"Do you really love him, and does he really love you." After listening to her story, Dean Han asked such a question.

Although Shu Yixin said that he didn't understand why the dean would ask such a question, he also answered honestly and nodded.

"Does it matter, but we really love each other, but there is still too much affection that stands in the way of us." The problem now is not that I don't love him at all, no matter how much I love each other, some problems still have to be solved or faced.

"Of course something like this is important, because the future between the two of you is at stake." If two people don't love each other so much, in fact, if they go on, there will be no results, and they will inevitably part ways in the end.

But if they truly love each other, then they can work together, and no matter what kind of pain and suffering they go through, they will definitely be happy in the end, because two people share the same heart.

"I really love each other, but there are too many problems, and these problems can't be completely ignored, and it's impossible to ignore them." This matter still has to be faced for himself, but he doesn't know how to face it, if he is with him, he will inevitably face his family.

"Since the two of them really love each other, what can stop you from the difference in status and status, it's just that you feel that you are not worthy of him, will he think of you like this" It's just that he doesn't feel worthy of him, and he feels that his identity as an orphan will drag him down, so he has been hesitant and can't make up his mind.

"He wouldn't think of me like this, and he wouldn't dislike me like this, but as for his family, I'm really afraid that it will cause him trouble, so I'd rather reject him at the beginning, reject him fiercely, and let him not think about it." If you are destined to have no part with him and cannot be together, then why should you give him hope at the beginning and disappoint him in the end, it is better to reject him outright from the beginning.

Shu Yixin thought like this at this time, and once he could imagine that being with him would bring him trouble, so he might as well refuse directly at the beginning.

It's just that considering that maybe the feelings for her haven't fallen so deep at this time, it's still possible to turn back, even if it's injured, it will only recover soon, but if you separate at the end, the damage to each other is very big, and I don't want to see her hurt, so I want to reject him directly at the beginning and let him break off such thoughts.

"Then have you ever thought that you are selfish in this way, it is just that you think it is good for him to do this, then have you asked his opinion, does he really think it is good for him" All this is just what you think is good for you, you think it is for him, but you ignore the point, forget to ask him if this is what he wants.

Although it is true, but from his point of view, does everything you do like this is what he wants, does he really want you to do this, in fact, you have no answer in your heart, and you have never asked him if he needs to be like this

"I'm actually just my idea, I never asked him, I think if I'm with him, it will drag him down, after all, it can't be denied that I'm just an orphan, if the people around him know, maybe people will laugh at him." You've always thought like this in your heart, if you really love him, then you can't let him fall into such a situation.

I just thought it was the best choice for him to do this, but I ignored a question, because I never asked him if he could accept it, and did he really want to do it for him

Or maybe he doesn't care about what he thinks, he doesn't care what people say about him behind his back, as long as he feels happy.

"It's just what you think, not what he thinks, so it can't be used as his reason at all, and another point is that for the time being, your identity is an orphan, it doesn't mean that your future identity will still be an orphan in the future, not everyone is born an orphan, it's parentless, everyone has their own parents, but you are a little surprised, after finding your family, you are not an orphan, you have an ordinary identity like ordinary people, maybe your family environment will be very good." There is no final conclusion on her identity, no one can say anything, and who dares to say that she is not worthy of the other party.

Now in her eyes, she may think that she is an orphan without a father and mother, but no one is born as an orphan, she also has parents, and she also has her own life experience, but it is not clear so far.

So at this moment, there is really no need for her to blame herself for the so-called identity, so far her identity is not clear, and it does not mean that she will be inferior to others.

Wouldn't there be any other accidents, if her identity is higher than the other party's, it doesn't mean that it's completely impossible, in short, this is an unknown, and no one can be sure.

"At the moment, that day has not come, so it is not convincing enough, so I am still a little worried." Shu Yixin looked at the dean and expressed the worry in his heart, no matter how he said it, that day had not yet come.

In fact, such a statement is not convincing at all, because he can't come up with enough evidence to prove his identity, and people will, all the time, feel that he is an orphan and is not worthy of his son.

"Sooner or later, it's just a matter of time." The dean disagreed, believing that it was only a matter of time.

"However, this is not convincing enough." Shu Yixin's heart will inevitably be a little burdened, after all, he doesn't know when that day will come, so he doesn't have enough convincing power to convince them.

"As long as you know this, it's good for the child, why bother to convince them, this is originally a matter for the two of you, as for other words, why bother to convince, there are so many people in this world, do you have to persuade those who oppose you one by one before being with him" This kind of thinking is fundamentally wrong, there is no need to wronged yourself for others, you feel that the other party knows that you are worthy of entrusting for life, it is enough.

Other people's thoughts, other people's opinions, there's really no need to think too much. As long as you feel happy, as for the rest, don't think about it so much.

It's always your own thoughts that are more important, and as for what other people think, you really don't have to think too much, because you can't interfere too much.

"I don't mean that, and I don't plan to convince everyone, but his family is necessary, and I can ignore other outsiders, but his family should also be very important to him." Shu Yixin didn't think about convincing the world, and she didn't have such a great idea, she just considered his family, just his family.

After all, he is an orphan, so he has no family, and he doesn't need to convince his family, even if he has a family, he believes that his family will respect his ideas.

is only his family, which he can't grasp and control. Maybe I feel that this kind of thing, I can't let him and his family have a dislike for him, and he will have to live together in the future, and he will be like this at this time, how will he live in the future

"You just need to know that he is good to you, he will take care of other things, you don't have to worry about these things at all, no matter how you say that the other party is his family, if he loves you deeply, he will definitely help you get these things." If he doesn't want to do these things for you, then he doesn't love you as much as he says.

Dean Han, as a person who has come over, has heard too many things like this, so slowly he can also conclude that what other people think is really not important, the important thing is that the two of them feel that they are the right people for each other, and it is enough to be the people who should be protected, as for the family side, it has been a long time, and it is slowly acceptable.

It can only be said that at the beginning, there may be a lot of unhappiness in my heart, but that's just a process, and after a long time, I will be able to accept it naturally, not that whoever starts will accept each other, after all, you insert it like this, it always seems to make people's original life, so it changes a little.

At this time, it is necessary to slowly run in with each other, after all, this requires a process. As long as you go through this process, there is nothing that is not as bad as you think, so you really don't think too much about it at this time, as long as the two people feel right and want to be together.

If everyone's thoughts have to be taken into account, then how tiring should such a life be, there is really no need to let yourself live so tired, there is really no need to make such a choice.

"It's not that he doesn't want to help me, but I don't think I should cause him too much trouble, after all, there is always a certain gap between me and him, how can a family like him want an orphaned daughter-in-law like me" Shu Yi was more worried about his family, not worried that he would change his mind about him or something.

And she is not so worried about this, she is more worried about other people's families, after all, her identity is there, and she knows what kind of identity she is, and she doesn't want him to be in a dilemma in the middle, so she always feels that she has to think about this matter carefully.