Chapter 60: Hands-on Accidents
I was busy at work and asked him what the surprise was. The son said on the phone that his father had written to him and sent him a birthday present.
I pretended to be happy and said I'll just say it! Daddy loves you. I'll be home right away.
When I entered the house, my son took me by the hand and quickly showed me the letters and gifts he had received. When I watched it, he said over and over again, "How did Dad know I liked helicopters." ”
I pretended to be calm, saying that Bobo must have dreamed of my father. Bobo happily said that he had dreamed of his father the day before yesterday. As he spoke, his son looked up with a smile on his face.
When Ren Peng came back in the evening, Bobo told him about the letter and gifts he had received. Ren Peng listened to it and asked Bobo, what do you think after reading it?
Bobo said he wanted to write to his father, but the envelope didn't have the sender's address. He asked Ren Peng why his father didn't write the sender's address, and his father thought he wouldn't write a letter. He will! He was able to write letters in the third grade.
Ren Peng didn't want to hurt the child's confidence, and said: "If you write a letter, you may not send it." ”
Bobo tilted his head with a puzzled expression on his face and asked, "Why don't you send it out?" ”
Ren Peng didn't answer him directly, and said: "Some letters have been written, and they are kept as a kind of sustenance, and they are also a kind of thought, and the letters you wrote are kept, and when Dad comes back, take them out for him to read, and he will be happy." ”
Bobo nodded his head in understanding, and when he put away the letter, he muttered again: Will Dad call me!
Ren Peng said: "Yes." ”
The next day, Bobo received a call from his father. I asked Ren Peng to play it.
Bobo went back to his old self, talking and laughing, and secretly told me that he was going to surprise his father and strive to be admitted to the city No. 1 middle school.
Our mother and son high-fived.
I thought that if I finally passed my son's pass, I could be busy with the market with peace of mind. Teacher Chen called again and said that Bobo had pushed Wang Jun down and came to the school quickly.
I was settling the account, and nervously asked Mr. Chen if Wang Jun was okay! Teacher Chen said, come quickly! I hung up the phone.
As soon as Ren Peng came in, I got angry, scolded Bobo, this kid is getting more and more disagreeable, and beat his classmates again. It's strange if I don't beat him up this time.
Ren Peng immediately said that he was not allowed to beat the child when he met, and he would go too. He grabbed the bag on the table and followed.
I said that I could do it alone, but Ren Peng ignored me, walked straight to the front of the car, opened the door, and ordered me to get into the car.
On the way there, he kept doing work for me, saying that Bobo was a sensible child, and if he hit his classmates, he must have said something to his classmates.
I don't listen to persuasion, saying that even if my classmates say something wrong, I can't beat someone! Find a teacher to judge! Now every family has a baby, you say that if you beat someone else's child out of trouble, we parents will not only be angry and looked down upon, but the child's reputation will not be good.
At this time, Ren Peng also joked, saying that the problem was not so serious.
I argued, I just asked Mr. Chen, is my classmate Wang Jun okay? Teacher Chen hung up the phone. Something must be wrong. I raised my hand to brush the hair in front of my forehead in annoyance, muttering, I hate Feng Wei to death, this bastard.
Ren Peng laughed: "Don't be nervous, there is me!" ”
When I arrived at the school gate, I saw Mr. Chen, Bobo, Wang Jun and his mother standing there. Wang Jun seemed to be crying, and from time to time he raised his head to wipe his tears.
I guess Bobo, this ugly boy is in trouble for me this time. As soon as I got out of the car, I approached Bobo, grabbed his arm and got angry: "Why are you fighting Wang Jun again, don't you want to go to school." Tell me if you don't want to go! What are you hitting people for? ”
My son pulled my hand away, raised his angry face, and said with tears in his eyes, saying that Wang Jun had picked up the letter that his father had written for him and tore it as waste paper.
Wang Jun argued, saying that he picked it up on the ground, and he thought it was waste paper, so he tore it.
"You did it on purpose!" Bobo does not follow.
"I didn't!" Classmate Wang Jun fought hard to justify it.
"Bobo, apologize to my classmates!" I pointed at him and ordered.
He glared at me angrily and said no. I was so angry that I raised my hand to hit him, but he burst into tears, saying that it was the first letter his father had written, and that he would read it every day.
My hand was stuck in the air, yelling at him that your things were not put away, and I was torn up by my classmates and threw the responsibility on you, and apologized to Wang Jun.
"If my dad was here, he wouldn't be like this!" Bobo yelled at me again.
I changed my pricked hand to a fingered hand and ordered him to apologize. Ren Peng dragged my arm down and said that he was cruel to the child, and he would solve the problem when he came. Teacher Chen also said yes.
After Ren Peng finished speaking, he went over to ask Wang Jun where he was uncomfortable. Wang Jun touched his tears and did not say anything. His mother looked furious, and trained Ren Peng to educate her son better in the future, otherwise he would go to prison sooner or later.
Ren Peng didn't follow and asked Wang Jun's mother: "How can you be a parent?" If you can't speak, shut up, and others won't treat you like a dumb person. ”
Wang Jun's mother was furious and asked Ren Peng: "What qualifications do you have to say, go aside." ”
Ren Peng said, what you said, after speaking, he grabbed my arm and yelled: Let's go, no matter.
I pulled Ren Peng's hand away, Wang Jun's mother said that she wanted to call the police, she grabbed Wang Jun's arm, and Wang Jun cried out in pain.
Just when the class bell rang, Teacher Chen looked in a dilemma, I persuaded Teacher Chen to go to class, and I took Wang Jun to the hospital.
Teacher Chen agreed, told me not to make any more noise, took Wang Jun to the hospital to have a good look, and pulled Bobo back to the classroom.
When he arrived at the hospital, after an X-ray examination, Wang Jun's right elbow was dislocated. When the doctor was still elbowing, Wang Jun screamed in pain and sweated on his forehead. It's so heartbroken that I'm wiping it from my eyes. I felt so bad that I said I'm sorry over and over again.
The dislocation was fine, and when I left the hospital, I took out 500 yuan from my bag and put it in the hands of Wang Jun's mother, saying that I would buy some nutritional products for the child.
Wang Jun's mother also asked when she grabbed the money, how much? I said five hundred! With a gloomy face, she grabbed it and put it in her bag. The village party secretary came in in a hurry, and I was about to say hello to his old man. His eyes were fixed on Wang Jun, and as soon as he walked in, he asked if his bones were cracked. Wang Jun cried and complained, and his arm was dislocated.
Ren Peng and I asked in surprise that this is your grandson.
The village party secretary has no good words, and no matter how big and good his career is, it is not as good as educating an excellent child.
I could hear that the village party secretary was sarcastically mocking me. In order to take care of his old man's mood, he said: Yes! Be! Be.
When they arrived at the car, Ren Peng hurriedly pulled the car door and let them get on, but the village party secretary scratched his hand and stopped a taxi, sat on it and walked away, making me and Ren Peng look embarrassed.
When driving away, Ren Peng said: The village party secretary is not a ball.
I said that the size is a village official, who has been on the shelf for more than 20 years and is qualified.
Ren Peng didn't answer me, just said, this matter is over.
I said no! This time Bobo had to write a letter of guarantee. Ren Peng said that he was still a child, don't make things stiff.
"When you come back from school, you don't care how I train!" I gave Ren Peng an order.
Ren Peng listened to my words, smiled and shook his head.
*****
Bobo came home from school, and as soon as he entered the door and saw me with a calm face, he explained the truth of the matter in advance, saying that since the last time he had a conflict with Wang Jun, although the two were not at the same table, Wang Jun always made a bad deal in the back, instigating the new table not to play with him and say bad things about him. The letter was originally in the school bag, but how did he pick it up when it fell to the ground. When he picked it up, he saw it, and he asked him not to give it, saying that what he picked up was not stolen and robbed, and he dealt with it himself. He shouted for him to return him, but he just didn't pay it back, he grabbed it angrily, he tore it for me, he was angry, and he pushed him down as soon as he could. Bobo finished pouting, frowning, and nervously kneading each other's two small hands.
This is clearly to show me that he is right to push people.
With a serious face, I asked him, "What do you mean, you're right!" ”
"He took my letter, and I pushed him!" Bobo actually argued.
I asked him, who told you not to keep the letter and not to drop the letter on the ground, will Wang Jun take the opportunity to get along with you?
"He must have stolen it!" Bobo fought for reasons again.
I think this kid is the same as Feng Wei, if he is wrong, he is wrong, and he is trying to find all kinds of reasons, what kind of attitude is this, and when he goes to society in the future, he must always be more serious and not good.
Let me explain hypothetically, if you push Wang Jun down today and break a bone, don't you say you are causing a big disaster? Not only delays the learning of other children, but also makes people suffer from illness, and the family still has to wait, what should I do?
The mother-in-law on the side listened to it, and actually said that this is not a fracture, what kind of child to train!
Someone supported him, and Bobo didn't say a word, turned around and went to the bedroom. I yelled angrily: You wrote me the guarantee.
I was answered by the sound of a heavy door slamming.
I was angry and gave it to me. Son Bobo actually yelled through the door, if he didn't think he was good, he went to his father.
This killer trick stopped me. I pretend to be strong, heh you dare.
My son didn't react anymore, I was so angry that I was about to knock on the door, but I was pushed into another bedroom by Ren Penglian.
As soon as I entered, Ren Peng closed the door, pressed me to sit on the bed and reprimanded me, saying What did I see with a child?
I yelled: Look at him, he has done something wrong, but he has this attitude.
Ren Peng actually laughed: If you looked like this before, I would have scared away.
I glared at him angrily.
Ren Peng is not angry, and criticizing me will not explain the problem. said that when something happens, first figure out who is right and who is wrong, nothing can happen, others are wrong, and let their children endure their mistakes, the child apologized on the surface, but what did he think in his heart, do you know? Instead, you change your thinking, swap the child's position, ask and answer, and see how he explains, maybe at a certain point, he suddenly understands and understands. A hundred times stronger than the two of them.
Now I understood, and was going to my son's bedroom with a glass of milk, and Bobo came out with a written guarantee in his hand. When I answered, I said I'm sorry.
I raised my hand and touched my son's head, and I understood. The son smiled and went in with the milk.
The displeasure with my son was finally resolved, and the village party secretary asked me to go to the village committee.