Chapter 491: I can't change the identity of an orphan

"He won't necessarily talk to you when he finds the other party." No matter how he said it, it was all his private matter, and he didn't tell Shu Yixin, which was normal.

But listening to the tone of his voice, it seemed that it was very strange to me, and it seemed that the relationship between the two of them was not as simple as they said.

Otherwise, how could you tell each other about such a private matter? can know such private things of the other party, it is definitely not an ordinary friend, it must be the kind of person who is worthy of friendship.

"It's hard to say on that, but we had a pact that if she found the girl she would show me, and if he remembered the pact, he would do it." Although he said that he had an agreement with him before, it was difficult to say whether he wanted to fulfill this promise, and he couldn't force and force it.

If he wants to tell himself, he will tell himself, and if he is not willing to tell himself, then he can't force it, after all, this is a private matter of his feelings, and he shouldn't ask more.

That being said, my heart still wants him to keep his promise and stick to his original promise.

"It seems that your friendship is not ordinary, if there is no girl, maybe you are still possible, at least grandpa thinks that the two of you are still quite a good match together." Ye Lao didn't dare to say bluntly that he had a future with him at this time, after all, he didn't know what the other party thought.

He Yuhe will be a very thoughtful person in the future, and his affairs have always been his own decisions, and even his grandfather does not dare to make arrangements for him, let alone himself.

For example, if he really likes that girl, then it is impossible for Yixin to say anything to him, after all, he knows that he is a very persistent person, love if he loves, and if he doesn't love, he doesn't love, and he can't force him at all.

If this is really the case, then I can only say regret.

Originally, I thought that the two of them were a good match, but I didn't expect there to be such an episode in the middle, which made me a little unexpected.

Even so, until this matter is confirmed, you can't jump to conclusions, after all, any possibility is possible.

"Grandpa, don't keep making fun of me, I told you that it's impossible between me and him, it's just that you don't believe it." At the beginning, he made it very clear to his grandfather, but he never listened to it, thinking that there was a possibility between him and him.

There are many problems that hinder the things between himself and him, one is the gap in identity and status, the other is that he knows that he has a girl he likes in his heart, and the other is that even if he likes himself and wants to be with him, then his family knows that he is an orphan, will he treat himself like Lin Xu's family in the future, he doesn't like himself at all, let alone what future he has with him.

Children from families like him should pay attention to the right family, and no matter what he and he say, they are not right and wrong, so it is impossible at all.

So my heart is also clear, knowing that it is impossible to be with him, so at the beginning, I didn't dare to have any extravagant hopes, I didn't dare to think that there was a future between myself and him.

At present, I feel very good that I can be friends with him, not to mention any other requirements. No, I wouldn't have such a request, and I wouldn't have such a thought, because I know in my heart better than anyone else that it is impossible.

Although it is said that it is a good place to live in the new society, it is still very important for many traditional values. On the other hand, if you are a parent, you don't want your child to find someone whose status is much worse than that of your own family.

In fact, I can still figure out these things, but sometimes I don't bother to think about them, and I think it's unlikely.

Therefore, I feel that it is necessary to recognize a little truth, impossible is impossible, why should I have so much hope, put all my thoughts into it, I should firmly believe that such a sentence, it should belong to me, it will definitely belong to myself, others can't take it away, and if it doesn't belong to me, even if I take it by myself, I will still lose it in the end.

"Having said that, how can you know if there will be a turnaround until the last minute? So don't be too disappointed. "Mr. Ye feels that the matter has not yet reached the last step, how can he know how to solve it, so there will still be a chance.

"Okay, grandpa, don't joke with me." It's really impossible for me and him to know clearly, even if I've always had a crush on him, and I've thought about whether one day I'll make my dreams come true, but reality tells me that it's impossible.

After recognizing the reality, tell yourself that you don't want to say anything that shouldn't belong to you, after all, he really doesn't belong to you.

"Look, is it so exaggerated that people who don't know think you really like him, or are you embarrassed to admit that I said something on my mind?" Ye Lao felt that Yixin's reaction at this time was a bit excessive, knowing that he was joking, but he explained again and again that he had nothing to do with him.

"The reason why I'm nervous is not that I'm worried about grandpa, you're guessing, you don't know the situation, it's okay, and I know the situation, what do you think of him, what do you think he will think of me?" Shu Yixin was extremely scared, he would look at him with strange eyes, as if he was trying to treat him, and he didn't want to be misunderstood.

Maybe I think he's the only one special, so I'm really worried that he'll look at me with a strange look. After all, he really regarded himself as a friend from the beginning, so he couldn't let him down too much, knowing that he had someone he liked, why did he stick a foot in it? You can't do such a thing on your own.

"Grandpa, seriously, not kidding you, the two of you really look like a good match." Ye Lao felt that no matter how much he looked left and right, he felt that the two of them were actually quite a good match.

"How can the two of us be so compatible? Even if he doesn't have someone he likes, if I'm with him, do you think his family will accept it? Who would want to accept the daughter-in-law of an orphan. "Assuming that between himself and him, it is really possible that he really likes himself, but what about his family, can he really accept himself?

Isn't the last relationship a good lesson? So don't be delusional that you are just an orphan, how can you accommodate yourself if you live in a wealthy family.

No matter what, they can't change themselves, they are orphans, and in their eyes, they are a trouble, which will only bring endless trouble to their family, and they can't help at all, and they can't raise their faces.

I know this very well, so I really don't dare to think about some things, after all, I have long passed the age of dreaming, and I know that those are impossible, so I won't waste time thinking about it.

"Being an orphan, so what, I'm sure he won't dislike you, and will convince his family to accept you." Ye Lao never felt that she was an orphan, so she had to be rejected by others, and her status was not so noble, but so what, the important thing was to look at her personal qualities.

He Yuhe he knows is definitely not a person who dislikes the poor and loves the rich, if he really identifies the other party, then no matter what kind of identity and status the other party is, he will do his original promise, no matter how his family opposes it, he will still stick to his original promise.

"Grandpa, that's why you said this because you don't dislike me, but it doesn't mean that everyone thinks like this, and it doesn't mean that everyone is as reasonable as you." If everyone thought like grandpa, he and Lin Ya would not have been wronged and bullied at the beginning.

I remember that when I first came out of work, I knew that I was an orphan, and I didn't know how many white eyes I had suffered, how many grievances I had suffered, and no one had to confide in me, so how could I be delusional at this time that people would not reject my identity.

The things that happened before can be said to be vivid, and they all say that they can forget it, but this society is so realistic.

Ye Lao was silent, after all, what she said also had a certain amount of truth Yes, not everyone really sees her like this, and some people will also dislike her, such as the sons and daughters-in-law in their own families.

If their son marries an orphan and comes back, they will also object, feeling that the door is not right, although they will not object, and they will not say anything, but it does not mean that they will not say something, they always feel that such an identity is unseemly, and they always feel that something is missing.

So at this time, when Yixin said this, he was speechless, and he had to admit that what he said was true and true, many people do have such thoughts and opinions, and they always feel that the identity of an orphan is too low, and they will be laughed at if they take it out.

Although I don't have such thoughts, it doesn't mean that the people around me don't have these ideas, in fact, it's wrong to really think like this, after all, everyone has their own ideas, which can't be forced, the other party has such a view, and will look at a pot with such eyes, in fact, who is right and who is wrong.

So what he said is not to say that there is no truth at all, in fact, it is quite reasonable.

Shu Yixin looked at the silent grandfather, probably knowing what he said, he was reflecting.

I am very grateful that my grandfather will not look at him with such a strange look, but this can only be said to be an individual, not all people think like him, and most people's ideas will still be repulsed.