Chapter 348: What kind of person is the right person

It's not bad to make such a decision yourself and forget everything in the past. Then the current self will not think of the past things so painfully, and will not be entangled because of the past things.

Isn't it good to live like this now? Isn't that what you've always wanted to pursue? Too vigorous love may really not suit you.

It's better to be an ordinary person again, it's better to be a simple little person, and those who shouldn't expect it should not expect too much, because it will only bring disappointment to yourself.

may be because after an incident, I was afraid in my heart, so I never thought that I would never have such greedy thoughts in the future, and the vigorous love really didn't belong to me, I only belonged to the kind of ordinary people.

No matter what you do, you just want to live your life plainly, and you don't want your life to be too grandiose, and for yourself, you really can't stand it.

I have always just wanted to be an ordinary and ordinary person, and I have never thought of being a famous person. That kind of life is not what you want, but simple and ordinary is your pursuit.

"I know you care about me, and perhaps, you're right, and if we have the chance, we should really talk about it." If these problems are not solved, they will continue to drag on, in fact, there are big problems at all, but many times they ignore them.

However, problems always exist, and sooner or later they will all have to be solved, and both early and late solutions must be solved, and some problems are destined to be unavoidable.

If you have these problems, even if you marry her, you will not be happy in the future. It's better to solve all these problems before getting married.

If it is really not suitable between yourself and him, then you will consider separating from him and considering breaking up with him. After all, he clearly knows in his heart that he is not the person who can accompany him for a lifetime, and he doesn't want to waste his time to find someone who doesn't love him, and then the two of them live together in pain.

Over the years, the reason why I have worked so hard is just to prove that I can live the life I want to live on my own ability. The relationship is the same, I want to find someone who really loves me and loves each other, and then stay together for a lifetime, instead of casually finding a person who is the right person to get married, just for the benefit of the family, just for the interests of some aspect of the marriage.

This is not what I want, so I have always persuaded my family to let myself work independently, in fact, I want to cultivate my own ability, and I want to prove to my family that I can live well without them.

Feelings can't come reluctantly, and I know this in my heart, so I will never trade feelings in the future. It's love, if you don't love, you don't love, you can't use your marriage as a bargaining chip and gamble your whole life.

Although his family background is very good, and his family also hopes to marry him, if he really doesn't love himself and has other women, then he will fulfill him and will definitely not be stalked.

Because there is one thing that you must clearly know, love is love, and if you don't love, you don't love.

He doesn't love himself, and being so reluctant to be together will only make each other miserable.

So I would rather choose someone who loves me, my status is not as good as his, and I don't feel anything. The point is that he loves himself and at the same time he loves each other, and that is enough.

If you get married for the sake of profit, then you will suffer for the rest of your life. In fact, I don't know the future, it's still a long time, if you marry someone who doesn't love you, then you're really staying up.

This kind of life is not happy at all, and it is not that you want to live a stable life, so you would rather find a man who loves you and loves you to marry, even if the other party's conditions are not so good, you feel that it is better than a man who does not love you to live together.

Marriage is a lifelong thing, and if two people don't really love each other and are reluctant to be together, it will only make each other miserable. Although I may be more focused on value and interests, in my own opinion, I have never had such an idea.

"I can only say that you can do this kind of thing yourself, after all, you also know that you can't help much, and emotional matters have always been afraid of third parties interfering." Shu Yixin told her directly that this kind of thing can only be done by herself.

It's not that I don't want to help, but it's an emotional thing, and I can't help at all. And it's the two of them who live together, not anyone else, so the person in question knows that feeling best.

"I know you feel sorry for me, so I'll think about it." Sure enough, she is her best friend, who knows what is good for her and knows what is good for her.

What he said was not unreasonable, maybe he should really find an opportunity to have a frank and good chat with him. If two people really don't fit, then there is no need to be reluctant to be together.

After all, it's a lifetime to be together, this is not a joke, it's not that it's a joke, it's not that you are separated and combined, this kind of life will make you feel very tired, and it's not what you want to live, so if it's not suitable, then break up with each other as soon as possible. Each of them goes to find their own life, to find the life they want to live.

"I can only say that, that's all, in fact, I'm quite optimistic about you, no matter in all aspects, you are quite a good match, I just think he doesn't have time to accompany you, hey, I don't know how to describe it." In Shu Yixin's heart, he subconsciously felt that if he really loved each other, he should always think about being with each other, and he should try his best to find time to be with each other.

But their feelings about themselves are not like this, the other party has been busy with other things, only occasionally when they are free, they remember that they are the ones who have girlfriends, and they remember to accompany their girlfriends.

I always feel that this approach is a bit weird, but I can't say anything.

I have seen a lot of couples, they are all affectionate and tired of being together. The only thing in front of them is that they are together when they are free, and most of the time, they are busy with their own things.

About this, it feels a bit unbelievable, which is why they don't feel like a couple at all.

"Okay, don't talk about me, what about you? Have you ever thought about starting a new relationship? Ren Xiaoou wanted to gossip at this time, what did she think in her heart.

It can't be said that she has been hurt by her feelings before, and she will no longer talk about feelings in this life.

It is also impossible to think that it is unrealistic at all, after all, she is still so young, and it is impossible to think about not getting married for the rest of her life.

Shu Yixin looked at Ren Xiaoou with different eyes, and said softly, "No matter what, there is no such plan yet, wait until I meet the right person, let's talk about it." "I really don't have such plans at the moment, and I don't know if I want to fall in love.

Maybe, it's because I haven't met the right person yet, so I haven't thought about falling in love at all, and I always feel that my current life is quite good.

"What kind of person is the right person, if you can't meet it in your life, or do you plan not to get married in your life?" Regarding what she said, the scope is quite large.

"I don't know, look at the feeling, you also know that the previous relationship was really all for me, but what did I get in the end, maybe I was scared, I would rather be alone than hurt again." Shu Yixin doesn't seem to have forgotten that feeling, he gave everything he had, but as a result, he got such a reward.

After that, I really don't want to give easily, at least until I find the right feeling, I can't easily give my feelings.

This time, I should learn to be smart and eye-catching. Don't be stupid and used by others again, and you will only be hurt in the end.

It's okay to have something like this once, I really don't want to do it a second time. Maybe it's because of my own heart, I can't bear the second such blow.

This time, I really have to see a little more accurately, so that I can deliver my heart. The previous self may have been too young, didn't know much about anything, and was easily deceived, so it would lead to such a result, and now I really don't want to continue like this.

If you are really stupid enough to fall twice in the same place, then you can only say that you are too stupid. In the past, I could say that I was too young and I didn't understand many things and could forgive, but now if I do the same thing, I can't forgive it at all.

"I see that you say it very casually, very freely, and sometimes I really envy you." It's more of my own, and hopefully I can do that.

It is very simple to say, but it is not as simple as you imagined, and it may be much more difficult than you think, after all, every family has a difficult scripture, and everyone is in a different environment.

Sometimes you can only envy others, because it is impossible for you to do it at all, although it seems to be a simple thing, but not everyone can do it easily, and the things that hinder you are not the same.

"Maybe it's because I've been hurt once, so I've learned to be a little better at this time, and I've learned to be a little smarter, and I don't want to be stupidly injured, don't you also want me to live a good life?" I have to say that I have paid a lot in that relationship, it can be said that I have given everything I have, but in the end, what did I get, people said to leave when they left, and they didn't even leave a word.

If you want to start a new relationship on your own, you don't have such an impulse and will not make such a choice until you find the right person.

(End of chapter)