Chapter 172: The Way of Husband and Wife
Aunt Jian's body was not very serious. It's just that menstrual disorders are not even considered Gong Han. Her husband has a concubine, and the time in her house is not fixed, and she hides the doctor and asks the doctor to see her seriously, so she has never had a child. What Tang Xiangxiang gave to Jian Zhang's was a tonic, which mainly treats menstrual cramps, it doesn't hurt, and it's okay to use it, just consolidate it. After Aunt Jian used it, her menstrual period was fixed for two or three months, and she had it, but she didn't keep it, also because she didn't know it.
As a result, there is a small postpartum disorder, and now it is a little difficult to have a child. However, without equipment, Tang Xiangxiang didn't know the specific thickness of her uterus and whether she could withstand pregnancy. At first glance, it's okay.
Tang Xiangxiang's plan is to recuperate for three months to half a year, stabilize the menstrual period in the future, and then look at the days of the same room. This time, look at it above board, the reason is, postpartum disorder.
Hearing that Tang Xiangxiang was sure to cure his eldest daughter, Jian Shangshu was overjoyed. After all, it is the wish of parents all over the world that children can live their own lives, regardless of who is born.
When the second aunt and grandmother saw that their father was happy, their hearts were even more uncomfortable.
She is different from her sister, she can give birth, but she just keeps giving birth to daughters...... She already has three daughters. If my sister gives birth to a child, then she will become the bottom one again.
But she really doesn't want to!
With the diagnosis results, the following is to discuss Tang Xiangxiang's matter. Hearing about Gu Yao's preparation, whether it was Jian Shangshu or Jian Jia's aunt and daughter-in-law, there was no squeak.
"What? Difficult? If it's difficult, I'll try it with someone else. ”
Jian Shangshu said in a deep voice: "How did you come up with this idea?"
Gu Yao and Tang Xiangxiang ignored each other's glances, and they all saw surprise in each other's eyes. Co-authored, the production bureau, is there no in Daming? Gu Yao obviously remembered reading this word!
Wait-that's like talking about a son, similar to the Gu family!
Thinking of this, Gu Yao calmed down and said, "I learned." The head of a family, such as the man of the Gu family, belongs to the separation of property and living together. Fathers and sons and brothers can do this, but why can't husbands and wives? Sister Tang has medical skills, and it is not difficult to leave the shackles of the Qiu family and support herself. Staying at home is tied up. One is to tie his hands and feet, and the other is also for the sake of the Qiu family. There is a lady in the main room, and the concubine doesn't dare to have a child with peace of mind! ”
Tang Xiangxiang wanted to say that they were cousins, and it was difficult to have children, and if they did, they might not be able to survive.
Although Jian Shangshu and the others were not persuaded, they could hear the sarcasm beyond her voice. Jian Shangshu said in his heart, this little fifth and third are really produced by a father, and they are so heart-wrenching when they speak.
"This matter is not within my responsibility." After speaking, Jian Shangshu said again, "I suggest that you don't get this separation." In the officialdom, officials who divorce or divorce their wives are very disgusted. Since Grandma Qiu Shao can't give up the child, she might as well propose to reconcile and leave, which makes the Qiu family timid, and it is enough to improve it now. ”
When Gu Yao heard this, he stroked his palms and smiled: "Isn't this better?" Lord Shangshu came forward and said that we will ask you to guarantee the reconciliation of the two families. It was you who persuaded Sister Tang to change her mind, curve a little, and propose to separate the property. In this marriage, Sister Tang is not abandoned, and Qiu Shuisu's reputation is not hindered, and she is at ease! ”
"You kid, persuade and don't persuade to leave-"
"Lord Shangshu, life is only a few decades, can't we women benefit the people, can't we be at ease? What's more, as long as they are separated, Sister Tang can benefit the people, so why not? Sister Tang is still in Qiu's house, so she will not go out to save outsiders. As for the insider, you can count them on one hand. Even if the queen is alive, she will not come forward. ”
"The woman next to her can get by, why can't she?"
For this, Gu Yao smiled and said, "Let's not talk about when Qiu Shuisu will be able to make a name for himself, and don't say whether the two sons can glorify their ancestors when they grow up, we now assume that they can all become talents." Then, it's just the second Gu family. Grandmother has not seen her husband for decades, and her son for more than ten years, what good is this? ”
Jian Shangshu couldn't agree with this point of view very much, and immediately asked: "As you said, the husband is incompetent and the son is not successful, but it is good?" ”
Gu Yao shook his head and said, "I didn't say that, it was Master Shangshu who misunderstood." There are two sides to everything, the good side and the bad side. The word "willingness" comes from this. How to choose, how to choose better, but there is no conclusion. The spring and the snow, the people of the lower riba have their own love. Lord Shangshu, you can't ask others for your own preferences, it's not fair. ”
"Oh?" Jian Shangshu was puzzled, looked at Tang Xiangxiang, and asked, "In this way, Tang, do you prefer that your husband is incompetent and your son is mediocre?" ”
The change in the title of the young grandmother of the Qiu family to the Tang family also represents a change in Jian Shangshu's attitude, and Gu Yao exhaled lightly. I didn't breathe it out, but I heard Tang Xiangxiang say: "No, I hope my son has the ability to be a man who stands up to the sky." As for the husband, it's not like I can do what I want, is it? ”
"What you want your husband to be, your husband can be." After listening to Tang Xiangxiang's words, Jian Shangshu directly clapped the decision and said, "You can not see my daughter, this official will not come forward for you in this matter." Qiu Tangshi, you don't even understand the way of husband and wife, what's the use of being separated or separated? ”
"Daddy!"
Aunt Jian was unwilling, but Jian Shangshu didn't care about her. Gu Yao, following Jian Shangshu's words, looked at Tang Xiangxiang, she knew that she was also moved.
Because Jian Shangshu's words sound so reasonable.
Tang Xiangxiang asked: "What if I can't learn the way of husband and wife all the time?" ”
Then you're wasted, what else? However, Jian Shangshu didn't say it to anger Tang Xiangxiang, so he just said indifferently: "Even so, harmony is not the way to solve the problem. ”
Gu Yao found a logical problem from it, and hurriedly said: "Wait, Lord Shangshu." According to you, there is no need to be separated in any way. Na, if you understand the way of husband and wife, you can solve the affairs of husband and wife, and you don't need to be separated; If you don't understand the way of husband and wife, it's useless to reconcile and separate, so what are you doing with separation? ”
This kid ...... I found out about this so quickly, and my brain is very alive.
But how could Jian Shangshu admit it, he said with a straight face: "The official is on the matter, whether you believe it or not, whether you listen or not, it's still up to you." ”
What don't you listen to, didn't you see Tang Xiangxiang again? It's clear that you've listened to it, okay?
Among the people Gu Yao knows, there are only two people who are good at the way of husband and wife, Xie and Mrs. Lu. Xie himself is extremely talented, plus he has been cultivated for decades. How Mrs. Lu did it, but I don't know. Even if she can teach, it will be far away from the water and can't save the near fire, in vain. As for himself, cough cough, not to mention that he and Zheng Zhi are not married, even the lover relationship is also being explored.
Song Haitang? Gu Yao looked at Tang Xiangxiang and shook her head, she felt that Tang Xiangxiang would never be able to achieve Song Haitang's realm because of personality problems-
Wait a minute.
Gu Yao looked at Jian Shangshu and chuckled. Jian Shangshu, who seemed to be aware of it, also smiled and asked, "Gu Xiaowu, do you have any advice?" ”
"I can't talk about teaching, dare to ask Master Shangshu, Confucius has a saying, teach according to aptitude, is this right?"
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