Chapter 947 - Conclusions should not be drawn too early
"Thank you, grandpa, I feel at ease with your words." It is really a special honor for me to be able to get such a pertinent sentence from my grandfather.
In other words, basically grandpa will not have any reason to object, and he also makes a position that as long as he likes it, he will definitely not object.
Then I don't need to hide it from my family, maybe I can take her home and see my mother.
Anyway, grandpa has already seen it, and the next thing is to see his mother, as for his father, he doesn't have such an idea, he may notify him when he gets married, and he doesn't feel the need to say hello to him before.
Anyway, his choice has nothing to do with him, in the end, he just informed him, told him that there is such a thing, adjust it by himself, and he has nothing to discuss with him.
On the contrary, it was her own mother, who felt the need to ask for it, and the other party took it back to show her. Ye Jinghao's heart is most distressed by his mother, knowing that she has not had a good time all these years, and she has survived in the Ye family for herself.
If she said that she was going to get married, she should be the happiest, she had been looking forward to it for so many years, waiting for so many years, and finally waiting for this day, when she was going to get married, so she should be very happy in her heart, and she also wanted her to be happy, and she didn't want her to be depressed all the time.
"If that's the case, it's not me who is the happiest, I was still worried that there is still a gap between my identity and him, and he will look down on me and look down on me with such an identity." After all, they are wealthy families, and they are just small households, so there is still a certain distance in comparison.
I was really worried about whether I would dislike my family after meeting his family, and I was always worried that I would bring trouble to my family and wronged my family.
Now it seems that I am thinking too much, after all, I have not come to that far, I am worried so much.
Ren Xiaoou was also worried that his parents would be wronged, if he was wronged, then forget it, he would endure it himself, but he didn't want his family to be dragged down.
"In fact, there has never been a gateway to marriage, this is already an old idea, and grandpa has seen it, and there is no longer such an idea, as long as you both like it." In my opinion, this is really a long, long time ago, and it is no longer suitable for this society.
I don't want to, because this ridiculous view ruins their happiness.
I have made a wrong choice before, so I will not repeat the mistake this time, let alone continue to do such things.
If they really like to be together, then they only have blessings and no obstacles.
"Having said that, there is still such a concept in many people's hearts, and many people will feel that the door is not the right one." Young people may not have such thoughts, but as an older generation, it is normal to have such thoughts.
"An old man like me has figured it out, and I don't think I should continue to have such thoughts now." In the past, I just thought that I had to find the right person to get married, but what was the result?
There is a good lesson and a good example, so how can I repeat the mistakes of the past and continue to do such things in the future.
Marriage is a matter for their young people, and when they are old, it is inconvenient for them to meddle in these things.
Whether it's suitable or not, like it or not, let them watch it, anyway, there is actually no opinion on this, I just hope that after they get married, they can be filial to themselves and be able to live a good life, as for the rest, there are really not many requirements.
"Grandpa, it seems that you are really different from other old people, at least your thinking has changed a lot, you no longer stick to traditional ideas, you can accept the changes of the times, and you can accept the current trend of thinking, it should not be easy for you." Shu Yixin listened to their conversation on the side, especially hearing his grandfather's words, which made his heart particularly moved.
may be thinking that if his family also has such thoughts, they will not have the idea of being a family, and they will not feel that they are not worthy of him, then they should be very happy.
It's a pity that he hasn't met his parents and can't be sure of their opinions, maybe they still feel that they are not worthy of his son.
What kind of thoughts will his family have after seeing him, in fact, it is impossible for him not to agree to this question, but at this time, he suddenly listened to what his grandfather said, and thought that he was so old, he could think about this clearly, and he wanted to make himself feel very different.
Or maybe you should be mentally prepared in your heart, not that all people are as open-minded as grandpa and can figure out these things, some people who think they are good people still regard status and identity as very important.
Therefore, not everyone can understand this, they all think that it is important for two people to truly love each other, and many people will feel that the right person is the most important thing, at least to be able to help each other's career or family.
"Don't worry, his grandfather is the same as me, and even said that his grandfather is more transparent than I think, and there is no such thing as a disciple." Ye Lao saw through Shu Yixin's thoughts at a glance, and knew what she was worried about at this moment.
I know what she's thinking, and I know what she's worried about, so I can only comfort her at this time, don't think too much.
"Having said that, I've seen his grandfather, maybe there really doesn't exist this kind of thought, but what about his parents, his grandfather's thoughts don't represent his parents' thoughts." I just know that the relationship between him and his parents is not so good, and he was brought up by his grandfather since he was a child, so he is a little worried about his parents.
After all, if you get married, you have to get the consent of his parents, and if there is no blessing from them, even if the two of them get married, they will feel that something is missing.
After Ye Lao listened to Shu Yixin's words, the whole person fell silent, I have to say that the point she considered was indeed one of the problems, the old man can think clearly, it does not mean that his parents can think clearly, and he probably knows that his parents are not so easy to persuade, especially his mother.
Therefore, at this time, I can only face it in silence, after all, there are some words, I really don't know how to say them, and I may be under more pressure from her heart, if I don't say it, I think I know something, but I didn't tell her.
even said that his choice at this time was a bit of a dilemma, and he didn't know what to say about her, so the best way could only be silence.
"Isn't that a good example? The result was still beyond my expectations. Ye Jinghao felt that the atmosphere was a little awkward, so he spoke.
At the beginning, I was also worried about these problems, afraid that my family would not accept each other, but now, I feel that I really shouldn't think too much about it before I get to that point.
"I hope so, and it really shouldn't have been decided so early." This is just his own unilateral conjecture, after all, he has not met the other party, and he does not know his thoughts, and it is indeed a bit early to say this at this time.
"Don't think too much about it, you haven't gotten there yet, like grandpa said, don't jump to conclusions so early until the end, maybe there will be something else." Ren Xiaoou looked at the worries of her best friend, and probably knew what she was thinking, and at this time, she could only comfort her, don't think too much.
"yes, I really shouldn't think too much about it and cause more trouble for myself." Shu Yixin also felt that he was thinking too much at this time, maybe he really shouldn't think so much.
After all, it's just the beginning, in fact, he hasn't seen it himself, and his parents don't know what kind of reaction his parents will have after seeing him.
"When you fall in love, you should be happy, you shouldn't look ahead, you shouldn't think too much, young people should look like you're in love when you're in love, and you should worry about marriage in the future." Ye Lao can only comfort her like this in the end, some things haven't happened yet, you shouldn't think too much, now should be the time to enjoy the relationship between two people, and you shouldn't be burdened and burdened by other things.
They don't plan to get married at this time, so it's really a bit too early to think about these issues, and it's better to enjoy the process of falling in love.
Since you are in love, you should look like you are in love, you should be happy, you shouldn't look ahead, and you shouldn't think too much.
"Grandpa, I know, for what you said today, I will take it to heart, and I won't put too much pressure on myself, I will definitely enjoy the current love time, and I won't think too much about the rest." What grandpa said may not be unreasonable, after all, no one can change things in the future, falling in love now is a process, you should enjoy this process, and the rest will be talked about later.
Sometimes the plan can't catch up with the changes, even if you plan well at this time, maybe in the end the changes are beyond your imagination.
"You can think like this and understand this, grandpa is really happy, there is really no need to add trouble to your love because of other people?" I have always felt that she is a good child, but God is a little unfair to her, so that she has experienced too much suffering, at this time she is just in love, she wants to be with the person she loves, and she doesn't want her love to be so unfair. The latest chapter of "No First Love, There is a Crush Claw Book House" is free to read for the first time.