I have a good impression of He Lei, although the contact time is not long, but the mature charm he exudes is rare.

We added WeChat to each other, left a mobile phone number, I intend to invite him to work in the company, He Lei said that he was thinking about it, I don't understand why he hesitated, but he couldn't eat hot tofu in a hurry, good things are grinding, not to mention that we now have the same goal, that is, blind date.

I don't have much hope for this matchmaking company, whether it is from TV or books, contemporary young people seem to be particularly sensitive to the topic of blind dates, and the chances of success are also very small.

But you can't live up to the scumbag's wishes, you can be safe, meet with your blind date, have a meal, chat about family life, and talk about work, there is nothing wrong with it.

When I returned to the apartment in the evening, I sat in front of the computer and found a blind date movie on the Internet, which was "Love Call Transfer" starring Xu Zheng, this movie is particularly interesting, it is a comedy style, the protagonist Xu Lang met an angel in an accident, and the angel gave him a mobile phone, which made him experience the love with twelve women of different constellations, and gradually opened the knot in his heart.

From the moment he got the phone, ten different types of women broke into Xu Lang's life, they were either sexy and beautiful, or hearty and capable, or calculating, or elf eccentric, or intellectual and elegant, or innocent, or worth millions, or mysterious and cold...... These women who once made Xu Lang think about it brought him inexhaustible happiness and inexhaustible sorrow.

I was very engaged, laughing from time to time, and feeling a little from time to time, Brother Scumbag came over with a can of beer and said: "Yo, I have improved, I know how to take the initiative to find a blind date movie to watch." ”

"I haven't been on a blind date, of course I have to learn to study, otherwise I won't even be able to find a topic when I meet a girl."

I smiled wryly, took the beer from Brother Scumbag's hand, raised my head and took a big sip.

Brother Scumbag sat next to me, smiled and said, "What did the matchmaking company say?" ”

"Let me come back and wait for the call, they arrange a blind date."

I said with a light sigh.

Brother Scum, thought for a moment and said: "I think you and Qin Xiaolan are quite suitable, instead of going on a blind date for the purpose of strolling here, you two might as well make a couple, which is also a good thing for everyone to be happy." ”

I glared at the scumbag brother, and said angrily: "Qin Xiaolan? I can't stop that girl, her eyes are a ghost idea, in other words, she is not the type I like, we are too familiar, from when I was in school, until now, it is a friend relationship, no one wants to pierce the window paper, in case it is not suitable, then I can't even be a friend in the future, so I don't take that risk. ”

"Yo yo, look at you, Qin Xiaolan is a girl like a flower, what is not worthy of you, she is now your assistant, if you can get married, whether it is life or work, it will be good for you."

Brother Scumbag squinted at me, very dissatisfied with what I just said.

I drank the rest of the beer, sighed and said, "Brother scum, I know your good intentions, but Qin Xiaolan and I really don't call, she is bouncing all day long, heartless, like a child who hasn't grown up, I only treat her as a sister." ”

"Then what about you and Wang Ling calling?"

Brother scumbag giggled, I shrugged my shoulders and said, "That's different, if Wang Ling didn't get pregnant, I wouldn't marry her." ”

"Speaking of which, you still like pretty girls, don't you?"

I laughed dryly twice, and said helplessly: "My Fair Lady, how good a gentleman is, this is human nature, if you don't believe it, you can go to the street and ask, which man doesn't like beautiful women, right?" ”

Brother Scumbag patted me on the back of the head, stood up and said, "You are a strong word, it is true that men like beautiful women, but how many people can sit still?" Although it is not illegal to look at beautiful women, it is unforgivable to touch the bottom line. ”

I nodded and said, "That's right, I'm the one who touched the bottom line." ”

Brother scumbag glanced at me and said lightly: "You are good, at least you know that turning back, although it took a lot of energy, but you didn't lose anything, some people are not like this, they know that they have done wrong, and they are wrong again and again, and they don't repent, so it's very dangerous, you see how high the divorce rate is now, not long after forming a family, the husband and wife may divorce because of trivial things." ”

I quite approvingly said: "That's true, the husband and wife lack understanding, when they fall in love, they are full of enthusiasm, either growing old together, or unforgettable, and after getting married, they will be dragged down by firewood, rice, oil, salt and endless housework, and have to take care of children after giving birth, and work is not smooth and very annoying, but there are very few who can survive that period." ”

Brother Scum, walked to the refrigerator, took out two more cans of beer, handed me one and said: "Therefore, today's young people have too much work pressure, there are old people to support, children to take care of, and those with higher incomes are quite stable, and those who do not have a garage and are burdened with huge loans have unstable marriages." ”

He took a sip of beer and said, "Young men and women in this period are the most likely to cheat. ”

I closed my laptop and said curiously, "Why?" ”

Brother Scumbag dragged over the chair, sat down and said, "Do you think, how many women in this world are loyal? ”

"I don't know."

I took a sip of beer, burped again, and said, "What does this have to do with loyalty, since you are married, let's live a good life, especially if you have children and a family with a stable job, what is there to make a fuss?" ”

Brother scumbag laughed and said: "That's your idea, not all families are as stable as they seem on the surface, women's hearts are particularly fragile, unlike men, they especially want to find an emotional sustenance during a sensitive period, or a first love, or a friend, or a classmate, there is a big psychological gap here." ”

I wondered, "What's the gap?" ”

Brother Scumbag sighed and said: "From a girl to a mother-in-law, after giving birth to a child, her figure is out of shape, she walks around the stove every day, the things she once loved have also been smoothed out by the bitterness of life, every day is to serve the child tastelessly, waiting for her husband to get off work, and you can see the head at a glance, the emptiness and loneliness brought by the soul are not made up by the family." ”

"So you cheated?"

I sneered, feeling that the scumbag brother had a talent for being a comedian.

"That's not, those with good family backgrounds, strong mental quality, and loyalty to love will definitely not cheat, if you can't withstand the temptation, be deceived by other men, or be bewitched by rhetoric, it's easy to cheat."

What the scumbag brother said is the Tao, with a nose and eyes, I listened very carefully and was quite curious.

"Brother scumbag, what about the man's cheating? Is it because of the stress at work? ”

Brother scumbag gently pinched the can, making a rattling sound, he smiled and said: "Men's cheating has a certain relationship with work pressure, but it is not the root cause, men are the beams of the family, is the backbone, once you change your mind, not only will it affect the family relationship, but also look at your wife more and more unpleasant, the same is baptized by life, the change of women is the most obvious, from a white and pure girl, to a freckleled yellow-faced woman, from a docile girl like a cat, to a loud and shouting woman, And it will become more and more obvious. ”

Brother scumbag paused and continued: "But men are different, men don't change much before and after marriage, some may become slightly fatter, some may become more handsome after the nourishment of married life, and men who sit still are better, those who can't withstand the temptation, complain, lack of ability and want to be content with the destiny of men, it is easy to cheat after marriage, in the name of saying that work is stressful, there is nowhere to vent anger, this is a false proposition, do not admit what they have done, dump the pot all over the world, and want to escape the involvement." ”

He drank all the beer in his hand, stood up and patted me on the shoulder and said: "So I summed it up, contemporary young men and women, if they want to get married, the premise is to have independent economic income, and mutual understanding of character characteristics, now there is no term called trial marriage, that is, the two live together first, do not get a marriage certificate, when the relationship between the two parties has problems, small contradictions should be solved as soon as possible, big contradictions should also be discussed, keep patience, mutual understanding, if you really can't get by, they will part ways, each looking for a way out." ”

I listened drowsily, glanced at the clock on the wall and said, "Brother scum, you can be an emotional expert, where did you learn?" ”

He threw the can into the paper tube and said: "This is something that you can't learn from books, it's called life experience, and you have been divorced once, and you don't have any understanding of family life." ”

"I was cheated, what can I feel, only regret is almost the same."

I stood up, rubbed my dry eyes, yawned again, and said, "I'll go to bed first, what's going on with the company tomorrow?" ”

As soon as I finished speaking, the mobile phone screen lit up, picked it up and checked, it was a text message notification, after clicking on it, it read: Dear Wang Tao man, I am the customer service of the marriage company, there is the contact number of Ms. Liang Xue below, the specific meeting place, please decide for yourself, I wish you a successful blind date.

I whispered, "It turns out that the girl's name is Liang Xue." ”

Brother Scumbag glanced at me and said, "Tomorrow the company will be fine, you can boldly go on a blind date." ”

After saying that, Brother Zam yawned and walked back to the bedroom.

I sat on the sofa, according to my mobile phone number, I added Liang Xue's WeChat, waited for a while, and when I didn't see a reply, I fell asleep in a deep sleep.

When I woke up the next day, Brother Scumbag prepared breakfast, and after eating, he hurried to work, and did not forget to tell me to play well before leaving.

I clicked on WeChat and found that she had approved my friend request, I typed the word hello on the screen, and after sending it, she replied to the message in seconds, which was a smiling emoji.

I introduced myself and said everything that was not an advantage, but she went straight to the point and asked to meet, how could I excuse myself, and after careful consideration, I drove to the agreed teahouse.

Today is Sunday, and it is rare for her to have time, this teahouse is located in the new city of Hexi, just opened, the store environment is elegant, the air is fragrant, it coincides with the weekend, there are many customers here, almost all of them are couples in pairs, or students who are in class nearby, they have to talk and laugh, and they are happy, which reminds me of the ancient poem, the color is not charming and people are fascinated, and the lover's eyes are out of Xi Shi, which is really very appropriate.

I sat down near the window, and a boy in his twenties, with delicate features and fair skin, came up and handed me a tea recipe and said, "What kind of tea would you like to drink, sir?" ”

I didn't have a habit of drinking tea, so I smiled and said, "Just pour a glass of boiled water." ”

"Okay, wait a minute."

After the boy left, a girl in a red dress pushed the door in, she had curly brown hair, a tall figure, a curvaceous curve, a pair of beautiful eyes that were unusually vivid, a cherry mouth exuding a seductive sheen, a fluttering skirt, charming and dignified, and two silver pendants hanging from her earlobes.

She glanced in my direction, pursed her lips and smiled, and walked over slowly.