Chapter 672: What the hell are you sad about?
"Maybe for me, all this came too suddenly, I wasn't mentally prepared at all, and I didn't think about it, maybe the people around me, and I have already seen them." Lin Ya may not have thought about it, and she never dared to think about it in this way, the person she has been looking for has already appeared by her side, but she didn't realize it.
It's just that what are you struggling with at this time? is nothing more than two results, one is that he admits that he is his father, and the other is that he directly denies it.
No matter what, it shouldn't be the way you are now, the one who is lost and depressed like this, and it's particularly uncomfortable, but who is it to show all this?
Then admit what he said, or deny it yourself, in fact, there is no need for yourself to embarrass yourself like this, make yourself so uncomfortable.
"It's just that suddenly, you weren't mentally prepared, but it shouldn't be like you, I can't believe it at all when I look like you, in fact, there's nothing bad to believe." Shu Yixin really doesn't know what she thinks in her heart, she always feels a little weird, her reaction is a little abnormal, normal people should be happy to find their families.
But her performance was not happy, but more worried, could it be that she didn't want to find her family at all, or felt that all this was a little different from what she imagined,
"Maybe I think all this is a little different from what I thought, I never thought it would be in such a situation." Lin Ya was asked by her like this at that time, and she also felt a little weird, what was she suspicious, but what didn't she believe?
Actually, I can't say it, why do I have such an idea, I always feel a little weird, do you think you knew him before, but at this time, I suddenly told myself that I couldn't believe his other identity at all, so I felt that all this was lying to myself, and I couldn't accept it.
But from another point of view, there is no need for the other party to deceive himself at all, from what he said, he can hear that he really misses his daughter, he told himself that he has never given up for more than 20 years, and hope has always been looking for it.
After listening to him say these words at that time, he was very moved, if all this was true, he should love himself very much, otherwise how could he have been looking for more than 20 years, and he has never given up hope.
"It's just your personal thoughts, it's just a little different from what you imagined, and there is a certain gap between reality and ideas." Ideal is ideal, reality is reality, and there is a big gap between each other.
"Being asked by you like this, even I think my reaction is a bit too much, what am I struggling with, why don't I believe that he is my father?" If all this he said is true, then he should be happy, after all, he has been looking for his family for so many years and finally found himself.
It means that I will no longer be an orphan in the future, isn't this something I have always hoped for?
"Think about it from another angle, whether the other party knew you before or not, and regardless of his identity, what you should believe is that he is really your father, and another point is that he never wanted you." Shu Yixin felt that as for the rest at this moment, there was no need to think so much at all.
At this time, she should believe that the other party is her family, and soon, after the family can be reunited, she can also get rid of the identity of an orphan.
No matter what happened in the past, it doesn't matter why you have fallen into the past, the important thing is that you have found your family now and can live with your family in the future.
Thinking of this, it should be happy, not uncomfortable, even if you don't live with your family, at least you will no longer be an orphan in the future, and you can still go back when you have a family and miss home.
"He didn't force it, he would give me time to think about it, and at the same time he told me that I was the only one with him, and my mother died on the day I disappeared, and I felt even more uncomfortable to hear the news." If all this is true, then I will never see my mother again in the future, and I can only rely on him for my life.
"How can this be? Did something happen in the first place? After listening to this, Shu Yixin couldn't believe what happened on that day, his wife died and his daughter disappeared.
What happened on that day, and how did he survive all these years? For him, it would be too cruel to face such a thing.
Lin Ya became an orphan and didn't know anything, but for her, she could, so that she could grow up carefree and not have to bear the blow of what happened back then.
If she knew this detail clearly, in fact, she might not be able to be happy, after all, she lost her mother since she was a child, and her heart would be somewhat deviated, it is better to let her know from a young age that she is an orphan, and there are no parents around, so she doesn't have to bear the blow of that incident.
It's not another kind of happiness, some things, especially the blow of losing a loved one, that kind of blow is really very big, it is better to be an orphan, and I still have expectations in my heart, hoping to see my parents one day.
"Actually, I didn't ask much, because I didn't even admit that he was my father, and there were some things that I didn't want to ask more, and he also told me that he told me too much at once, maybe I couldn't accept it." Lin Ya's head was too confused at that time, she didn't ask anything at all, and the other party didn't say anything more.
"I have to say that what people think about is indeed reasonable, and if you know too many things at once, you may really not be able to accept it, so let's take your time, after all, at present, you can't even accept his identity, let alone other things." Shu Yixin analyzed with her, at the beginning, how could the other party be willing to talk too much to her?
If she wants to say it, she will wait until she accepts herself in the future, and then slowly talk about those past things, how can she say all the things in the family now.
After all, there is no complete certainty, it is useless to say too much, not to mention that those things are not good memories, with some sad flavor, the reunion of father and daughter should be happy, not with a touch of sadness.
"Maybe what you said is also reasonable, I can't even accept his identity, let alone his family affairs." Lin Ya can actually think clearly about this point, after all, people think like this for themselves, maybe they don't want to put too much pressure on themselves at the beginning.
"Actually, what do you think now, do you really don't want to recognize him?" Shu Yixin wanted to know what Lin Ya was thinking at this moment, and why she was unwilling to accept her family.
"Actually, I don't know what I thought, and I didn't say that I wanted to hate him or anything, maybe all this was too sudden for me." I never thought that one day, all of a sudden, I would tell myself, how do you make yourself believe?
Even my own mind is a mess, let alone how to think about other things.
"Having said that, although all this came too suddenly, but since you have found a family, you should be happy, why don't you choose to make it clear to the other party, do you really want to be an orphan all the time? Haven't you had enough of all these years? After so many years, she should be tired of it, and finally have the opportunity to get rid of such an identity, what is she unhappy about?
At the beginning, she and the people around her didn't want her to falsify information, because it was a very serious matter for her to be exposed, but what did she say and think at that time, anyway, she didn't want other people to know that she was an orphan.
Well, now there is really no need to fake, and there is no need to worry, because she is not an orphan, she has found her family and can live happily with her family.
"Maybe I'm used to it, only one person suddenly told himself that he still has relatives, and he can't accept it for a while, I don't want to be an orphan, and I don't want other people to know that I am an orphan." Whether it was before or now, I don't want to be an orphan, let the people around me know, and look at me with colored eyes.
In fact, I think like this, and I still think like this now, in short, I don't want my identity as an orphan to be known by others.
Now I can finally tell people all over the world that I am really not an orphan, but why does I seem to be swaying from side to side at this time, I should be happy, and I shouldn't think so much.
In fact, his current emotions should not appear, he just endured this fact to himself, as for whether the other self should accept it, others are not reluctant, why should he be so sad.
He also made it clear to himself that he was not reluctant to do so. He was just stating this matter to himself, and he felt uncomfortable, could he feel better in his heart?
He didn't say it at the beginning, he really had his own concerns, in other words, anyone should be happy when he found his family, he would choose to say it as soon as possible, and he naturally had his own reason for not saying it.
"In fact, you shouldn't think too much about those aspects, you should be happy at this time, your family has found him, no matter what kind of identity the other party is, he is always your family, this is the most important thing." Other inconsequential people should not think too much about it for the time being, and now they should be happy that their family has found themselves.