Chapter 128: Marriage
"Then I understand why other young couples have to live alone and live in a two-person world! If you live with someone, you can't make out with someone! It's a pity that with my ability, I can't give you a house! Li Ping became sad again.
"You're not right, you're too selfish in the front, and you're too inferior in the back!" She continued with a serious face, "You shouldn't have lived here in the first place, have you considered how it feels for us to be intimate and cook for Auntie?" But she doesn't care about her own feelings, but cares about whether we are doing contraception or not, and she is really good for us! So next, we shouldn't be like this anymore! I've calculated that if I buy a house by myself and need to be in my forties to afford it, then the two of us should be able to buy a slightly older house in our forties. “
Li Ping stared at her like an alien for a long time.
"What did I say wrong?" She asked earnestly.
"That's right, but if by that time, we're all too young, is it still necessary to buy a house? And after being suppressed for so many years, will you still want to have sex? “
"I think the older I get, the more necessary it is to buy a house. You think, when you are old, you will often stay at home, then the house I bought with so much money is worth it, when I was young, except for sleeping at night, it was not always at work, it didn't make much sense to buy it. As for sex, but it's the best, in addition to the pain, I also feel that my legs are a little weird now, how do they turn out. “
"What you said about the house seems to be right, as for intimacy, you should be psychological, the main thing is that you and I are the first time, let's do more in the future."
"No, if I hadn't thought about SARS last time, and you didn't give up, I wouldn't have agreed, don't forget, we haven't got a marriage certificate yet, it's illegal cohabitation! If you do this again, I won't try to marry you. “
Li Ping reluctantly complied.
My cousin probably went back to her parents' house and found out about their relationship, so she called her:
"It's not that I'm mentally unbalanced, but I live under the same roof with my parents-in-law, which is really uncomfortable. My parents-in-law look very kind, and there are constant conflicts when they live together, and I am worried about whether I can live this day when the child in my belly is born! Li Ping's parents are uncomfortable to look at, it's no wonder you can feel good if you live with them! “
"We rented another house outside, and his grandparents had to ask them to pay the rent."
"Huh?!"
The cousin on the other end of the phone quickly hung up the phone, and she didn't know for a moment whether her cousin was surprised that she and Li Ping were living together illegally, or if she was psychologically unbalanced.
If it's the former, then she won't be able to raise her head when she goes home in the future! If you really can't do it, don't go home, anyway, if you don't get pregnant until the day you get married, it's hard for people to say anything.
If it's the latter, cousin, you can balance it out, you can have a baby anyway.
Suddenly, she remembered that Li Ping's mother had misdiagnosed her with SARS this time. Li Ping said that his mother used to be a barefoot doctor, and now she is not a doctor in the hospital, let alone an expert in hyperthyroidism. Aunt Cooking's child was stillborn, is it just an accident? Instead of guessing, why don't you look it up on the Internet as well.
After checking, she was a little relieved. It turns out that hyperthyroidism is not suitable for having children, and it mainly refers to the kind of women who are pregnant with hyperthyroidism, or women who are already pregnant, and are found to have hyperthyroidism. And if you have had hyperthyroidism before, you have been cured and can have children normally. Her hyperthyroidism is now normal, except for one indicator that is not very stable.
Later, when she went to the hospital for a follow-up, she consulted the old specialist. The old expert said that her condition is basically under control at present, and she really wants to give birth, so she can try, but she must follow the doctor's prenatal examination.
When she came out of the hospital, she was so happy that she deliberately entered the baby store next to her, which she had not dared to enter before. The baby's things in it are so cute, the left is a boy's, the right is a girl's, she came to the boy's side, grandparents don't need to ask, they must like boys. At this time, a clerk came up to her and asked her enthusiastically if she was giving it to a boy for a few months. She was embarrassed to say that she was just looking at it casually, and quickly left the store.
I was not pregnant anymore, of course people thought she was buying it and giving it away! Later, she thought about it carefully, if she was pregnant at this time, then when she turned twenty-two years old and could get a marriage certificate, the children would be born, don't be laughed at by the old family? Moreover, the old expert said that it is basically under control and can be tried, so what if it is like Aunt Cooking, and the child is not saved? In this way, it doesn't make Li Ping's grandparents happy in vain, so let's wait until they are completely controlled.
She told Aunt Cooking and Li Ping about her normal birth. The two reacted very differently.
Aunt Cooking Rice She said it at noon, and Auntie was happy at first, and then regretted it. The happy thing is that she finally doesn't have to follow in her own footsteps, and what she regrets is that she didn't dare to try again, if she gave birth to one, her husband would not leave her.
When Li Ping came to pick her up from work in the evening, she told him, he was first surprised, then worried. He was surprised that she could give birth, and he was worried that she would not be able to raise her after giving birth: first of all, there was no house to live in, and Aunt Cooking's house was actually not big, and after having a child, the things added were many times that of what he brought; secondly, there is no money to raise, those stars still have to earn milk powder money for their children, how can he afford to raise a poor egg; In the end, no one brought him, his mother was not hopeful, and it was inconvenient for his mother-in-law to be in his hometown, Xiao Yang earned more money than him, and he couldn't let her give up her job to take care of the children full-time.
These reactions were actually expected by her.
After arriving home, she asked Li Ping to wash first. I came to the TV and said to Aunt Cooking with a smile: "Actually, Auntie, your divorce is not mainly because you don't have children. You think, your husband is almost 60 years old now, and it is unlikely that he will have any more children! I think it's mainly Auntie, your circle of activities is too small. You see, the amount of time you usually spend away from home to go out to play in a year doesn't add up to less than a week, right? Really, Auntie, you have to go out for a walk, have fun, keep fit, don't be bored at home and watch these crying TV series, the more you watch these things, the more pessimistic you are. How could a person like an aunt who has a good heart and cooks deliciously not find someone better than her original husband? ”