Chapter 321: Bullying the Weak and Fearing the Hard
Isn't it, it's not? Gu Yao asked.
Yu Niang said: "The old lady is not a poor person. ”
Gu Yao's eyes lit up, and he reminded Yu Niang: "Fifteen-year-old and six-year-old girl-"
In this day and age, being bullied, as long as it is not discovered, the poor girl, usually goes to him, slowly heals, and finally lives an ordinary life that others easily have. is a poor man, but also a strong man, just like the Jiang family before the matter was revealed.
Being uncovered can still be the same as before, and it requires strong mental power. Cai Erni doesn't have it, she is a manifestation of her thinking going the wrong way. At this time, Yu Niang mentioned Cai Erni, because she said: "Cai Niangzi was afraid back then, and at the same time worked hard to do things in her best direction, this is her character, as the third lady has always said, she is a hard-working person." ”
Gu Yao interjected: "There must be a premise for hard work, and the direction is right." ”
"Hmm." Yu Niang hurriedly responded, pulled the words back, and said, "The old lady shrunk herself up first. I heard that she followed her uncle to the capital because she was spoiled and couldn't live alone. The old lady has been weak since she was a child, and when she is weak, someone will protect her and love her. ”
The latter paragraph was inferred from the front, and Gu Yao asked Yu Niang: "How do you know what happened to the old lady back then?" ”
"Sister Deng said it."
"And how did she know?"
"Listen to the old people."
Gu Yao: ......
Coughing, Gu Yao interrupted Yu Niang's words and sorted her out: "Look, after listening to Mother Deng's words, you have your own understanding." How, then, do you know that the one who spoke before you did not join in his own understanding? When these words reached my ears, I don't know how far from the truth of the year. Mother Jade, Mother Jade, let's talk less hearsay! ”
How could Yu Niang, how could she just give up what she had worked hard for months to study and spend so much effort getting? She hurriedly said: "Madam, you have to know that the old lady is a person who is afraid of softness and hardness, and you will know how to deal with her later!" ”
Gu Yao smiled, because he said: "Deal with? Are you stupid? Because my mother was going to rush back to Xuanfu for the New Year after the Mid-Autumn Festival, the two of us rushed back in a hurry. Or, a meal, a few moon cakes, where are you not eating? ”
"What? The old lady didn't say that she wanted to leave, but said that it was very good and that she was going to live forever. ”
At this time, Gu Yao couldn't think about the Jiang family's character, because he said, "Are you sure?" Then why did Zheng San tell me that she was leaving? ”
Yu Niang said: "I don't know. However, it's also easy to guess. Old lady, I'm afraid I didn't tell the third master. ”
It has been almost a year since Jiang left Xuanfu, and he has been in Tieling for seven or eight months. I never told Zheng Zhi when I encountered something, I made my own decisions. To tell the truth, Gu Yao thought that the Jiang family didn't even discuss with his son, let alone with himself. In the long run, she will definitely not be able to stand it. But Zheng Zhi said a long time ago that the Jiang family would stay in Tieling for a year.
Gu Yao didn't have the heart to listen, Yu Niang still had to say, she said, "Madam, the words have to be turned back." Several of us unanimously agreed that the old lady bullied the weak and feared the hard. is good to her, she can bully, and bad to her, how far can she hide; If she is good, the old lady will rely on and rely on her without limit. ”
Isn't that human instinct? It's just a different degree. Gu Yao didn't have time to talk to Yu Niang, it was really stressful to live with her mother-in-law for a long time. She didn't think about it before marriage, and she didn't think about it after marriage. With her mother-in-law as a guest, a point of view that it is difficult to entertain guests, she is even more filial than Zheng Zhide. After all, this kind of thing that can make people think of big benefits by relying on short-term injections is too cost-effective!
However, now, from short-term to long-term, Gu Yao thinks to herself that like in the first few months, she really can't serve all kinds of hypocritical mothers-in-law calmly. I don't want to throw her a pair of silver, anyway, she can't spend it if she has more silver.
Gu Yao still said firmly: "Don't talk about this, let's first figure out why she didn't leave, and who she lived with." I'll ask for a moment how to open my mouth and ask which is the right thing. ”
In other words, Gu Yao does not accept the days of living under the same roof with his mother-in-law for a long time. What else did Yu Niang say, Gu Yao suddenly got up, stopped her words, and said, "Let's assume that you are right, then, this time, I will definitely be hard." ”
Yu Niang hurriedly pulled the person and planned: "Don't be hard, how can this thing be hard?" As long as the parents open their mouths and raise their elderly parents, it is a word that children cannot refuse! What's more, the third master is equivalent to the eldest son of the old lady, only the old lady is unwilling to live with you, and there is no reason why she wants you to make trouble! ”
"Zheng San can't either?"
"I can't."
After Gu Yao walked around irritably, he muttered, "Good Mrs. Hou, why are you staying here all the time?" Don't say I like children, I don't believe it. Theoretically, she and Qiqi spent more time together, but Qiqi liked Meng Xuan, an outsider with no blood. Zheng Zhi has only been with him for less than a month, and Qiqi's love for his father is also more than that of his grandmother. It can be seen that she doesn't like children so much. ”
Similar to talking to himself, Gu Yao didn't expect Yu Niang to answer, but the answer was still the same sentence, bullying the soft and fearing the hard.
Yu Niang said: "Think about it, no matter how generous the Hou Ye is, even if he knows about the old lady in advance, he will not have a good time in the past few years, right?" In addition, the old lady was so beautiful before, although this is better than most people, can it be compared to the young and beautiful? ”
Dealing with people in Israel is not a long-term solution after all. Therefore, Yu Niang thinks that the Jiang family is like being in Shuntianfu in Xuanfu, and they are not at ease. In Liaodong, although the conditions are worse, the son is not so smooth, and the grandson is also obedient. But at least live a normal life, with the appearance of someone. has a transcendent and honorable title like Mrs. Hou, so I naturally prefer it here!
Gu Yao kept bowing his head.
That's true, it's all my fault, I was so well-behaved before, and I think it made my mother-in-law more relaxed - I really lifted a stone and shot myself in the foot. She tried her best to make her mother-in-law comfortable, and now that she has her wish, she is uncomfortable again.
It seems that this is a good person, or the unity of the outside and the inside. It's too late to regret it, so let's think about it.
In the dead of night, Gu Yao mentioned what he heard today, but he didn't express his dissatisfaction, but said, "Since my mother is not leaving, I will go to Nanshan Pass for a while."
It is only in the day that it is said that it is necessary to be the same on the outside and on the inside, but the "whitewashed peace" that has been cultivated for many years can be changed overnight, which is really a fool's dream.
After saying this, Gu Yao obviously felt Zheng Zhi's body stiffen. After a while, when Zheng Zhi's body softened, he heard him say, "Nonsense! How can you not go back? This year is the first year of moving the capital, and after the envoys of various countries have inspected the nine borders, my father will definitely enter Beijing. How could my mother not be there at such an important time? ”
Gu Yao didn't expect that there would be this layer, and when he thought about it, he asked Zheng Zhi: "In this case, why don't you look right?"
Zheng Zhi was silent, or rather, hesitated. It involves the private affairs of the mother-in-law, do you want to talk about it?
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