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Shu Yixin looked at her, and she should have an answer in her heart, but she hadn't reacted yet.

Emotional things are the easiest to make people miss the balance, and some things are not to be taken care of, which is not a big deal, but in front of the person you love, many times it will still make people ignore the essence.

Is this the so-called obsessed with the authorities and bystanders? It can be seen that the two of them really love each other, if they don't really love each other in the face of such things, how can they care so much, the more they love each other, the more they care about these things.

"There's already an answer in your mind, isn't it? So what else do you have to be angry about at this time? Think about what he did to you while exploring the jungle, and you should have the answer. "Think about how he treated you before, in fact, the answer is already in your heart.

There is really no need to worry too much about some things, think about how he treated you before, know that he has you in his heart, but the form of expression is different, in fact, sometimes, there is no need to be too serious.

Shu Yixin can see these things more openly, she thinks that as long as the other party has you in her heart, she can stand up for you when you are in danger, in fact, this can prove that people really love you, but everyone's expression is different, maybe people really can't speak, and sometimes they will inevitably receive some words that hurt you as soon as you open your mouth.

To put it another way, everyone has a different way of speaking, maybe some people are really not good at expressing themselves, and it is inevitable that sometimes they will express themselves incorrectly and so on.

In fact, it's good to get used to it slowly, at the beginning it may really not be in place, which will make you particularly angry, but in the future, as long as you get used to knowing that he is unintentional, then there is nothing to be angry about.

"That's what I said, but hearing his tone like this, I will inevitably hurt my heart, maybe it hurts my self-esteem a little." Ren Xiaoou didn't mean that he couldn't understand it at all, in other words, he could understand him, but when he thought of himself, he still felt a little uncomfortable in his heart.

After all, he has paid so much for him, he only thinks about him wholeheartedly, and he doesn't want to have a secret between himself and him, but people think about themselves like this, which is somewhat hurt.

He has paid so much for him, but he has never thought about himself from his own point of view, so when he thinks of this, he is very angry and sad in his heart.

If he understood more and thought more about himself from his own point of view, maybe he wouldn't be so angry.

Sometimes I feel that he is really selfish, only thinking about his own feelings, completely ignoring what kind of feelings he feels.

"I'll forgive people here, not to mention that people have realized their mistakes and apologized to you as soon as possible." Shu Yixin could only ask her not to think too much at this time, and comfort her by the way.

"Don't worry, I'm fine, but when I think about it, I still feel a little uncomfortable, in fact, it's not a big deal, maybe I'm too concerned about this." Maybe people just think that they are too careful, and it is not a big deal, but this matter is very important to themselves.

It's just that I've been a little sad for a while recently, and after that, I believe that time will slowly heal this wound, but it's not a big deal from beginning to end.

"On the road of love, we will inevitably get hurt, but sometimes we can only tell ourselves to look away and not put too much pressure on ourselves." If you take care of everything, you will definitely be hurt in the end.

Sometimes this kind of thing can only be seen and then seen, and it can only be told to yourself not to think too much.

It's not that I don't want to worry about it, but I just think it's really unnecessary for such a thing.

"Yes, it's not necessary, because it's really not worth it to put too much pressure on yourself because of such a thing, maybe I should really think about it." At the beginning, Ren Xiaoou just wanted to complain, but now after talking to his best friend, the whole person is much more relaxed.

Some things are pressed in your heart, only you know, it is inevitable that your heart will be unbalanced, after saying it, in fact, your heart will be much better, not as uncomfortable as at the beginning, maybe what you lack is just sharing.

"Originally, I still couldn't think about it, but after listening to your words, the whole person was much more relaxed, and sure enough, I was only suitable for talking to you." Except for this girlfriend, I really can't find anyone else to talk about these topics.

So sometimes, I really need a girlfriend, after all, there are some whispers, and I can only be suitable for her.

"I feel much more relieved to hear you say this, don't think too much, it's really not a big deal." It's not a big thing at all, but it magnifies things, and you won't feel anything if you want to open it a little.

"Well, maybe I'm too careful, and now that I think about it, it seems like a bit too much." Ren Xiaoou felt that he reacted later, and he was so angry for such a little thing, so if he really married him in the future, wouldn't there be more things to make him angry?

When two people are together, it is inevitable that there will be different views in life, and if they are both angry about such things, then they can be angry all day long, let alone have a happy life.

Two people should tolerate each other, there is really no need to be angry about such a thing, it's not worth it, after all, two different people always have different points of view, always have different ideas, they are not the same person as him, how can they have the same thoughts, even twins will have different ideas.

Now that I have figured it out, I am a little happier, not as sad as I was at the beginning, I can only say that I didn't think it through at that time, so I still care a lot in my heart.

"I think we should all learn to be generous on the road of love, and sometimes we should learn to forget, and pretend that things that can hurt us don't exist, although this is just self-hypnosis, at least it plays a certain role." Sometimes the other party's unintentional words will inevitably hurt you, but when these things happen, you self-hypnosis pretend not to listen, and at the same time let yourself avoid being hurt.

It may be a symptom rather than a cure, but sometimes it can still be used, because in such a situation, you can reduce your own pain, and it can be regarded as an alternative way to protect yourself.

Shu Yixin may be because she was injured before, so at this time, she feels that sometimes she really can't be too careful, can't take it too seriously.

If you do this in everything, if you are serious, then you are really too tired to live.

"It seems reasonable for you to say that, but you don't need to take everything seriously, maybe sometimes you can pretend that you didn't hear anything." Ren Xiaoou felt that maybe sometimes he really needed to do this, and some things couldn't be taken care of too much, and he could only be self-hypnosis.

In fact, it's not that I don't want to care too much, but it's just that if I continue to care like this, there is no point at all. Everyone has already said it, can you still let the other party not say it? has already said a little, and he can only face it calmly. As for how to face it, it depends on your choice.

If you can make yourself feel better with such a choice, why don't you accept it? I can only tell myself that sometimes there is no need to drill the tip of the horns, because drilling the horns of the horns is not beneficial to me at all, so why should I choose this way?

Shu Yixin patted her shoulder and said lightly, "I can only say that many things in life are helpless, and no one wants to be like this, but there is no other choice." "If I had another choice, I wouldn't have chosen this, because there was no other choice, so it's no wonder I'm doing it.

"You don't need to say it anymore, I already understand, it seems that you still see these things more clearly." I just chatted with her casually, and I instantly relieved myself.

Yixin still said some things correctly, too careful, for himself, there is really no benefit, it will only make his mood worse.

If you have a choice, you really don't need to choose this path, make yourself uncomfortable, and let your heart be blocked.

Why don't you choose a path that will allow you to feel relaxed and let yourself not care? What's the point of going on like this, and what can it change? It's just asking for your own hardship.

"You also know that in the past, I also loved to drill the horns of the bull, and let myself suffer a lot of grievances and pain, but now I look back and think about all this by myself, and I can't let go of it." If I had been able to think clearly about this to myself, and to be able to think through it, then there would be no such pain.

"Some things are uncertain, although I tell myself not to care, but sometimes I will inevitably care." It's not that you can be so rational in the face of everything, and you want to be sensible, but it doesn't mean that you can do it all the time.

"Yes, at this time, I can only talk about you from another angle." After experiencing some things, I learned to grow and learn how to do what is the best choice for me.

"What you said makes sense, I'll think about it."

"I'm really glad that you can think about this clearly, in fact, I don't want to say this to you, but you also know that there are too many things in life that are impossible, and we can't choose if we want to." In other words, I don't want to do this, but sometimes I really don't have a choice, and there is no way out. I want to talk about "No First Love, There is a Secret Love" with more like-minded people, and pay attention to "Youyue Literature" on WeChat, talk about life, and find a confidant~