqiao is already very good if he is willing to follow him, why should he ask others to be considerate of him everywhere?
Whether it is the conditions at home or his character, Li Xuezhe has always felt that Zhang Qiaoqiao has not given up on him.
"I see, big sister."
Li Xueyue looked at Li Xuezhe as if she was stunned for a while, not knowing what she was thinking, and then suddenly seemed to have figured it out, and the expression on her face became a little less weak and more firm.
Li Xueyue only thought that her own advice worked, and she didn't say much after seeing that Li Xuezhe had the intention of changing, anyway, in the final analysis, she was just here to inquire about the news, and Li Xuezhe's relationship with her was really not good, he should reflect on it, and he should be degenerate, and he had nothing to do with her.
Now it seems that Li Xuezhe should not know what Li Xueqing has done related to her, and he should not get any useful news if he talks about it again. Li Xueyue got up and prepared to leave.
"I'll send you." Li Xuezhe saw that Li Xueyue was leaving, so he hurriedly stood up and said.
Li Xueyue shook her head helplessly, "No need." ”
Originally, it was only a few steps from here to the door, and Li Xueyue really felt that there was no need to send it out. Coupled with Li Xuezhe's state, it didn't look like he could send her out at all, Li Xueyue suspected that he sent her to the door, maybe he would have to hold on to the wall when she went back.
The main reason is that his mental state doesn't seem to be good, and Li Xueyue is too lazy to let him do more of these meaningless things.
"But eldest sister, I don't want to see Qiaoqiao marry someone else." Li Xueyue walked to the door, and suddenly heard Li Xuezhe say this again.
Li Xueyue couldn't help but sigh, turned around and said, "But Xuezhe, what the eldest sister wants to tell you is that there are too many helpless things in this world, and there are too many unsatisfactory things in life, and we can't have to satisfy ourselves with everything." It's normal to not get a lot of things you want, so we need to find another way to make ourselves happy. ”
"Another way?" Li Xuezhe didn't seem to understand what Li Xueyue meant.
Li Xueyue nodded, "We have to learn to give up, and we must know that there are those things that we can't get even if we work hard." What we have to do is not to grab all that we want and keep all the people we want, but to leave what we can. Do you know what I mean? ”
Li Xueyue had already thought through this as early as when she left the Jiang family, the conditions of the Jiang family were very good, and if she stayed there, she could at least live a well-fed and clothed life, and she didn't have to look at other people's eyes if she ate a little more than she did when she was still in the Li family.
But the Jiang family also has shortcomings, and every woman there wants to be the only hostess. So after so many years in the Jiang family, Li Xueyue found that in addition to living a prosperous life, she didn't have any nostalgia for the Jiang family for so long.
In other words, from beginning to end, she was just a passerby who lived there. She can't treat the people of the Jiang family as a member of the family, and no one in the Jiang family wants to have any deep relationship with her.
Li Xuezhe was silent for a moment and nodded, "I know." ”
After Li Xueyue left, it took a long time for Li Xuezhe to realize that it was too much effort to stand, so he sat down on the spot.
In fact, when Zhang Qiaoqiao came to him today, Li Xuezhe didn't remember a lot of things he said very clearly, mainly because Zhang Qiaoqiao said too much. And the content of what he said was different from when they got along before, at that time, Zhang Qiaoqiao didn't say anything to him except yelling at him or scolding him.
But when Zhang Qiaoqiao spoke today, she was like two people before, and her love was sincere, and every word and sentence was expressing how much she regretted it for so many days and how resistant she was to what was going to happen. She said that she was sorry for him, and even if she didn't ask for his forgiveness, she still wanted to tell him how much she regretted it.
There were a few times when Li Xuezhe was almost moved by Zhang Qiaoqiao.
He really wanted to take Zhang Qiaoqiao into the house, kneel in front of his grandfather and his father, beg them to forgive Zhang Qiaoqiao, and promise that she would not do it again in the future. I just hope that they can agree to Zhang Qiaoqiao to return to his side again, so that their relationship will be the same as before.
Such an idea occurred because Li Xuezhe was soft-hearted, and he did not take action because of his cowardice.
Li Xuezhe admits that he did not dare to do so.
Although he thought so, he knew better than anyone else that Li Haotian and they would definitely forgive Zhang Qiaoqiao, no matter how many good things he said, they would not show any mercy in the face of the daughter-in-law who betrayed the Li family.
Otherwise, she wouldn't have been beaten like that and no one would have been allowed to take care of her in the first place.
So when he was standing outside the courtyard and listening to Zhang Qiaoqiao, the emotion that surged up most in Li Xuezhe's heart was not moved, not soft-hearted, but afraid.
So until Zhang Qiaoqiao finished speaking, and then reluctantly left, Li Xuezhe didn't say anything. It's just that after watching Zhang Qiaoqiao leave at the end, he returned home in a daze.
Li Xuezhe, who was still very entangled, felt that he had received correct guidance after listening to Li Xueyue's words.
He should indeed learn to let go of some things and let go of a person as Li Xueyue said.
After listening to Zhang Qiaoqiao's words today, Li Xuezhe's heart was indeed very shaken. But he just likes Zhang Qiaoqiao very much and is willing to be good to her, but he doesn't really know what kind of person she is.
Li Xuezhe also felt very strange about this, he knew that what Zhang Qiaoqiao said was not necessarily true, and he also knew that although Zhang Qiaoqiao regretted what he said, if he really let Zhang Qiaoqiao come back again, she would still do this kind of thing. Li Xuezhe likes Zhang Qiaoqiao more than anyone else, so naturally he knows her better than anyone else.
So Li Xueyue's words woke up Li Xuezhe very well, Zhang Qiaoqiao is the person he likes very much, but he doesn't have to hold on to it. No matter how much he doesn't want to see Zhang Qiaoqiao marry someone else, no matter what he does now, it will be useless. In that case, instead of dwelling on this matter at home, it is better to persuade yourself to let go.
Since you can't catch it, let her go. Li Xuezhe knew that what he could do was just a silent blessing.
After Li Xueyue left from Li Xuezhe, she made up her mind to go to Li Xueyan. She didn't want to guess like this, she didn't want to doubt Li Xueyan, but she had to do it.
Although her relationship with Li Xueyan has never been very good, the relationship between her sisters is like that of cousins. But after all, there is the same blood in the body, no matter how much they don't like each other, Li Xueyue also hopes that Li Xueyan, who is her own sister, is not the one who framed her.
But after Li Xueyue inquired about Li Xueyan's residence, she went to look for it for two days in a row, but she didn't see anyone. I have seen her poor mother who was kicked out a few times, but Li Xueyue has not appeared in front of her once.