"I don't have such thoughts, you should have heard me mention, my parents' marriage is unhappy, they are business marriages, so, there is no emotional foundation at all, so many years have passed, but the two of them still have no feelings, so I will not follow their old path again, I must find someone I like to get married." These examples are laid out in front of me, don't you know how it feels? Whenever I come home and see my mother, see her alone, and see her haggard appearance, in fact, my heart is really uncomfortable.

If she hadn't chosen a business marriage, maybe she wouldn't be so depressed today, although it's a boring life, but she's not happy at all, living like a walking dead all day long, if it weren't for herself, she wouldn't be able to live.

This is also the reason why I hate my father, because his selfishness led to today's results. Why do you want to take each other's when you don't love each other? Just for commercial gain.

If the other party is not the girl who wants to marry together sincerely, he will not have such an impulse, and he will not do such a thing, no matter who persecutes himself, the result is the same, he leaves the hospital, and he does not want to harm others when he dies, he does not want to cause both people to be sad, and both of them are sad, it is better to live a lonely life alone, at least he will be happy, at least he will not feel any guilt.

Whenever I think of these things, I feel indignant for my mother, if I didn't love each other at the beginning, why bother to marry each other for the sake of business marriage, for the sake of interests and future, since you are married, you should treat it well.

"It's just a matter of your parents' previous generation, maybe you also have this idea, you think you should find the right person to be worthy of your status." Ren Xiaoou thinks that people from big families like them have never paid attention to the door, right? Take it all above all else.

"No, I have never had such a thought in my heart, let alone such a thought, I admit that I am a little afraid, but I will not do such a thing, if I want to get married, I must find someone who really loves each other." If the other party is not the person you love and is not what you want, then you would rather give up and want nothing.

"That was a matter of the previous life, maybe there was no way in that era, the order of the parents, the words of the matchmaker may still exist." Or maybe both parents feel that it is the best choice for two people to get married, which is good for the interests of the family.

In other words, I should be very glad that although my parents mentioned these things in front of me, they have never forced themselves, never forced themselves, and did not do things they don't like, so at this time, they still have their own choice.

He also said that he really disagrees, strongly opposes, and they will respect themselves in the end and will not force themselves to marry a man who doesn't like them and doesn't like them.

Marriage is a lifetime, you really can't be reluctant to reconcile, casually find someone you don't like to marry for some interests, in the end it will only lead to the tragedy of two people, and even the children will be dragged down in the future, so why bother?

I have ruined myself all my life, and I have no regrets, so why drag down my children. If you don't think about yourself, you have to think about your children.

"I only know that it was a business marriage at the beginning, maybe it was to take into account the interests of both families, but this result led to the sadness of the two people, my father may not have anything, because he has other women outside, but my mother is different, she guards that house all day long, and the two of them quarrel when they meet, so from childhood to adulthood, I have lived in such conditions, and I am still very disgusted in the face of this kind of thing." This is the good life they want, but they have never considered their mother's feelings, could it be what she wants?

In short, I just think that such an idea is too selfish. This path itself will not repeat the mistakes of the past, since their lives are unhappy, why bother.

"Actually, you don't have to keep that home all the time, you can still do what you want to do, such as going out for a walk, taking a walk or something." When Ren Xiaoou heard such a life, he actually felt a little sad, a good person's life was ruined like this.

Although she said that she had no worries about food and clothing, she was still a wealthy woman, but that kind of life was not as good as ordinary people, just facing an empty room every day, waiting for someone who would not come back, and even if she came back, she would only quarrel more than talk.

So how can such a marriage be happy? There are still any terrible thoughts, there is no hope at all, it should have been implemented a long time ago, in this case, why not find something you want to do, talk about this life, is it really what she wants? Instead of that, it's better to find something for yourself to do.

If it were me, I wouldn't be so stupid, I would stay at home all day and do nothing, I would definitely come out and do something I wanted to do.

Since I know that I have no hope in my life now, and it is already like this, then I can only divert all my attention to do other things, and maybe I can get happiness from it.

"I've already said these things, but since I got married, my mother hasn't come out to work, so I don't have any independent ability, if it weren't for me, maybe there would be nothing to support her until now." Therefore, such a life is sad, and I know that this kind of life is not what I want, so I will not repeat the mistakes of the past.

Yes, for myself, such a life really feels very sad. Knowing that there will be such a result, why should I repeat the mistakes of the past, and why should I continue to do such things.

"It can only be said that it is sad and lamentable, marrying such a man, it is better to marry an ordinary person, at least you will be a little happier." Ren Xiaoou is not worried that he will marry such a person and ruin his life.

If you say how much choice you have, you really wouldn't choose to marry such a person and ruin your life.

"This sentence is really right by you, it's really sad and lamentable, it's better to marry an ordinary person." So as long as I am free, I will often go back to spend more time with her, because I know that she is very lonely.

As her son, every time I see her like that, in fact, I don't know what to do.

"You are his only spiritual support, if you have time, you should go back to accompany her more, so that she will not feel lonely, and will not make her feel that it is pointless to wait like this." In this way, I feel a little empathy, the other party is her mother, and I naturally hope that he can spend more time with his mother.

"Usually because of work, I may be really busy, but as long as I'm at home, I will try to spend as much time as possible with her." In fact, I also want to be a filial son, but sometimes I really don't have so much time, after all, I still have to work.

If his mother can see a little bit and walk around without having to guard that house all day, maybe he can be happier and do something he wants to do than stay at home all day.

It's just that after getting married, my wife can still accompany her more, go out shopping with her, and maybe change her life, but when she gets married is unknown, so it's a bit too early for me to think about this.

"Perhaps, you can think about what kind of interest she has, let her do something, and divert her attention." It's completely different to have something to do and nothing to do, at least there is something to do to divert your attention and not to think about those things all the time.

When a person has something to do, he naturally has to pay attention, and naturally he will not worry about those, considering that in the end, he still feels that he should find something to do, and should not stay at home all day and do nothing.

"I made this suggestion you made before, but I don't know what she likes, and I haven't acted on it." At that time, I also said something like this, suggesting that my mother find something she wanted to do, but she has not taken action until now.

"Actually, it's not so difficult to find yourself, as long as you know more about what she likes when she is young, then naturally at this time, she should still like it, for example, if you open a flower shop for her or something, let her toss it." After all, wealthy ladies like them are not used to make money, but just to pass the time for recreation.

Ye Jinghao thought back to what Ren Xiaoou said to himself just now, but he also felt that it made sense.

If I open a store for her or something, let her toss, in this way, she will not have something to do, and she will not think about doing nothing all day long.

Continue to live as she is now, in fact, sooner or later people will collapse, it is better to find something for her to pass the time.

"What do you think of the flower shop, I remember that we used to like flowers, and I see that the flowers in her house are also very beautiful and elegant." If she is asked to act on these things by herself, she may not be able to achieve them in the end, but if she does it directly after she does it, it may be possible. The latest chapter of "No First Love, There is a Crush Claw Book House" is free to read for the first time.