Chapter 598 - Be Special to Yourself
That's the same mentality, so from another point of view, I can still understand, after all, I just met him at that time, and I was just a stranger, and ordinary friends were not counted, so how could I easily tell my true identity.
There is really no need to worry too much about some things, after all, it is not so important to himself, and now he doesn't care what kind of mentality he had at the beginning, why he wanted to hide his true identity, but one day he can say with certainty that he definitely has his own reasons for doing this.
I have always been in this psychological belief, if the other party wants to tell myself, then I don't have to say it myself, the other party will take the initiative to say it, if the other party is not willing to tell myself, no matter how I force it, it will be nothing.
After all, the forced result is not what you want, and it will make both parties unhappy, so how can you do this kind of thing? What kind of mentality did he have at the beginning, and was it so important to him?
If you really can't let it go, you can only do it in your heart, and you can only say that you are thinking too much. As long as you understand this, you won't feel anything in the future, and he naturally has a reason for doing this, just like he doesn't want others to know that he is an orphan, isn't it the same?
"And how did you know his identity later, did he tell you?" Lin Ya was quite curious about what happened behind her, and how Yixin knew about these things.
There is such an interesting story between them, if it weren't for the words that happened to be mentioned today, maybe they wouldn't have known.
Shu Yixin shook his head and said lightly, "No, it wasn't him who told me, I guessed it, but I didn't tell him at that time, maybe I thought I was waiting, when he was willing to tell me, but I didn't wait until I accidentally said it later, and I told it through." In fact, he has been hesitating to tell me about it since then, but he has never found the right opportunity. "If I hadn't just received it that day, maybe I wouldn't have debunked his previous identity.
He said that all this happened to be so coincidental, and at that time he also confessed to himself, at the beginning, he just said it casually, and did not intend to deceive himself.
"Has he ever thought to explain to you who he really is?" got along with the two of them, and I also felt that the relationship between the two of them was not ordinary.
At the beginning, it may have been forced to say this, after all, they didn't know each other too well, but later, the relationship between each other got better and better, didn't they think about confessing, didn't they think about telling each other their true identity?
Lin Ya felt that although He Yuhe said that his boss himself had a certain understanding of him, I always felt that he was too attentive to Shu Yixin, and it was impossible to say that there was no reason for what he did, but it was just that other people couldn't guess it.
I know better than anyone else what kind of person he is, and I know more or less about his style of doing things, but it's more difficult to guess what he really thinks.
"He's always been looking for opportunities, but he's never been scared, and I'm going to stay away from him because of who he is." Shu Yixin relayed what he said to Lin Ya, but he didn't think much about it, whether he really thought so.
But these are not so important to himself, the important thing is to make his opinions clear with him, and he also knows his true identity, and he knows that there is another person in his heart, so there is really no possibility between himself and him.
To be realistic, he is self-aware, knows where his position is, and knows how big the gap between him and him is, so he doesn't dare to expect extravagantly.
"Then after you listen to his words, will you feel particularly angry, in fact, he has always had the opportunity to talk to you, and he has indeed never spoken." Lin Ya continued to analyze with her what kind of reaction she would have when she heard these words.
It may be because the other party is his boss, so he wants to know more about his affairs, which is somewhat beneficial to himself, after all, as his secretary, sometimes he has to deal with his personal affairs, and knowing more about him is harmless and beneficial to himself.
Shu Yixin glanced at Lin Ya, thought about it and said softly, "Actually, it's not as you think, although I was a little angry at that time, but my mood was quite stable, after all, I can understand why he did this." To put it another way, as long as you can understand why he is doing this, then how can you care so much, and why should you care why he deceives himself like this.
It can only be said that everyone has their own difficulties and their own ideas, and they should understand that what he said casually at the beginning was completely out of protection for himself, after all, he was just a stranger to him at that time.
"I thought you'd be angry when I heard him say that, but I didn't expect you to be much calmer than I thought." The other party has a good relationship with you, but one day you find that the other party has been cheating on you, and it is impossible to be so calm if it were yourself.
"There is really what you said, you may be a little more angry in your imagination, but in reality you are so calm." If he thinks unilaterally, he deceives himself like this, maybe he is really a little angry.
It's just empathy, and I don't feel as angry as I imagined. If you don't understand him, you will get more and more angry.
That's not the case so far, so there's nothing to be angry about.
After experiencing these things, Shu Yixin felt that she was not as angry as she imagined, perhaps she should be able to understand why he did this in the first place.
But no matter what, it's all in the past, and there's no point in getting angry.
Even if he will be angry, for the sake of what he has done for himself, he can actually forgive him.
One thing I can't deny is that he is really good to himself, everything he does from beginning to end is for himself, although he doesn't understand why he does this, but he can also feel that he is really good to himself.
What is there to be angry about in comparison? If you are really angry with him, you will only appear to be too unkind.
"He is a very good person in your eyes, and he is also very good to you, although I have only met once, but from what you said, I can feel it." What Lin Ya can't deny is that her boss is really good to her.
Maybe I'm a little envious, but in fact, I can't erase it at all, my boss is very good to my sisters.
I can't tell how envious and jealous I feel in my heart, but that's just envy. I am not so lucky, and I can't get such treatment.
"You really got it right, and I can't deny that he was really nice to me, although I don't quite understand why he did it." Shu Yixin didn't understand why he was doing this to himself even now, in short, he was really good to himself, but he couldn't say why he was so good to himself and what the reason was.
I've known him for a while, but I still can't figure out why he's so special to himself, and many times I can feel that he is really good to himself, and different to others.
Sometimes I want to know why, but I don't know how to say it, and I'm afraid that it will hurt our feelings.
"Maybe you have something special, maybe there's something he appreciates." It's hard to say why, but that's the way it is.
Shu Yixin thought of these problems, and his heart was a little distressed, after thinking about it, he still couldn't figure it out, and finally decided to forget it, why did he think so much?
If you don't understand something, you don't have to worry about it, and you will know about it sooner or later. Sometimes you let yourself go, but it's actually the best choice for yourself.
"Actually, I don't understand it, why bother thinking so much, let's rest early, don't you have to go to work tomorrow, it's not early." When you have to go to work tomorrow, don't think about these indifferent problems, go to bed early, and continue to struggle tomorrow.
After all, there are some problems that cannot be solved, but you still have to go on and work hard to support yourself.
"Well, you should rest early, I'll go back to my room first." Lin Ya looked at the time, and she should also rest.
"Yes." After cleaning up by myself, I will naturally go to rest, and it is indeed quite tiring to play all day.
Lin Ya walked to the door of her room, then turned back and said softly, "He knows that we live together, so does he know that my information in the company is fake." Lin Ya wanted to ask this question for a long time, but she never had a chance to ask, and at this time, she suddenly remembered it, and she still felt like asking.
Shu Yixin was a little frightened by her sudden question, maybe she didn't expect her to ask this question suddenly, but how should she answer this question?
Shu Yixin looked at Lin Ya, although she was a little surprised, how could she think of these questions, but I have to say that this question is very meaningful.
"He knows that we live together, as for the rest, he didn't say much, I don't know if he found this problem, he is so busy alone, he probably doesn't have time to look at everyone's personnel information." Shu Yixin felt that as the boss of a company, there were so many employees with salaries, and it could not be said that he had read everyone's personnel information.