Chapter 923 Bear the Consequences
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"That person does have something to do in the company, if he has time, he will come back for dinner, he is so old, you should be worried." In the end, He Lao could only help speak, knowing that his grandson was unwilling, so he couldn't force him.
Anyway, he still said the same thing, as long as he is happy, he is not willing to force him to do what he is not willing to do.
No matter how you say it, you brought it up by yourself, in fact, you still know him well, he is not such a careless person, and the reason why he does it must have his own reasons.
"I'm not saying I don't believe him or anything, I just think it's rare to come back, it's good to have a meal at home, you see he's lost weight recently." Chen Fangru still wants to keep more, after all, it is really rare for her son to come back, and she doesn't know when she will be able to see him after leaving this time.
"He's running a big company now, there's a lot of pressure, and I'm sure he'll be able to take care of himself." After all, with such a big company and so many things all pressed on him, there must be pressure.
"Alright then, that's just going to wait for next time." Although Chen Fangru said that she was not very happy, she had nothing to say in the end.
His grandfather had already spoken for him, and if he talked too much at this time, he would seem to be unkind.
"Then grandpa, mom, I'll go first." He Yuhe has always been an eye-catching person, grandpa said so, of course he has to take advantage of the trend.
At this time, I found a staircase, of course, I had to leave quickly, and if I stayed, I might not be able to walk until dark.
I don't want to stay with my mother, and I always feel that I don't have anything to say when I'm with her, isn't there a saying? Don't speculate for more than half a sentence, the situation between myself and my mother is like this, there is always a deep estrangement between myself and him.
"Be careful when you drive, and come back to accompany us when you have time." He Lao told him to pay attention to safety when driving, and told him to come back to accompany his family more often when he was free.
The meaning expressed is not only to let the grandson come back to spend more time with him, but also to go home to spend more time with his parents. Although it is said that the relationship is not good, they are related by blood, and they can't be separated in any way.
It's always been a family, and I don't want to see their relationship so stiff. If you can repair the relationship between each other, you won't meet your own affairs.
He Lao is still more worried about the relationship between their family of three, after all, there has been no emotion, affection, not particularly deep, and even a separation.
As an elder, it's inconvenient for me to say more, and sometimes it's difficult to do, so I just hope that the relationship between them will change and improve, and as for other families, I don't have extravagant expectations.
Because he knows better than anyone else that that scene should not appear, even if it can appear, he will not be able to see it, at least the relationship between them will not change much in the past year and a half.
"Yes." He Yuhe replied to his grandfather.
Generally speaking, he will not refute the request made by his grandfather, let alone defend it.
Who let the other party be his dearest and most beloved grandfather, he pulled himself to grow up.
In his heart, his grandfather's position is always irreplaceable, no matter who can replace that position, even if his parents give him life, he can't replace that position.
He Yuhe waved his hand to them and left, and before leaving, he also told his grandfather to pay more attention to rest and take care of himself.
For his mother, he just gave him a meaningful look, and as for the meaning he wanted to express, perhaps only he knew best.
"He still has nothing to say when he sees me, and there is still a big gap." Chen Fangru saw her son leave without looking back, and she didn't care about her feelings at all.
Seriously, at that moment, his heart was really uncomfortable, knowing that he hated himself and knew that he was not close to him, but he didn't expect it to be like this.
"It's not as serious as you said, maybe you grew up around me since I was a child, so I may talk a little more, and I always have nothing to say to you." He Lao could only comfort her at this moment and tell her not to think too much.
Things are already like this, why continue to struggle with them at this time, and it won't help to think so much.
At this time, I can only try to comfort myself, and I can't say anything more about the others. The knot between their mother and son really can't intervene, and it is impossible for them to untie this knot.
"I always feel that I am too a failure as a mother, and my mother is too incompetent." Chen Fangru is lamenting that she is a mother, but she doesn't please her children, can she not fail?
"Isn't it much better now than it used to be? So don't be too nervous about this matter, let alone be too anxious, just let it be. He Lao can only comfort his daughter-in-law at this time, don't be too anxious, after all, this is not something that can be changed in a day or two.
I also hope that their relationship and feelings will change, and I don't want to be like this. In fact, this kind of result is not what I want to see.
But the more anxious this kind of thing is, the more it can't be changed, after all, the other party is her son, an adult man with thoughts and ideas, not like a child at the beginning, who can be manipulated by his elders.
Now he has grown up, he is no longer the same person he used to be, he has grown up, he has his own ideas, and he knows what he wants, it is useless to force him, the result will only be counterproductive, and the more you force him, the worse the result will be.
Therefore, at this time, it is useless for him to be in a hurry, and it is even more useless to be anxious, and he can only improve the relationship between each other step by step, as long as there is progress, it is always good.
I believe that one day, the two of them will definitely improve the current situation, no matter how you say it, it is a mother-son relationship, and they both have their own continuous attraction relationship, so as long as they have that little thought, sooner or later they will restore the relationship between each other.
"I don't want to persecute him, but I have an urgent mentality in my heart, and you know that the relationship between me and him is really not a day or two, but nothing has changed." Chen Fangru doesn't want to force her son like this, you know that he has his own life and his own ideas, but every time I see him, he is like this, how to improve the situation between himself and him.
But I didn't want to, but the other party didn't give me this opportunity at all, so I was in a hurry, and I had such thoughts.
"Didn't you just come back, not long? It's also much better than before, so there's really no need to rush. "This kind of thing can't be changed in a day or two, so there's really no need to rush it.
At this time, I knew that I was in a hurry, so why did I go in the first place? At the beginning, I asked the opinions of the two of them, but in the end they chose their careers and left their son at home.
This is their choice, and they should bear the consequences of their choice today. At this time, the mood is useless, and no one can be blamed, so it can only be changed slowly.
"I hope that the relationship between us will get better and better in the future, and I don't want to worry too much." What can't be changed is that he is his own son, how can he really rest assured that he doesn't care about anything.
"He is your son, the flesh that fell from you, don't you believe him?" He Lao asked Chen Fangru rhetorically, the other party is her son, doesn't she believe it?
Chen Fangru sighed helplessly and said softly, "It's not that I don't want to believe him, but I don't know how to believe in myself." Although the other party is his son, he has not been by his side over the years, which is indeed a little cause, he is not close to himself at all, and there is even an estrangement.
"Okay, don't think too much, I'm tired and take a rest first." He Lao didn't know how to comfort her, anyway, he had already said what he should have said, even if he didn't need to waste his lips and tongue, she could only say that she was tired if she didn't want to socialize.
And what he said is also true, he is indeed quite tired and wants to take a break.
"Alright then, Dad, you take a rest first, I'll go first." Chen Fangru also knew that it was useless to talk too much at this time, and she couldn't change anything if she said so much.
I have already said what I should say, so there is no point in saying more next, not to mention that the old man also said that he wants to rest, and he can't pester others, the old man is not young, and it is normal to want to rest at this time.
"Since things are already like this, in addition to facing the result, you really hope that time will change slowly, and it is useless to be in a hurry." He Lao told his daughter-in-law not to think too much, one day, there will be changes between their mother and son.
After Chen Fangru came out of the old man's room, she was in a worse mood, she was a little depressed early in the morning, and she felt even more bad at this time.
There is no one thing that can make you happy, especially the matter of your son, let yourself really break your heart, what do you have to do to change this ending.
He originally had good intentions, he was his own son, of course he hoped that he could live a better life, but what he did, people didn't seem to appreciate it so much.
What did she do wrong, why did she have such a situation today, Chen Fangru was puzzled about this.
She had thought about it very seriously and seriously, but in the end, she still couldn't figure out what she had done wrong.
"It's not about going to see my son, how to sit in the garden." He Shaobin originally wanted to go over to find them, but when he passed by the garden, he saw his wife sitting in the garden in a daze. I want to talk about "No First Love, There is a Secret Love" with more like-minded people, and pay attention to "Youyue Literature" on WeChat, talk about life, and find a confidant~