Chapter 136: Accidents
On the first day of the new year, the two went together to pay New Year's greetings to their grandparents. Grandma was very happy, saying that the two of them always didn't come together last year, although Xiao Yang didn't go, but it could be seen that both of them were very unhappy. Grandpa also said that it didn't matter if everything else, as long as they were happy, because the first time they wanted to be together, they didn't take the children into account.
When she returned to her parents' house on the second day of the Lunar New Year, when she was leaving, when Li Ping put the dishes given by her mother in the car, she kissed her niece held by her mother three times, and the little niece was already able to speak, which became more and more fun. She was afraid that she would do this in front of Li Ping and make him feel guilty. When she got in the car, her mother pulled her and said that if she wanted to think about her niece next, she could come and see it every time she had a holiday, because she had already told everyone the reason why she couldn't have children, and everyone didn't laugh at her except for regret or regret. Li Ping looked embarrassed when he heard this, and after he went on the road, he was silent.
She didn't want to repeat the mistakes of the past: "Hey, did you forget about the communication that you said was good?" Didn't I tell you, life is the most important thing, are you worthy of me when you drive with emotions like this? I've figured it out now, even if you're fine, even if my uterine dysplasia has been cured, then I've had habitual miscarriages several times, and there's no hope, right? In the past, I was so persistent, mainly because I wanted to give an explanation to your family and be able to hold up my head in the village, but at present, your grandparents have accepted this fact, and the thinking of people in our hometown has changed now, so why should we bother with this anymore? ”
"But I'm still guilty, I'm thirty-six years old, this sperm is the older it gets, the less energetic it is, this year not only did I not seize the time to use them, but also had a ...... mind, why did you say I was so confused at the time, there was still a glimmer of hope, but I let this last glimmer of hope also be dashed!"
"Actually, I'm really going to get pregnant, I have to give up my current job, this is something I didn't consider before, I have children and the job I like, I will be in a dilemma. Therefore, the conclusion is that the original hope is very small, and it is difficult for people to make mistakes, so not being born is the best choice. ”
But Li Ping still looked thoughtful, it seemed that it was useless to say more, she was about to enter the city, and it was more difficult to drive on the road, so he was more distracted, and he couldn't drive well, so she stopped talking, and thought to herself: I have to go home and try the last method.
When she went to bed at night, she moved his quilt to the big room with a red face, but Li Ping followed up and picked up the quilt again, and she turned her back on her face.
"Xiao Yang, don't get me wrong. On the kind of advertisements sent in the vegetable market, it is always said that men can't satisfy women, but I see that every time you used to be like you were enduring and not enjoying, the high-end condoms in the supermarket were written silky, I was going to buy it tomorrow, and we would have the same room again, it was I who let you have a baby was shattered, and I don't want you to have no fun in this regard. “
"That's all nonsense, you think I want to, I hugged the quilt because I saw that you were unhappy again today."
"I was actually thinking about what I just said in the car, you said that the advertisement was nonsense, I don't think it maybe, otherwise the supermarket checkout is all those things, otherwise how can there be a rich woman looking for little fresh meat, and they don't worry about food and clothing, don't want this, what do you want? If both of them are happy, they are really happy, so let's try it. “
I don't know if it's really a penny for a penny, or because Li Ping is so cautious, or because there is no pressure to get pregnant, when she had sex the next night, she was obviously more relaxed than before.
I don't know if it's because they're afraid of losing each other again, or Li Ping knows that they have to communicate, or if she understands that it's really not okay if the husband and wife don't accommodate, anyway, in the next three years, they haven't had an awkward relationship.
But the house of Aunt Cooking on Huqiu West Road is about to be demolished, and the only way to buy a house is to buy a house, considering that the two of them do not have much savings, Li Ping's father can't come up with the money, anyway, there are only two people, and the loan can't buy a 50-square-meter house. The loan has to repay the interest, and the less the loan, the better, so if you can save a little, you can save a little, so there were two times when they were in the same room, they didn't buy a condom, but they never expected that she would be pregnant.
At first, her menstruation didn't come as scheduled, and she didn't think about it that way, and it was because of the recent anxiety about the house. Later, there was a reaction, and the experienced proprietress insisted that she had it, and went to the hospital to check, and sure enough, it was, and all the indicators were very good. The mood of the two at that time was really indescribable, there were accidents, surprises, fears, and worries, but it was their common wish to protect the fetus well.
This time, Li Ping told his parents and grandparents all the truth, and they were all shocked, they didn't expect this young couple to go through so much! In the end, everyone decided not to buy the house for the time being, because if the child was born successfully, the house of less than 50 square meters would definitely not be enough to live in.
The room where the grandparents piled up the groceries that they were usually reluctant to throw away was originally Li Ping's room, but now they decided to throw away all the groceries and let the young couple live there. Originally, the mother-in-law proposed to ask them to live with her, because it was bigger after all, she had medical knowledge after all, and the two old people were so old after all, they were a little struggling to manage themselves, how could they take care of a pregnant woman who needed special care! But the grandparents refused to let go of their daughter-in-law, and they ordered that two sons, four daughters, and one grandson take turns to cook for them, seven days a week.
They all advised her to quit her job. She smiled and said: "Living with my parents, I may still think about it, now I live closer to the factory than the original cooking aunt, I don't want to give up, otherwise, it will be too boring to stay at home every day and wait for the child to be born." Moreover, the proprietress has already said that since the summer vacation, I will let my niece who graduated from junior high school come from my hometown to learn from me, and I will just look at it on the side, and the doctor said that I have all the indicators are very good, and it is not good to be overprotective at home. She didn't say that after the child was born, she would have to buy a bigger house and the pressure would be greater, but everyone knew that Li Ping's monthly income was less than half of hers, and it was not a matter if she wanted to rest. In the grandmother's daily devout burning incense and worshiping the Buddha for blessings, her son Li Tianyi was born safely.
After the child was born, the grandparents' house could not be lived, but the old man wanted to see his great-grandson every day, so Li Ping went back to his parents' house to sleep at night.