Chapter 248: Different Influences
"You're right, you didn't study in the past, so we stayed here today, and we had a good time together." Ye Zi really wants everyone to get together, just like reading by herself, and occasionally there is still a break, so she should be the same, she shouldn't practice like this every night, and occasionally take a break at an appropriate time.
I have weekends in class, not to mention distress on holidays, like her, time should be more free, study when I have time, and if I don't have time, I can only put it aside for the time being.
In any case, it doesn't affect the progress at all, at most that, it doesn't really have much impact. All right! College students like Ye Zi still feel that time should be a little freer.
If you are too tight and schedule too tightly, it will not be good for you to study, because the brain always needs to rest.
At the right time, you should take a proper rest, and you can't let your brain be too tired, which is not conducive to learning, because your brain has been in a tense state, and your spirit has been highly tense, how can you relax and study hard.
Don't keep your mind in a tense state, but in such a situation, it is not conducive to learning at all, but to relax your mind.
Isn't there a saying? Anything is good when you're in a good mood. If you are not in the mood, you will not be in the mood to do anything, and you will not be able to do anything well.
"That's right, so I'm going to stay here with you today, and now we can have a bite to eat together after work and go back." Shu Yixin really likes to get together with them, and always feels that feeling is very good.
Anyway, in the recent period, I don't have much time to stay in the coffee book house, so it's rare to let myself stay with them if I have time today.
Wouldn't it be nice to go out for a bite to eat together later, or find something to do here? Normally, I want to study with him, so I don't have much time.
"That's a pretty good suggestion, let's just make a happy decision, go out for a bite to eat after work and go back." Although it is important to make money, there are times when you have to be kind to yourself and comfort yourself.
Usually work and life are already so tired, so hard, occasionally treat yourself, this is also as it should be, and the money is not endless, should be used reasonably.
In the past, Shu Yixin was not so generous, he always felt that he had to save more money, and it didn't matter if he was anything, but now after getting closer to He Yuhe, he found that sometimes he should be kind to himself, in fact, he can't spend much money on himself, treat himself occasionally, that's right, and he has to enjoy it, he can't save all the money he earns in this process, life has to go on, and he should be generous to himself.
In the past, I was too stingy and stingy with myself, but now, I always feel that I need to be better so that I can live and work well.
This is all he taught himself, not him, and now he is still stupid, always feeling that he has to save all the money he earns.
In fact, it's really stupid to do this, it's not necessary, it's more about being kind to yourself, and before, you just weren't good enough for yourself. I've always wanted to save all the money I earned, but even if I let myself save and save a lot of money, so what, because I don't know how to use it reasonably.
All of this was thanks to him reminding himself, and if he hadn't reminded himself, how could he have thought of this?
I haven't been very good to myself, not that I'm not good enough for myself, but more because I think about other people and don't think about myself.
But recently, some people have told me that I should be kind to myself, and sometimes I should be selfish, and I should not think about other people all the time, but more about myself first.
"It seems that your mentality has changed recently, and it is not the same as before, and you I know you have never been so generous, let alone going out to eat something or something." Ren Xiaoou really felt that his best friend in front of him was not the same as before, and he seemed to be getting better and better to himself after being with him.
In fact, isn't this a situation that I am happy to see? In the past, she was too much of herself, and even she had such thoughts about herself. At this time, she was just thinking about other people, and she was not good to herself at all. Now her mind seems to have changed a lot, at least she knows how to be kind to herself.
can see her change little by little, and as a friend, I'm really happy for her. As it should be, it is to be kind to yourself, no matter how you say it, life is limited. So try to enjoy the process as much as possible, instead of thinking about others all the time.
Although thinking about others, it is not to say anything bad, but it is also necessary to do what you can, to see your own ability, if your own ability, is really not good, how can you take the lead in considering other people, in this case, you should be selfish.
"Maybe it's getting closer to him, she taught me that I should be generous to myself and be kind to myself occasionally, so at this time, I am also working hard bit by bit." Shu Yixin faced his best friend, but he didn't hide it at all.
I am also true now, and it is indeed because of him that he will not change like this. If he hadn't woken himself up, his current self would still be the same self he was at the beginning, stupid, or the original self, thinking only about other people and saving all the money he worked hard to earn.
After listening to her explanation, Ren Xiaoou seemed to be a little unhappy, puffed up his small mouth, and said a little cutely, "It seems that I have also told you these words before, but no matter what I say at that time, your thoughts will not change, sure enough, I am different from him, I am not as important as his position in your heart." "Why didn't I tell her these words before, but did she listen to them at that time?
No matter how she was at that time, and how she tried to persuade her, she just didn't seem to listen, and she stubbornly thought that her idea was right. Every time she dismisses her own point of view, that is, her status is different from her own, saying that she has a backer or something, but she doesn't, and she has to rely on her own efforts, so she has to be more economical.
Every time she talks about it at the end, she will talk about this, and then she slowly doesn't bother to say it, because she clearly knows that no matter what she says, she can't listen to it, in this case, why should she say more about how he likes to do it.
After all, I have already said what I should say, and I haven't changed at all in the end, so I have no other way, after all, I have always known that her personality is so stubborn.
It's a little strange in front of her, He Yuhe said so many words casually, she can listen to everything, but she can't listen to a word of her bitter heart at the beginning, she can only say that she and He Yuhe are in a different position in her heart.
can only say that each other's positions in her heart are different, so the words are naturally different, people just say a few words casually, she can listen to them, she said so much at the beginning, and she didn't necessarily listen to those.
In such a situation, my heart is a little jealous, no matter what, I and her have been sisters for so many years, and they are not as good as a man.
Sure enough, men and women speak differently, and talking for a long time is tantamount to nonsense. And when people say a few words, they change each other's minds, and they have to admire, and at the same time they have to face such a result.
Although I am a little infatuated, I feel a little unbalanced in my heart, but I am still happy for her, because I think that her thoughts have really changed from before.
Isn't this the result just some of your own shots? All I want is the result, and as for what the process is, it's not that important, is it?
No matter who persuaded her of her idea, in short, her mind has changed at this time, it is more important than anything else, the goal she wants has been achieved, so what is she unhappy about? I should want to open a little.
"Maybe at that time, I hadn't driven yet, and it wasn't the same as now, so my thinking was naturally different." Shu Yixin did not deny this fact, because she clearly knew that the present was different from the past.
The current situation is different from the situation in the past, at that time, I may not really think too much, I have to work hard to make a little more money, save a little more money, so that I can use it when there is an accident in the future, but now, I think I should be kind to myself.
Not only did he say this about himself, but even he had such an awakening, and he should really think more about himself, and he should not only think about others, although he has always been eager and capable of helping others, so that he hopes that God can have mercy on him and let himself see his family one day.
In other words, I just want to accumulate a little more virtue. Shu Yixin has never denied that he wants to do this, and feels that within his ability, it is naturally a good thing to be able to help others more, if it is beyond his ability, then he can't do anything.
"I thought what he said was more effective than what I said, after all, people just casually mention you and you will listen to it, and you can't listen to me no matter what I say." No matter how you say that you have been a sister with her for many years, you can't compare to a man, and you feel a little sad when you think about it.