Fang Hao listened to Xinxin's words carefully before he breathed a sigh of relief.

Xinxin was panting and exaggerated.

It is said to be beating, but in fact it is harassment.

After all, it's only in the small class now, born in a small month, can be 3 and a half years old close to 4 years old, 1 and 2 months born is okay, the worst thing is that there is a student in their class on August 31, although pinching a little can go to a small class, playing a day can only be a year late, but it's really not a good thing for him, because of his young age, he can't eat well at noon in school, and he will pee his pants.

Every day when his parents go to school, they will prepare two pairs of pants for him to put with the teacher, and the teacher will also help change the pants.

But for him, it doesn't feel good either.

Don't think that children don't understand, they will laugh at each other, and they also have self-esteem, growing up in this environment, and because of their young age, their understanding ability is relatively poor, and they are one step behind others everywhere, in fact, the blow to self-confidence is very powerful.

And this Zhang Caojun, although it is not so miserable, is only 3 years old and 4 months, and he is a boy, which is more naughty.

I can't sit still in class.

Twist in the east, look in the west.

Touch this person, pull that person to talk.

Teacher Lu often tells Zhang Caojun's mother in the class group that she should guide Zhang Caojun more at home and let him know about group life and the like, after all, there are so many children in the school that it is impossible to take care of all of them.

Fang Hao emphasized: "Xinxin, that can't be regarded as a fight!" ”

Xin Xin nodded and begged: "Dad, you just talk to Teacher Lu, let me change positions, I am listening carefully in class, he will always harass me!" ”

Fang Hao asked, "Is it just harassing you?" ”

Xin Xin shook her head: "That's not it, the children next to me are also harassed!" ”

Fang Hao thought for a while and said, "Then I'll talk to the teacher!" ”

In the past, Fang Hao thought that kindergarten was played by the teacher, but after watching the video of the teacher sharing the class, Fang Hao understood that the kindergarten stage, especially the small class, is actually entertaining.

For example, washing hands before eating and after using the toilet, learning about group life, polite behavior, etc.

Many points, at home, parents can't remember to teach.

As soon as he opened the WeChat group of the sunflower class, Fang Hao wanted to add Mr. Lu's WeChat and talk about it in a private chat.

As a result, I saw that Teacher Lu was chatting with parents in the group.

"Teacher Lu, how is Peng Jiahao doing today?"

"The whole is okay, but when I do morning exercises, he doesn't want to do it, and after I told him, he is willing!"

"Thank you, teacher!"

"Teacher Lu, how is Xing Wenbo doing today?"

"Xing Wenbo performed very well today, answering questions very actively, sitting well, holding his little hands high, his voice is very loud, and he is very logical! It seems that Xing Wenbo's mother has educated him well at home! ”

"Hey, we've always had storytellers at home!"

……

Fang Hao sighed that this Teacher Lu is still quite responsible, and he will answer parents' questions in the WeChat group after school.

If a parent asks, he prides himself on having the patience to ask.

But more than ten, or even more than two dozen parents, ask every day after school.

Mr. Lu can still answer, instead of saying "very good" in a perfunctory manner, which is commendable.

I'm getting ready to go to Mr. Kalu.

Fang Hao saw Teacher Lu @ Zhang Caojun's mother: Zhang Caojun performed very well today, it was the best performance since the beginning of school, he could not speak for a whole class, and he listened carefully, I have worked hard for you, and I will work hard in the future!

Zhang Caojun's mother: (big smile) During this time, I spent time with him every day, and I also learned from other parents and children to tell stories, and the stories were reasonable! It's really useful, thank you, teacher, thank you mom and dad.

Seeing this, Fang Hao fell into deep thought.

He decided not to talk to Mr. Lu about it first.

Instead, he said to Xinxin: "Xinxin, do you think Zhang Caojun is a bad boy?" ”

Xin Xin was stunned for a moment, and then said, "Hmm...... Think about it...... He, he doesn't seem to be a bad boy, but he's more naughty! ”

Fang Hao said: "His naughtiness has indeed caused trouble to you, but I think this is not a reason for him to change positions!" There are two reasons for this! ”

He held up two fingers as he spoke.

It's over!

Seeing her father's habitual gesture, Xinxin suddenly panicked in her heart, and her father was about to start preaching again, and her big eyes began to dodge a little.

But no matter how you dodge, you can't hide from Fang Hao.

"First, let's have empathy!"

"Alas!" Xinxin sighed heavily in her heart, why should I bear a burden that I shouldn't bear at my age......

However, Dad is usually very good, so I have to make Dad happy.

It's decided, let dad cook a big meal for dinner!

After doing a good job of mental construction, Xin Xin showed a bright smile: "Dad, what is empathy?" I don't understand! ”

Fang Hao explained: "Empathy means that you have to think from the perspective of others! I'll give you an example, if you are naughty and then come to school the next day and the teacher will change you to a different seat, will you feel comfortable? ”

Xinxin thought seriously: "It will be uncomfortable!" Why should I change seats? ”

Fang Hao nodded with satisfaction, education makes people happy, he continued: "And what's even more terrifying is that if other classmates also complain about him and continue to let him change seats, he will become more and more uncomfortable!" ”

Xin Xin nodded as if she didn't understand: "Then if you let Zhang Caojun change seats, Zhang Caojun will be uncomfortable!" But the problem is that he doesn't change seats, and I sit next to him, and I'm very uncomfortable! Dad, do you think you want me to be uncomfortable, or do you want him to be uncomfortable? ”

She was in a quandary.

Fang Hao said: "This is the second point I want to say! Xinxin, my father told you before that school is also a small society! That's right, at school, Dad can help you! However, if you don't learn how to use it, how will you solve any problems in your work in the future? ”

Xin Xin nodded: "Then what should I do?" ”

Fang Hao said: "You just convince him, convince people with reason, and let him not make trouble!" ”

"Well, okay!" Xin Xin sweetly agreed, "That's right, Dad, the coconut chicken you made last time is delicious, I want to eat it!" ”

"Coconut chicken?" Fang Hao was immediately led away from the topic, "There are no coconuts at home!" That's good, I'll pick up Garbo in a while, let's go to the supermarket and buy a few coconuts back! ”

"Yay!" Xin Xin laughed happily.

……

In fact, Fang Hao is also very weak socially, but he feels that his method is absolutely no problem for a three- or four-year-old child.

Then as soon as school was out the next day, Fang Hao asked Xinxin: "How is it?" How are you today? ”

Xin Xin nodded: "Zhang Caojun is very good today, don't make trouble!" ”

Fang Hao asked, "How did you do it?" What did you say to him? Is it reasonable to convince people with reason? ”

Xin Xin said: "I'm a little teacher, Dad, you know, right?" ”

The little teacher, in fact, is a hard job, helping the teacher distribute snacks, take toys, clean up toys, etc., but the children enjoy it and feel that it is an honor.

"Uh-huh!"

Xin Xin said: "I will say to Zhang Caojun, if you don't listen to me, I will be the last to send you snacks and the first to take away your toys!" Then he said that he would always listen to me and be my follower, and if anyone didn't listen to me, he would help me teach him! ”

Fang Hao was dumbfounded when he heard this.

This...... It seems to be a little different from what I imagined to convince people.

I have been committed to cultivating Xinxin into a reasonable girl.

How does it seem now...... It has become coercion and temptation?

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