Chapter 683 Listening to your words is better than reading a book for ten years

"Emotional things are indeed more complicated, but you have to believe that as long as you treat others sincerely, they will also treat you sincerely, and the most important thing is to be happy with each other, not to be suspicious of each other." When two people are together, they don't trust each other and are suspicious of each other, so why should they be together? Such a life will not be happy at all.

If two people are really sure to be together, they must be together and trust each other well, rather than doubting each other. In fact, communication is the best solution, no matter what, two people can sit down calmly, communicate well, and anything can be solved.

If both of them seem too impulsive, the ending will get worse and worse. Isn't there a saying that impulse is the devil? This sentence is quite reasonable, no matter what you do, you should not be impulsive, but think calmly.

Especially for emotional matters, both parties have to communicate well, and only when two people are humble and communicate with each other, the longer this relationship will go.

quarrels at every turn, fists and kicks, then such feelings will collapse at any time.

"If you don't have as high emotional intelligence as you, you are destined to only be hurt." The authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear, how can these things be explained so clearly, and now I feel that I don't know how to choose.

I can only say that my emotional intelligence is too low, I don't know how to think about many things, I always feel that something is missing, and I always feel a little different from what I imagined.

"Don't tell me that your IQ is not high, in fact, your IQ is still quite high, and your EQ is also high, but you don't trust yourself and are afraid that you will be hurt again, so you will sway from side to side." Ren Xiaoou is a very eye-catching girl, but she doesn't have a high IQ as she said, she is a girl who is excellent in all aspects.

My evaluation of her is still quite high, and it is not what she said, but she has been hurt emotionally before, so she is particularly worried at this time, and she will seem to be wavering.

Ren Xiaoou looked at her and smiled and said softly, "It's really thanks to you for looking up to me so much, I don't think it's as good as you say." Perhaps he said these things just to amuse himself.

"It's not a compliment, I said you're that good." People who don't matter don't even bother to take care of it themselves.

If she weren't for the fact that she was Shu Yixin's best friend, she would usually care about and take care of her, otherwise she wouldn't have talked to her so much.

The grace of a drop of water must be reciprocated by a spring, although she does not directly help herself, but if she can help, she is willing to help her.

"Do you think it's possible for us to be together?" Ren Xiaoou hesitated for a moment and said this, he had been in his heart for a long time, but he never said it.

"What kind of possibilities do you want to ask if you will be happy with him, whether you will have a future together, or maybe whether you should be with him." He Yuhe directly asked three questions, to be honest, she was a little unclear about what she wanted to ask.

Ren Xiaoou met her eyes and said softly, "If these are all available, do you think we will be possible?" I just said it casually, but I didn't think clearly about what kind of question I wanted to ask.

He Yuhe looked at her, thought for a while, and said softly, "If you want you to work hard, then everything will be possible." "The premise depends on whether she has contributed to these things and whether she has worked hard for these things.

If she didn't do anything, how could she have a future, how could it be possible, it can only be said that whatever she worked so hard for could happen.

After Ren Xiaoou heard what he said, he didn't say much, because he had already understood the meaning of his words.

"Okay, don't talk to me about that, he's over there, you can go find her." The person he was looking for wasn't him, so there was no need for him to talk all the time.

"Okay, don't think too much about some things, it's not as bad as you think, he's still quite attentive to you, you should trust him." Before He Yuhe left, he still said something like this to her, telling her not to think too much about things, it was not as bad as he thought.

"Okay, I know, I understand these things if you don't say them, I will consider what you said." Ren Xiaoou also has to thank him for what he said to himself, he will seriously consider it.

This has already been said to this point, so I will really think about it, He Yuhe, you said this to yourself, I believe that my heart should be more bottomed than before, and his vision of people has always been very accurate.

Maybe I should believe him this time, or maybe I shouldn't think too much about myself at this time, let alone be suspicious, and I don't believe that he has really changed.

After listening to what he said, Ren Xiaoou was a little shaken by his initial thoughts. After all, what he said is not completely unreasonable, maybe he thinks from the perspective of a man, and he thinks from the perspective of a woman.

Sometimes you can't just think about your own feelings, maybe you should think about him from his point of view.

Or should I give him a chance, I can't be too decisive, sometimes my thoughts are still too one-sided, because I only think about myself, but ignore his feelings, isn't it the same reason that I hated him before?

Ren Xiaoou looked at the figure of He Yuhe leaving, listening to what he said today, in fact, it still has a great effect in his heart, at least he listened to the words he said to himself, no wonder he and Ye Jinghao talked casually before, and he listened to it.

can only say his words, it is to the point, really to the point, so I can listen to what he said, not to listen to nothing.

His thoughts have always been different from those of other people, and he has never cared about the eyes of others, so he will think clearly about these things as a bystander.

Maybe I can really give him a chance, and at the same time give myself a chance. After all, I don't want to miss this relationship, to be honest, I have always had him in my heart, and I love him deeply, if I let myself give up, in fact, I am really reluctant, but sometimes I have to make such a choice.

In the past, it was because he gave him many chances, but he never realized what he was wrong, so he made that move, but now everything is different, because he has changed, and he also realizes what he is wrong, so why not give him a chance.

People make mistakes, as long as they know that they can change their mistakes, they can realize where they are wrong, and then they will change them.

In the past, my thoughts have always been too stubborn, and I am too biased, and the things I believe will not be easily changed, but now I feel that I should think about other aspects, and I should not always think about those things that are inappropriate.

Forget it, yes, you really shouldn't think too much, give him a chance, and at the same time give yourself a chance, I hope this time he won't let himself down again, and I hope that this will pay off.

I hope that he can understand his hard work, know that he is doing this for him, for each other's future, if it is not for deep love, he doesn't want to do so many indifferent actions.

It's because he loves each other deeply in his heart that he doesn't want to give up easily, but he can't completely become what he wants, because everyone has his own personality, if he really becomes what he wants, maybe at that time he will feel that this is not what he knew at the beginning.

Therefore, it is difficult for people to be satisfied, either to find fault with this or to find fault with that, so they can only learn to compromise appropriately.

After Ren Xiaoou figured this out, the whole person also felt a lot more relaxed, in the past, his mind had always revolved around these topics, but he couldn't get an answer, and he always felt that something was missing, but now, the whole person is much calmer.

Sure enough, listening to what you say is better than reading a book for ten years, he just casually said it to himself a few times, but he said it to the depths of his heart.

It's no wonder that his best friend will be defeated by him, because there is nowhere to escape. It was really difficult for him to escape, because he was too smart to grasp the opponent's weaknesses and know what the other person desired.

Ren Xiaoou was a little worried about his girlfriend at this time, and it seemed that it should be very difficult to do something in his hands in the future.

That being said, he also has a weakness, that is, because he cares too much about one person in his heart, if one person cares too much about another person in his heart, then he will also be eaten to death by the other party.

The two of them should be complementary, one is very powerful, the other is stupid, but the two of them together are a match made in heaven.

I hope the two of them can be together well and live happily together. To be honest, before, I was actually quite optimistic about the relationship between the two of them, and I always felt that they could go to the end, and I always felt that they would be happy.