Chapter 222 Chapter 226 Yun Feng's classic conversation and the classic dining of No. 1 Middle School
"Yes, yes, Mr. Yun said yes. We didn't want to disturb Teacher Yun after school, but after chatting with Director Song, we also apologized and communicated with Teacher Lin, Director Song kept saying that you are very good, let us listen to you more and cooperate with you to educate the children. “
Tian Zhao's mother took Yun Feng's hand and was grateful:
"Before we came, my son kept telling me and his father, saying that you are very good to him and the students in the class, especially to him, but also understanding and respect, we were a little worried at first whether the young teacher could not control the child, so he would only coax the child, but I didn't expect to come to the school to communicate with other teachers, knowing that the child actually took the initiative to admit his mistakes, and the class situation was also very peaceful, I knew that it was the educational credit of Mr. Yun. Otherwise, he didn't know how many times he had made trouble at school in the previous semester, and he had never seen him admit his mistakes so well and change so quickly. “
Tian Zhao's mother said truthfully, and Tian Zhao's father kept nodding on the side.
"How can a child grow up without making mistakes? How can you not change your mistakes? If it's wrong, change it, and that's it. You two don't need to thank me like this, I am their homeroom teacher, Tian Zhao's problem has something to do with my management, and I will also manage him and the students in the class more strictly in the future. ”
Yun Feng's face was gentle, still like her usual, like a soft and open white magnolia, and her voice was as gentle and soft as usual, which made the people listening next to her like the gentle wind blowing on the riverside, and the spring rain moistened their hearts, and their hearts rejoiced with her words.
"However, I really can't get angry with them, so I have to ask them to do more ideological work. This time Tian Zhao can realize his mistakes so sincerely, if he can really not make the same mistakes in the future, it is mainly due to his own self-restraint and the education that you two have raised for him since childhood, I just took a hand. ”
Yun Feng continued her spring-like words:
"In the future, if there is any problem, you and his father can call my office. Of course, if I can handle it here, I will try not to let him take it home, after all, at his age, it is a time of self-consciousness awakening, and we adults always communicate with each other about some of his things, so that he knows, and it is not necessarily good. ”
"Teacher Yun is right, we will do what Teacher Yun says."
Tian Zhao's father laughed happily.
"Yes, yes, do what Teacher Yun said. Thank you so much to the teacher, we educate the child too little, usually don't take care of him, hey, he can only meet what he asks, and it has become such a character who is not afraid of heaven and earth. ”
As soon as Tian Zhao's mother talked about her son, her face showed an anxious look, and when she finished speaking, she lowered her head and seemed to wipe away her tears.
"Hey, pity the hearts of parents all over the world. I can't empathize with your feelings, but I understand them. On the one hand, we have to take care of the busy business, so that the children can live better, and on the other hand, we are children, and if we are not careful, we will miss the deepening of the parent-child relationship. It's really understandable. However, no matter how urgent the work is, it can always be done again, and the critical period of the child has passed, and it can no longer be reversed. Now they are all only children, and the family is just like that, in other words, in this world, there is such a blood relationship, and there is just such a one, this is not only family affection, but also our only responsibility as parents, we can't shirk it, and the only person who is most worthy of treating us like work and business, right? ”
Yun Feng originally wanted to go to the school cafeteria to eat after finishing quickly, she had been eating her tomato and egg noodles for two days in a row, but when it came to this, thinking that Tian Zhao's parents would have a rare trip, she said everything she could say in place, everyone knew it in their hearts, and the communication would be smoother in the future, so she continued to say:
"Actually, our teachers are the same, although they are not their parents, but they are also facing the most critical growth period of a class, and they have a lot of responsibility on their shoulders. Everything is also done carefully, not to violate the school rules and discipline, but also not to hurt their self-esteem, and to find a way to make them aware of what they should and should not do. Whether in learning or ideological morality, we also need to find a way to get through the boring and various learning and ideological difficulties and setbacks with them, which is really not easy. ”
"Yes, yes, Teacher Yun is right, we, hey, are causing trouble for Teacher Yun."
When Tian Zhao's mother heard the teacher say this, she quickly nodded, and Tian Zhao's father also nodded beside her.
"Hehe, I'm not talking about any specific thing, I just want to understand the difficulty of the two of you as parents, we also want to ask for your understanding as a teacher, in the final analysis, Tian Zhao this matter, I am also responsible, I want to ask you and his father to take care of it, after going back, also care more about the child, get along like a friend, and learn his thoughts in time to enlighten him, so as to continuously help him improve his emotional control ability, which is very helpful to his personality growth and ideological maturity, No matter how meticulous our teachers do their daily work, they can't replace the position and role of our parents in communicating with him. ”
Yun Feng explained. Tian Zhao's character naturally has a lot to do with his family, and if he doesn't adjust it well, it will also be detrimental to his growth and future behavior.
"Well, well, thank you for the suggestion. Thank you. ”
Tian Zhao's father actually stood up and bowed to Yun Feng very gratefully.
Yun Feng, a girl who had just come out of college, naturally couldn't be bowed by a person in society who was at least one round older than herself, so she quickly got up, stretched out her hand to support Tian Zhao's father who was bowing, and at the same time she also owed her body to return the salute.
She also understood in her heart that Tian Zhao bowed to her, Director Song, and Lin Xia before, all because of his father.
It seems that parents are really role models in front of their children, and children are also a mirror of their parents.
"Yo, Teacher Yun, don't, we should do this. You see that you are so cultured and educated, we don't know what to say, and we know that you are a good teacher worthy of respect, in a hurry, and you didn't bring anything over, you see it depends on which day you have time, you and Zhao'er together, we all have a meal together, and we should get to know each other, what time do you have? ”
Tian Zhao's mother really wanted to invite Yun Feng to dinner, but she didn't know if Yun Feng could appreciate his face.
Yun Feng naturally wouldn't agree. What she fears most is socializing. In her concept, eating should be relaxed and happy, if there are some etiquettes that have to be taken into account to make her uncomfortable, then even the delicacies of the mountains and seas are not as delicious as the tomatoes and egg noodles she makes herself.
Yun Feng sent Tian Zhao's parents to the staircase, watched them go downstairs, and the couple kept thanking each other step by step, until they went down to the first floor and couldn't see each other, Yun Feng went back to the office, moved the chairs they were sitting on back to their original positions, and simply cleaned up the desktop, and then walked so fast that they almost ran to the second floor of the school cafeteria.
Fortunately, there are still teachers eating, and it's not too late.
"Yo, Yun Da Beauty, why are you here?"
There were several young teachers sitting around a small round table next to her, some of whom had just finished eating, wiped their mouths and just wanted to get up and leave, and when they saw her coming, they sat down again, ready to wait for her to finish eating and leave together.
Yun Feng is familiar with these teachers. She took the meal, sat down between them, and said with a grin as she brought it to her mouth:
"I talked to the parents of the students, I was a little late, and I almost thought I couldn't eat."
"What are you talking about? Are you so forgetful after school? ”
One teacher quipped:
"What to talk about is not the classic topics that the class teacher and the parents of the students usually have to emphasize."
Yun Feng highly summarized the content of his conversation with Tian Zhao's parents, which can indeed be regarded as the most classic conversation with parents since she became the head teacher.
The corners of her mouth curled slightly, and she began a classic dining form of delivering meals with her young partners - such a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere, no matter the dish, just the mood, which won her heart.