Chapter 593: Empathy
Waving his hand to say goodbye, despite the melancholy in his heart, he always has to say goodbye, but he is looking forward to the next meeting.
In fact, I really don't know if there will be a next time, after all, the relationship between myself and him is just an ordinary friend, maybe there really is no next time.
But at this moment, I don't want the old man to be sad, so I said such a thing, say goodbye next time, in fact, everyone knows in their hearts, I don't know when, whether there is or not, next time is a big question.
These words are just superficial words, but they don't really have a definite time, saying that they can still meet each other.
Parting always makes people feel sad, they haven't been together for a long time, and in the blink of an eye, they have to say separation, they originally said it was good, but in the end they had to face each other and part ways.
Speaking of which, the mood is really not very good, but what about that? It's going to come this far.
Back in the car, Shu Yixin didn't speak for a long time, and the whole person looked a little sullen. When He Yuhe saw her like this, he was actually a little worried.
"What's the matter, I don't see you talking." I couldn't guess what she was thinking, and the whole person seemed a little lonely.
Could it be that she was angry with herself at this time, and she didn't tell her at the beginning that when she was in her own home, because there were other people there, she still had to do some superficial work. Now there are no other outsiders, and she should be angry.
Shu Yixin glanced at him and said lightly, "Actually, it's nothing, it's just that I feel a little uncomfortable when I think of my grandfather alone." "Grandpa's loneliness is like his own loneliness, in fact, he is not alone.
Over the years, I have also been such a lonely person, that is, I can understand that feeling very well, and I feel very uncomfortable.
Grandpa didn't say anything, but he could feel the loneliness he bringed, obviously there were other children and other family members around him, but there were very few who could be by his side.
Originally, he could enjoy his old age in peace, with children and grandchildren around his knees, but what he let himself see was his loneliness, not the side of enjoying family affection.
In this sentence, I have always been very eager to be reunited with my family and to be able to accompany my family, but they have not appeared all these years, and what I have been longing for is useless.
Therefore, I can especially understand the psychology of loneliness and loneliness.
"Hey, when it comes to this, I'm also uncomfortable, but so what, after all, I usually have to work, and I can't say that I am by my grandfather's side every day." When He Yuhe said this, he also felt that he was particularly powerless, not that he was unwilling to accompany his grandfather.
If he could, he would also like to be able to be by his grandfather's side all day, but he still has work to do.
Yixin can especially understand that feeling, so I think I can empathize. Because she is an orphan and she is the only one, she can especially understand the feeling of loneliness, so she will sigh like this after seeing her grandfather.
"Everyone has their own difficulties, didn't your grandfather blame you?" Shu Yixin didn't mean to complain about him or anything, but sometimes he knew that it was a last resort, after all, everyone's position is different.
People live in this world, everyone has their own difficulties, the years are not to blame anyone, no one is to resent anyone, after all, the result is like this.
Maybe it's more because you can't help yourself, you have your own difficulties, you have your own problems, who can say that no one is the same?
In Shu Yixin's opinion, there is really no such capital, and he should not say such things, because he knows better than anyone that everyone has their own difficulties, not that they are unwilling, but sometimes they are really forced to do so.
Just now he also expressed his helplessness, in fact, it is not that he doesn't want to, but because of life and work, sometimes he has to make other choices.
"I seem to be able to understand that feeling better than anyone else, and sometimes I can only say that I am weak." He Yuhe glanced at her, and then said lightly.
It's not that you don't want to, sometimes it's a lot more complicated than you think.
Maybe when it comes to these things, he's a little more sensitive than anyone else. I can also understand that a person like him who grew up alone is somewhat lacking in love and longing for the warmth of his family, so he can better understand his grandfather's mood.
He said that at these times, he could also feel that his grandfather was actually quite lonely, but from another point of view, many times he ignored it more.
Because every time I think about this, I only make my mood worse. I also want to spend more time with my grandfather, the problem is that I can do it, and on weekends, I often come back to chat with my grandfather, have a meal or something, as for the usual, I have to take care of things at work, I can't say that I stay at home with my grandfather all day, and then don't do anything.
The son wants to raise and kiss but not treat, why don't you know this truth, but in addition, you still have to live, you have to do your own things, although you know that you don't have much time with your grandfather, and you also want to spend more time with him, but there are always limited things, not as simple as you think, just stay by your grandfather's side, even if you do this, it doesn't necessarily mean that grandpa will agree to do such a thing.
He Yuhe, it's not that he doesn't know this truth, but he can only sigh that he is powerless, not that he is unwilling to take care of his grandfather and stay by his grandfather's side more, it is because he has his own work and his own things to be busy.
After listening to it, Shu Yixin didn't understand, he could only say that every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, don't look at how beautiful people are on the surface, but in fact, people's hearts are not as beautiful as they are on the surface.
That is to say, don't always envy how good other people's lives are, in fact, everyone is envious of other people's lives, and while you are envious of other people's lives, others are also envious of your lives.
"I can only say that everyone has their own difficulties and helplessness, and I didn't say that no one is anyone, but whenever I think of these things, I feel uncomfortable in my heart." This world is always so cruel, I want to be later, everyone can be by the side of the family, but this kind of thinking is just a pity.
"Yes, you're really right, everyone has their own difficulties, it's not that they don't want to, but sometimes they really can't do it." In view of such thoughts, why didn't you have a previous self? I had such an idea before, but unfortunately it was not as simple as I thought it would be if I wanted to realize it.
"Okay, don't talk about these topics, the more you think about it, the more sad it becomes, let's think about more happy things." Shu Yixin felt that he shouldn't continue to think about it, because if he thought about it, what could he change for himself?
People have made it very clear about his difficulties, and he doesn't mean that he can't understand this, because this is the case for himself, after all, he also has to work and live.
Originally, many things in this world are involuntary, not that you can do what you want, so you still have to look at it sensibly, don't always think about those meaningless things, because if you think about it like this, there will only be one result, which will only make your heart more uncomfortable, and even say that you will fall into a maze and can't get out of it.
"It seems that you have seen these things very clearly, and you are not overly demanding." After He Yuhe heard her say this, he also felt that she had changed a lot more recently than before.
"How is it with you, I have learned a little bit, I can only say that I empathize." Following him really makes me feel that I have gained a lot, probably because of his different experiences.
After all, everyone's experience is different, and if you have experienced it, you will have experience in your heart. I just listened to his lessons and summed them up, and in the end, I have to thank him for teaching myself this.
If you have your previous character, you can't understand these things at all, and you can't think so clearly, because after experiencing some things, plus he taught himself some principles of life, he slowly learned that some things can't be forced at all. Everything has its own laws, and there are some things that you must remember not to violate.
"Okay, don't think about those things so much, take a break, I'll call you when I get there." After going out with himself all day today, he should be tired, and he should be able to completely relax and take a good rest at this time.
Shu Yixin thought about it after listening to his words, and then said lightly, "Go back and rest again, it should be quite lonely for you to drive alone, or I will talk to you and chat." "I'm resting, he's the only one, I'll definitely feel very lonely, anyway, it won't take long, let myself talk to him more.
I'm not the kind of person who doesn't pay attention to righteousness, how can I say that I am still quite righteous.
Leaving him alone to drive, it is better to accompany him by himself, he can say anything, and it is much better to talk than to be alone.
"When I heard you say these words, my heart was somewhat moved, I didn't expect you to think so much about me." After He Yuhe heard him say these words, he was really moved in his heart.
Because from her words, he can feel that he actually cares about himself and cares about himself, at least he doesn't care so much about himself.