Chapter 320: Straightening Out (One Change)
Brother's mood, Zongbei can understand, in the countryside of this era, most marriages are like this, at the right age, the matchmaker helps to match, and when they meet, as long as they can see each other, they will come down.
The man accompanies the woman to buy something, gets along twice, and basically gets married, and then immediately after, the woman's family lists the bride price, the man looks at it, the two parties negotiate it, and after the bride price, you can get married.
As for feelings, few people will consider it, unless it is free love, otherwise, marriage seems to be an equivalent transaction, and everyone does not reject such a transaction.
In this environment, Zong Bao does not have a deep understanding of marriage and feelings, and his approach is a little inappropriate, which is a very normal thing, not to mention him, even Zong Li and Mao Yue, don't they also accept this way?
It's just that during this time, the appearance of Nanzi, coupled with the frequent contacts of the Su family, seems to have opened a window for the Zong family, which has changed the family's thinking a lot.
And at the beginning, Zongbei didn't persuade her brother much, because she didn't have a deep understanding of feelings, plus her brother and Li Ying got along well, and Li Ying was good to her brother, she didn't want to affect her brother's happiness because of her interference.
But now, after getting acquainted with Nanzi, she gradually understands what true love is, what it feels like to like someone, since her brother is also aware of this, she will definitely not be happy if she makes do.
With his brother's character, if he breaks up with Li Ying, he will definitely feel ashamed of the other party and will feel uncomfortable for a long time, but compared with a lifetime of happiness, what is a period of discomfort?
As for Li Ying, if she doesn't understand, she may always misread her brother, thinking that he gave up on her because he disliked her background, if you can figure it out, you can understand that her brother is actually responsible for the two of them.
In fact, she was also a little uncomfortable in her heart, or, even if she had a chance to do it all over again, she still hadn't cultivated to her home, and she couldn't look at everything indifferently.
Of course, in the end, it's impossible to say, my brother is really not enlightened in this regard, I hope that after this incident, he can really understand what kind of life he wants, what kind of life he wants, and naturally he will know what kind of girl to choose as his other half.
I don't know when Su Jiao, who stood behind the brother and sister, finally couldn't help but speak: "Zong Bao, feel uncomfortable?" ”
"Yes." Zong Bao admitted frankly, "But Li Ying can't be blamed for this, it's my own business, it's because I don't understand what kind of girl I like, but I don't want to live in a daze, so I'm entangled." ”
Looking at him lightly for a while, Su Jiao hit the nail on the head and said, "You are not afraid to say no to the other party at all, everything else is an excuse." Without waiting for Zong Bao to answer, she continued, "Some kindness, it seemed to be kind at the time, but I didn't want to hurt the other party, but later I will find out that it was cowardice and an excuse, and the consequence was that it backfired and hurt people even more." ”