Chapter 419: Finally Found Her
Does it mean that because I am unwilling to give up, I always feel that there is still a chance? These recent things are the only clues for me, if I don't even have this clue, it is really not easy to find her past, unless she tells herself in person.
Let her tell herself in person, at the same time, she must recognize herself and her, but at present, she is not mentally prepared.
I wasn't prepared at all, and I couldn't take the liberty of telling her that I was her biological father. Even if she could say these words herself, she wouldn't necessarily believe them.
Since she won't believe in herself, and she needs a while to buffer, let's put this matter off for the time being. I know that she is still alive, I know that she is doing well, and the rest of me really has no urgency.
It was because I didn't know her news before, so I especially wanted to find her, and I didn't know how she was doing. But now I know everything I should know, so there is no urgency.
Let's just let it be.
"You're just too anxious to behave like this, you always feel that there is still a chance, it's still possible, don't believe that the other party will deceive you." As a person who has come over, how could He Yuhe not know this feeling, but he was too afraid that he would lose it again, so he wanted to work hard again.
I can understand his mentality, and after being separated for more than 20 years, I finally have news of the other party at this time, so how can I give up easily.
But sometimes it's often like this, the authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear.
"It's no wonder you have such thoughts, after all, you've been looking for her for more than 20 years, and you've finally found her." In other words, if you are any person, you have been looking for a person for more than 20 years, and you finally find it, and the mood is naturally different, of course, there is an urgent mentality, wanting to know all his past.
Therefore, it is not that he cannot understand everything he has done, but sometimes he should analyze it from a rational point of view, like this time, if he has been looking for that place all the time, then when will he find it?
Now in the end, he didn't lose his way, but he indulged in it for a few days, searched for a few days, and then chose to come back after no news.
"I can only say that I am a fan of the authorities, you stand in the perspective of a bystander, and see all this more clearly." After all, the angle from which he stands is different, so the way he looks at the problem is also different.
Sun Yirong himself admits that the position he stands in is different, so sometimes he doesn't think about the problem so clearly.
Maybe it's really what they say, they are too anxious, so they have such a move, in other words, they should be very calm about themselves, because the other party is their daughter, and they have been looking for her for so many years, so they will lose their minds.
"Uncle Sun, it's just that you are very calm in handling things, but in the face of this incident, you may be in a mess." This matter is related to his daughter, and it is normal for him to mess up.
He Yuhe was very calm at this moment, and analyzed the current situation with him. The only way I can help him is to help him analyze these situations, and the rest of myself really can't help anything. The next thing is up to him to choose, after all, it is their private matter.
"I know, I think I'll have to be calmer in the future." After this incident, how could I think, how could I not know if I didn't understand, I had to deal with this matter more calmly than before.
I didn't understand it before, but now I've figured it out myself. In fact, even if he didn't remind himself, he slowly woke up, and at first he was just too excited and didn't take into account other reasons.
I still have a little selfish thoughts, the other party is still my daughter, of course I have to think about her. After being separated for so many years, I can't say it, just believe it, I always need a process, and everything I do has to be planned for her.
"It's naturally good that you can think like this, I'm just worried about you, because the other party is because of your daughter, so some things will inevitably make accurate judgments." He Yuhe actually deliberately reminded him of this, whether the other party is his daughter or not, he should be treated sensibly and fairly, and the other party should not be his daughter, that is, he will receive special treatment.
He had to distinguish between public affairs and private affairs.
"How are you going to punish her?" Sun Yirong's head also turned back at this time, and Lin Ya should not do this.
When she entered the company, she used false personnel information, so at this time, if she was investigated, what kind of punishment would she receive.
So at this time, I was a little curious, what kind of decision would He Yuhe make, and what kind of punishment would he have?
In the final analysis, I am still a little worried about her, probably considering that the other party is my daughter, if she loses this job, I don't know what kind of blow it will be for her.
She had worked hard to find this job, but she should be very sad to lose this job today. Although she didn't agree with her approach so much, she had already done it, and at this time she could only be cheeky and ask what the result would be.
"Uncle Sun, I just told my grandfather about this matter, I don't plan to interfere, you can do it yourself." Although he said that the other party was his secretary, he really didn't plan to meddle in this matter.
"So what do you mean, are you going to leave it alone?" Sun Yirong couldn't see through his thoughts, and he didn't know if he really planned not to interfere and not care about anything, just let this matter take its course.
"I don't plan to care, if it's another employee, maybe I'll make a choice, but considering that the other party is your daughter, and you and her have been lost for so many years, no matter which side you stand on, I don't think I'm qualified to take care of this matter, grandpa has always felt that this matter is owed to you, so this matter will be handled with full authority." It can be regarded as repaying him a favor by himself, and a favor for his grandfather.
In response to this incident, grandpa has been haunted by it all these years and has never forgotten it. Now that he has finally found the other party, it can be regarded as a matter in his heart.
I just paid off a love debt by doing this, but in fact, for his payment, it is not this love debt that can be paid off.
"Thank you." Sun Yirong really didn't expect that when he heard such a result, he would leave this matter to himself.
"Uncle Sun, you don't have to be so polite to me, this is what we owe you." In any case, there was an inescapable responsibility at the beginning, so at this time it can only be said that it is to repay the debt.
"You don't have to think like that, it's not a debt to whom, after all, I've never thought about it like this, I just feel a little regretful, but now for me, I don't even have this regret, because I've found her." I've found her, and that's more important than anything else, and I really don't want to care about everything in the past.
"She grew up in an orphanage, she should have suffered a lot in the past few years, and she has also said that many people are treated unequally, so she made such a move, I think you should stand in her shoes, think about her, you will understand why she chose to do this, knowing that it is very dangerous to do so, but in the end she still made such a choice." He Yuhe finally said such a thing from the bottom of his heart, he didn't understand these things before, but now after empathy, he gradually understands.
"I never imagined that she would grow up in an orphanage." And he lives in the same city as himself, and what makes me even more surprised is that I have met her a long time ago, but I don't know that she is my biological daughter.
How to say, all this is really arranged by God and the dark, in fact, everything has been arranged a long time ago, but I didn't find out that she has always been by her side, and she is quite good, and she is really proud of her.
Being able to get to this point by her own ability, I am really proud of her, at least it proves that she is really capable and wants to live a good life, so she has been working hard to live.
Another reason why she is happy is that she has never given up on herself, no matter how hard life is. Before I found her, I didn't know how worried I was, worried that she would complain that she would give up on herself when she grew up, it seems that she didn't give up on herself, but worked hard to make herself live a better life.
Thinking that she grew up in an orphanage, you should be able to think that she has suffered a lot, and it is no wonder that He Yuhe comforted himself at that time and said that he would let him think about her from her point of view.
"Well, over the years, you have actually been very close, but neither of you has noticed each other, probably because God played a joke on you." Otherwise, how could they be so close and not find out each other's identities, especially now in the same company.
No matter what happened in the past, now that I have found the other party, it can be regarded as a matter of heart.
Finally waited for the other party, finally found her, and knew that her life was good now, and I didn't think about bothering me for the time being.
"I thought about it for a while, let's not tell her for the time being, the relationship between me and her, as for the rest, I don't think it's better to change, I'm afraid, I take the liberty of telling her that it will hurt her!" Although I really wanted to recognize her in my heart and wanted to tell her these things, I hesitated to the end and felt that I should not change for the time being.