Chapter 903: Don't go back to your parents' old ways

"Thanks! Actually, I also hope that day will come sooner, and Grandpa will be very happy if he can meet his granddaughter. "After so many years of separation, I can't recognize anyone now, but I still hope that one day we can be reunited.

Ye Jinghao felt that he was his grandfather's grandson, but he couldn't help anything, couldn't do anything, and even felt a little ashamed of his grandfather.

According to reason, these things should not be what he is doing, he should do it himself, but grandpa would rather tell him than interfere with himself, which shows how disappointed he is in his heart, and how failed his grandson is.

I didn't know that I might not have any feelings before, but now I know that I suddenly feel a little sad, because I am my grandfather's own grandson, but my grandfather doesn't trust him so much, does he feel that it is inconvenient for him to be a member of the Ye family, or does he feel that he does not have this ability.

"Most of the reason why I took this matter is because of Grandpa Ye, which means that I also hope to find her as soon as possible." If I could, of course I wanted to be as fast as I could, but I couldn't find it at the moment.

He Yuhe's heart didn't want to be able to find the other party as soon as possible, so that it could be considered liberating for him, but time passed day after day, and so far, there was still not much progress.

"Aren't you worried, if you find her and grandpa asks you to be the son-in-law of the Ye family, then it will be troublesome for you to wait for you then." Ye Jinghao was talking to him in a joking tone at this time.

The atmosphere just now has always been too heavy, and if I want to break that atmosphere, I don't want to continue, so I can only change the topic.

"You don't have to worry too much about this, although we did have a marriage before, but it has been canceled later, so it won't affect anything, I believe that Grandpa Ye is a reasonable person, and he will definitely not force me to do things I don't like." If that day really comes, let's solve it then, and now, I want to know where people are.

This matter was originally said by their old man, he was still young at the time, and he didn't know what was going on, so he could only say that he was still young, not to mention that both parties had canceled it later, so he had nothing to worry about at this time.

Even if it hasn't been canceled until now, I don't have anything to worry about, I can tell the grandfathers of both sides straightforwardly that I have found my true love and found someone I want to live a lifetime, I believe they will not force themselves too much, they will definitely fulfill themselves, and even say that they will bless themselves.

He Yuhe is not as worried about this as he said, after all, these things can still be said clearly, the original marriage was just a verbal talk between the two families, but now it is the era of free love, if it is really not suitable, why force it.

You have to really feel happy with each other, don't be forced to be together, in this way, it can only be said that you have ruined each other's lives, aren't his parents a good example of this? I believe that he should be able to understand and will not repeat the mistakes of the past. It's really painful to get married to someone you don't love. I believe he shouldn't be doing these things again at this time.

In the past, it was a last resort, there was no choice, maybe it was not clear, so I made such a choice, but now I have tasted the pain, don't you know how to wake up? A business marriage, getting married together without feelings, will not hurt each other's happiness, and the bigger thing is their children.

I believe that Grandpa Ye is a reasonable person, as long as he explains it clearly to him, Grandpa Ye will definitely not force himself.

As a person who has come over, Grandpa Ye has seen everything in his eyes, and now he naturally has other thoughts in his heart.

He knew that marriage could not be forced, and it was impossible to force himself to marry his granddaughter. Unless you are really in love with the other person and really have such thoughts, it is impossible.

"It seems that in the face of this matter, you are still quite determined, and you have not swayed from side to side, and you also believe that you have the ability to deal with it." After Ye Jinghao listened to his words, he could also see that his firmness in love had already been chosen, and he would not sway from side to side, let alone be half-hearted.

Regarding this, in fact, I really should learn well, if you don't love each other, why be together? I don't know if I love someone, so in the end, the person who suffers will definitely be myself, and at the same time hurt others, so before that, I should be firm in my position and know what I want, instead of swaying with the wind, let alone hurting others.

"In the future, I think about these things very clearly, and I am also very transparent, if I really love each other, then I will love well, if not, then don't delay each other's youth." obviously doesn't love himself, why does he give hope to others, and why does he make people feel that there is hope for waiting like this.

Anyway, I wouldn't do such a thing, what other people think, I can't interfere with this, at least I won't do such a thing.

He Yuhe has never thought of harming others, love is love, if you don't love, you don't love, emotional things shouldn't be dragged into the mud, you should be dry and quiet.

"That's right, obviously I don't love each other, but I still have to marry each other and have children, which leads to the fragmentation of a family, so why bother." When Ye Jinghao said this, he was thinking about his family situation and thinking of his parents.

Didn't they get married because of a business marriage in the first place? But I know better than anyone what the result will be and what the ending will be in the end, so it is impossible for me to follow this old path.

Knowing that doing so will harm others, how can you continue to do such a thing?

In fact, sometimes I really don't understand why my parents chose to do this path in the first place, do they really have no choice or haven't thought through this?

Or maybe I feel that feelings need to be cultivated, and if we are together in the future, they can still be cultivated slowly.

"You know very well and know this, so I don't have to worry about your future choices." It is indeed a good example in front of him, so he doesn't have to worry too much about it in the future, he will follow his father's old path again.

It's more that at this time, she is thinking about Ren Xiaoou, this is the man she chose. I had thought about repaying her before, so at this time, I had to help her learn from what kind of man she chose.

"In other words, I know this feeling better than anyone else, do you think I would do anything like this?" For myself, I really wouldn't do such a thing.

I believe that no one knows better than me how unhappy my parents' marriage is, so I won't take this road again, and I will find someone who I really want to be together for a lifetime.

I never want to compromise on love, and I will definitely find one that suits me.

"Actually, at this time, I said these words just to ask you for her, I said before that I wanted to repay her, this is also the boyfriend she chose, I still want to help her check it, I have to say that she is a good girl, I don't want you to let her down, and said that you really don't love her, so please let go as soon as possible, make it clear as soon as possible." If you love, you don't love if you don't love it, you never force him, but if you really don't love each other, then please say it as soon as possible, don't wait until you finally cause harm to the other party.

Today, as his friend, that's why he said this to him, I hope he can remember what he said to him, don't let himself down, and don't let his girlfriend feel disappointed.

"I think you can rest assured that I will not fail her, and I will not be able to fail her." Ye Jinghao can tell him with certainty at this time that he will definitely not disappoint Ren Xiaoou.

Because at this time, he also realized how important the other party was to him, not only was it too late to love her, but how could he be willing to hurt her, so he really didn't have to worry too much about this, he would never do such a thing.

You can also tell him very clearly that he will never go down the old road of his parents again, because he doesn't want to live up to his youth, he doesn't want to live up to love, he doesn't want to become like them in the future, the family lives like enemies, and he doesn't want his children to live in such an environment.

As a person who has come over, I clearly know what it is like, so how can I be willing to let my children have such a life and take such an old path.

I am tired of them, how can I go back this way and hurt the people I love.

As a child, there is no choice. I can't choose my parents, let alone their marriage, so when I have a choice, I won't let my children go to the point where they can't choose, so that they are the same as their childhood.

In other words, I didn't have a warm childhood at all. It won't be like other children, with parents accompanying them to go on trips, go to playgrounds and so on.

The most frequent coincides with what I lack the most, because every time I go to play with myself, it can't be my parents go together, only one of them.

I want my own children, have a warm and happy childhood, have my parents with me, don't be like myself anymore, I have a deep understanding of this loneliness, and I will never let my children experience this loneliness. I want to talk about "No First Love, There is a Secret Love" with more like-minded people, and pay attention to "Youyue Literature" on WeChat, talk about life, and find a confidant~