229. The most important thing is aura
The long eyelashes covered the bright eyes, and the dark shadow under the eyes and the sickly face made people feel a little fragile, and the mind was asking: Why did he come back? And, why sleep in my bed?
After I came back last night and finished washing, I thought that I was alone in the house anyway, and there was no need to lock the door again.
Although he was annoyed and buried in his heart, his hand still unconsciously stretched out to his forehead, and found that his temperature had faded, and his fingertips teased his bangs, which were soft.
Just as he was about to withdraw his hand, the man with his eyes closed suddenly spoke: "No matter how much you tease me, it's useless, and now I don't have the strength to do anything to you." My hands stiffened, slowly retracted from his forehead, and stared at the man who slowly opened his eyes, where there was a clear and sleepy color, obviously already awake, as for the heavy breathing was due to nasal congestion.
"Can you take your arm off the way?"
"No, it climbs up your waist consciously. What the hell did you say about last night? ”
I pulled his arm out and sat up, "No words. He walked out without looking back, but heard him raise his voice behind him and ask, "Eh, if the second child hadn't come yesterday, what would have happened to you?" ”
If Zhou Liang hadn't come...... "I'll help you put the clothes back on one by one!" "Lest you say that I have bad intentions against him, and brazenly demand that I be held accountable for the matter.
"Cut, you're obviously shy. But it's not the first time we've met honestly, so why don't you ...... Hey, where are you going? ”
With a thud, I shut his voice out in the room.
When I came out of the bathroom, I saw Zhou Yu also walking out lightly, and asked me, "When will you accompany me to hang a drip today?" He snorted lightly: "I'm not free, you look for Zhou Liang." ”
"What's the matter with you?" He asked disapprovingly, frowning.
I threw him four words: "There are a lot of things." ”
This is not a false statement, since I got the surveillance video of the hospital yesterday, I have to go to the office to discuss with Tang Jin on this matter, whether it can be used as evidence to exemplify the behavior of Chen Daxing's family.
Zhou Yu was more difficult to deal with when he was not sick, and it is even more difficult to deal with when he is sick.
As soon as I freshened up and walked into the kitchen, he followed, leaning through the door and asking, "What's the matter with you?" ”
"I took the case, and I can't go to court every day, of course I have to go back to the office for the record."
"There's no rush either."
I didn't bother to pay any more attention to him, so I took the milk and put it in the milk pot to heat it. But he said, "I'm still sick, and I can't drink milk." There was a pause in his hand, if I would have been going back on weekdays and letting him get it himself, I would endure it today, and only said: "The porridge is too late to burn, let's eat two slices of bread after a while, and drink boiling water if the milk can't be drunk." ”
"You're just rushing?" He asked unhappily.
It's not that I'm in a hurry, but I'm up late, and it's almost nine o'clock now. Since I entered the office, I have been either asking for leave or being late for two things in three days, if Tang Jin is not the boss, how can he be so casual?
When I went out, Zhou Yu stretched his face, but he followed the door with a blank eye, and watched me walk into the elevator.
For a moment I admitted that my heart had relented, but the elevator doors closed, and I still stood still. I don't know if marriage is a good medicine, but it must be a practice, I have practiced twice, both ended in failure, this time I will slow down, and move forward step by step.
When I arrived at the office, I asked Tang Jin to do a detailed analysis of yesterday's events, and watched the video many times. Tang Jin said to smoke word by word, Chen Daxing is a rough man, he doesn't think through his brain when he speaks, so in a short video, there are many points from behavior to words that can be caught, and then derive the meaning of "new".
Even though half of my shoulder still hurts so much that I can't even lift my hand, it's worth it. The more the opponent moves, the more things can be grasped in their hands. In fact, when it comes to the court, it is not professional knowledge that is compared, but who has more bottom in hand, and then it is necessary to have a strong heart.
This strength includes a lot, from aura to guts, to eloquence, to psychology.
Tang Jin said to me with a smile: "Among the ones you listed, eloquence ranks last, and your guts can be put aside, if you don't even have the courage to play at that time, it means that you have lost." ”
Then only aura and psychology remain, Tang Jin can be said to be a god in the industry, I should ask him for advice: "Which is heavier, aura or psychology?" His fingers tapped twice on the table, and his eyes seemed to be boundless, but faintly shining: "Psychology is an extremely important weapon for on-the-spot response, whether it is a witness or a plaintiff, or a defense lawyer, a look and an action of the other party, even a heavy breath will reveal the message, if you are specialized in this area, you can go to the court in time to respond." That's not the most important thing, though. ”
Knowing psychology already has so many benefits, but it's not the most important thing, so what does he mean......
"That's right, the most important thing in the court is aura."
The aura lies in the momentum of a gesture, the charm of language, and the determination to restrain the other party's psychology. It's just that as long as you stand there, you can feel the pressure on the person standing opposite, and you lose first in momentum.
In a sense, it is also a kind of psychological suppression.
Listening to your words, it can be said that you have benefited a lot. And I think Tang Jin's strategy is not only useful in court, but also in life. However, although I know the importance of momentum and psychology, the former requires on-the-spot experience, and the latter requires sufficient knowledge, and I lack both.
The lack of on-the-spot experience is due to the disconnect after four years, and the homework I can do is to look at more cases. And in terms of psychology, it is my biggest drawback, and only Tang Jin can help me.
Based on my state when he was in a lawsuit the last time, I can conclude that he is a master in this area, and there are many things that he has responded to on the spot, but he has forced Xiao Zhou to nowhere to hide.
In just two hours, Tang Jin made a thorough analysis from his expression to his micro-movements, I can only say that psychology is useless to rely on book knowledge alone, this is the accumulation of experience. Moreover, Tang Jin reminded me that paying attention to people's micro-expressions and micro-movements depends on the object, if the other party is a person who knows the way well, then the information he reveals may be his deliberate bait.
I know that Tang Jin is referring to Xiao Dong, and when I go to court, Xiao Dong is a wall that is difficult for me to cross, which is an unquestionable fact.
Therefore, the confrontation with Xiao Dong is not only more than aura, psychology, eloquence, and evidence, but also more than reverse thinking.
In the afternoon, I plan to find another party in the dispute, that is, the man who had a conflict with Qian Huijuan, his name is He Xiangjie, and he is a coach in a gym.
I'm more able to get in on this occasion and don't have to pretend to talk to anyone. The gym has an experience ticket, and someone in the past brought it in to explain the relevant content, and I pretended to casually ask if Coach He Xiangjie was there?
The girl who explained immediately smiled and asked me, "Did you be introduced by a friend?" We are here with Coach He, do we need to ask him out for you? I smiled and nodded.
After a while, the girl came out with a muscular man behind her, and she looked stylish.
I sighed in my heart: That Qian Huijuan is really an egg hitting a stone, can you win a fight with such a person? However, there is also a doubt in the direction, is it because Qian Huijuan doesn't know how to read people, or is the current situation up to her?
The girl brought the person to her and gave a brief introduction and then retreated, leaving He Xiangjie and me to continue to introduce the following process.
He Xiangjie asked politely: "This lady, what effect do you want to achieve through fitness?" ”
"What do you mean?" I asked back.
He Xiangjie smiled and said: "Generally, there are two kinds of ladies who come to our gym to work out, one is to lose weight, and the other is to make the body lines more beautiful. Both situations are different, so I'll design two different options for you, but I don't think this lady will be the first, you look skinny yourself. ”
I laughed too, "Then let me tell you about the second option." ”
So he introduced me to what various equipment can do, which muscles can be exercised, and there are a series of matching products from waist to legs. During the whole process, I rarely spoke, only occasionally asked one or two questions, and mostly listened to him, while I was carefully observing. From this person's words and deeds to the subtle body language, my judgment is that He Xiangjie is not as bad as he imagined.
Originally, when I heard the original version that a man was fighting with a woman and breaking the woman's head, my first instinct was to judge that there was something wrong with the man. From a professional point of view, one is a fitness trainer, the other is a vendor in the market, regardless of whether they are high or low, pure intuitive judgment will feel that the former may be violent, and the latter will be spicy, which will cause this dispute.
But now it seems that I want to re-examine this relationship line, and at present, He Xiangjie does not look like a person who will act impulsively and violently beat women, except for the advantage of his physical appearance.
Of course, my judgment is only a preliminary judgment on the surface, and what kind of person he is inside remains to be investigated.