Chapter 897 - Teacher and Friend
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If you talk too much, to put it bluntly, it's not very good, so I feel that this kind of thing is up to the end of my own order.
The key point is to look at his personal behavior, or to see if he is really aware of his own problems and what he is wrong, otherwise, this is simply a palliative treatment, and sooner or later there will be problems between the two of them.
He Yuhe is a bystander, but there are some things that he really shouldn't say much, and he can only point to the point and remind him where he is wrong, as for what to do, this is not a matter of his own interference.
If you talk too much, people don't know if they think they're too gossipy? Some words can only remind the other party that they can't help with what to do, and it is impossible to ask the other party to do it.
Because I don't have such a position, no matter what position I stand on, I am a friend or a confidant, in short, I have no right to ask the other party what to do, only to remind the other party.
"I know, you've told me so much, if I still haven't come to my senses, I'm really sorry for you." Ye Jinghao really felt that he was not such a stupid person, he had already said so clearly with himself, and he had said so much, how could he not understand.
He Yuhe looked at him and said softly, "Don't think I'm too talkative, just love gossip, as for the rest, I don't care." "If you really love each other, then treat each other well, don't disappoint others anymore, after all, people give you opportunities again and again and love you so much.
In other words, such a good girl is really not easy to find, so when you have it, you must cherish it and don't miss it again. If you miss it at this time, then you will regret it for the rest of your life.
There are some things that I really want to cherish, but in the end I still missed it, and at this time I can't express the regret in my heart, I really don't want him to repeat the mistakes of the past and go his own way.
As his friend, that's why he told him like this, if it was someone else, he didn't bother to say these things.
He Yuhe actually had more to say to him, but thinking about it, he didn't seem to have any position at this time, so he finally decided to forget it.
After all, he said too many words, and it was useless, and the key point was to see if he realized what he was wrong and what to do after that.
"I know, every time I talk to you, I feel that I will benefit me a lot, you are really a good mentor and friend to me." Ye Jinghao did not deny it in his heart at all, he was really inferior to him in terms of feelings, and every time he chatted with him, he felt something in his heart and would change.
He knows more than himself, and he sees it more clearly and transparently than himself, so a casual reminder can let him know what is wrong, and to put it bluntly, how can he not be grateful to him.
People can speak to the depths of their hearts with just a few casual words, which means something, shows that these problems are obvious, but they don't see anything.
Do you ignore this, or do you just don't care about it?
Obviously, I love her very much in my heart, but when she broke up with herself, she was really special and always felt that something was missing, and after being with her, she let herself come back to life, so she knew that she really loved her.
I love more than I imagined, but I don't know how to get along with her, I always feel that no matter what I do, it's still a little worse, no wonder sometimes she is so disappointed in herself, after all, she didn't do a good job, which she has to admit.
"I also use my personal experience to tell you some things, I don't want you to follow my old path again, to put it bluntly, I didn't teach you anything." I don't know so much about emotional things, and what I told him was only what I had experienced before.
If you haven't experienced this before, in fact, you can't say this truth, just because you have experienced it before, and you will naturally sigh in your heart.
He Yuhe still didn't say much, if he knew what he had experienced, maybe he would be a little at a loss like himself, and he didn't know what to do.
It's not that I don't want to say it, but I feel that it's not the right time, they will know in the future, and I still want to keep it secret for the time being.
"No matter what, you still know this truth better than me, and you know the mystery better than me, and I still owe something to my feelings." Is it because I have not longed for love since I was a child, nor has I pursued it, or has I not studied it at all.
I feel a little confused, why do people understand love at all, but when I face love, I always feel that I am lacking something, is it because of the incomplete family since I was a child, which has led to my own withdrawn psychology?
Ye Jinghao has been seeking this answer in his heart, but he has never found a suitable answer.
What I can't deny is that my parents' love still has an impact on me, maybe when I was young, I was afraid of getting married.
"I still say that, emotional things are really hard to say, and everyone is different." He really didn't know how to answer these questions, and he really didn't know how to continue.
After all, everyone faces a different form of love, and when he really loves someone, he will understand.
"Yes, everyone's pattern of love is different, but I think I'm the worst one." So far, I haven't really learned how to love someone, and I'm still lacking something.
"Don't think too much about it, it will get better in the future, and you can't be in a hurry about this kind of thing?" He Yuhe patted him on the shoulder, and then told him that there was no need to rush this kind of thing.
It's useless to be anxious, you can't change anything, some things have to be done step by step, at this time, there is really no need to be too contacted, the key point is to know where you are wrong.
"You don't have to worry, I'm just worried that people won't wait for me, do you think that in such a situation, we can't have this kind of anxious mentality." Ye Jinghao clearly told the other party that he could have this kind of mentality of not being in a hurry, but he was afraid that everything would be too late.
"She's already given you a chance, so I think she's still willing to give it to you for a while." will also say that they are really willing to give up, then they will not give each other a chance again and again.
From this point, it can be seen that Ren Xiaoou is also reluctant to let go, so he will make concessions again and again, hoping that the other party can understand himself.
At this time, it is still the same, since they have chosen to give you such an opportunity, then you have realized the problem, and if you want to correct the time, she is still willing to wait for you.
"I hope so, I don't want to, she really gave me up like that, and when I realized how important she was to me, she left me." I also hope that she can give herself this time, can give herself a chance, and let herself love her well.
"She chooses to believe you, and you should also believe her, don't deny it at the beginning." If you can make up your mind, you can give up on the other party. I won't give the other person a chance again and again, and if it were me, I wouldn't do it.
Ren Xiaoou did this, which means that she has the other party in her heart and truly loves each other.
Moreover, she can feel that her love is really humble. Loving someone like this, but what kind of result does it get?
He Yuhe felt that when he thought of these things, he felt that Ren Xiaoou was not worth it, obviously he loved someone, so why let himself love so humble?
In other words, it is his own character, and he has already chosen to let go in a chic manner, because the other party is not his real choice, and it will not be his choice.
"Hopefully, I also learned through this conversation, in fact, you shouldn't think so much, and it's better to prove it with reality than anything else." It seems that saying so much is false, it doesn't make sense at all, and the real one still has to be proved with mobile phone actions.
"It seems that you have already opened your mind, and I don't need to waste my lips and tongues." He Yuhe still felt a little relieved, he was not as brainless as he imagined, and he didn't know how to open his mind.
It's just that the response is a bit slow, and the rest is pretty good. It's not in vain that I talked to him so much, at least in the end, there will be results.
"With you by my side reminding me like this, if I still haven't woken up a little, then I have wasted most of your time and talking to me for most of the day." He has already said so much to himself, and he has said it so clearly, if he hasn't realized what the problem is wrong, he can only say that he is too stupid.
Ye Jinghao is really grateful to him at the moment, reminding himself by his side, telling himself what he is wrong, and then mentioning what he will do in the future.
"I'm just afraid that I've been saying it for a long time, but you haven't listened to what I want to say." He Yuhe said to him in a joking tone at this time.
Between two people, we should no longer talk about these heavy topics, but also talk about some happy topics, some things are just done, I believe that he is a smart person, and I believe that he is a striking person.
"I don't want me to be so stupid, people say it so clearly, I don't understand it yet, so if I continue to say this, maybe you won't be friends with me." No one wants to have such a stupid person around them and be their friend. I want to talk about "No First Love, There is a Secret Love" with more like-minded people, and pay attention to "Youyue Literature" on WeChat, talk about life, and find a confidant~