Chapter 4 A soak of urine poured out the dark knot of patriarchy in the old cloud
Early on Saturday morning, Yunxin found a small van to come to the hospital.
He completed the discharge procedures, helped his mother pack up her things, wrapped the Ming and Qing mothers in the same tight as zongzi, and let the Ming and Qing mothers get in the car, Yunxiu sat next to them, and the hospitalized family put everything in the back seat of the car, and he sat next to his wife holding his daughter. Because of motion sickness, the bride walked home by herself in the back as usual.
When Yunxin and the others returned home, it was already noon.
Old Yuntou went to herd cattle.
Yun Gang took Yun Jin and Yun Yi to wait at home.
Although it is in the countryside, it is not as good as the rules of a large family in the past, but after all, it is the eldest granddaughter of the family.
What's more, the sister-in-law stayed in the hospital for a week, and the mother also helped take care of it, and she didn't come home for a week. No matter what way you say it, you have to greet it and express it well.
No, as soon as the car arrived, Yun Gang organized Yun Jin and Yun Yi to help the eldest brother Yun Xin move things.
Yunxiu helped Ming Qing into the house and went back to the room, the mother is the most taboo to see the wind and catch a cold, everyone understands this.
After moving her things, Yun Bride also walked home.
She put her things down and started making lunch without stopping.
Cao'er had already been carried to the living room by Yunxin for everyone to take a look.
In these short 7 days, the little guy quickly grew from a wrinkled and small mouse to a delicate and tender little cutie.
You see, the little face is blown, and the dark eyes seem to be smiling at her uncles. The small mouth is gently pursed, occasionally smashed it, and leaks a little saliva out, which is really likable to watch.
The uncles rushed to hug it, and Cao'er enjoyed the love of the adults in the family peacefully. It's remarkable that a one-week-old baby like her can stay so calm.
Yun Yi's hand kept reaching into the sleeve of Cao'er's coat and playing with her delicate fingers. Probably the little boy thought Cao'er's fingers were very interesting, and broke and closed them, and Cao'er let him go, as if Cao'er knew that this was his little uncle and didn't need to be afraid.
The cloud bride, who was upgraded to grandma, came out of the kitchen and said:
"You all like our grass so much, you will be responsible for coaxing her in the future, otherwise, how can you be an uncle?!"
"Okay, okay, I'll play with her!"
Yun Yi is still young, and he thinks that coaxing his little niece must be easier than working, and he can be lazy.
"Let's bring the grass, so who will work for this family?"
Yunjin is a straight person, so he goes straight back to his mother.
"Okay, okay, then I'll bring it, you have to work hard to make more money and come back."
Yun Bride said as she walked briskly back to the kitchen, her dishes would be burned if they were not stir-fried.
"Of course, I don't have to say this."
Yun Gang has always been better at talking than Yun Jin, and he laughs at the grass in his arms.
Yun Xin is in the room with his wife Ming Qing.
Although the Ming and Qing dynasties were born smoothly and were taken good care of by their mother-in-law in the hospital, after all, they had just given birth, and their whole body was still very weak. When I was hospitalized, I asked the nurse, and the nurse said that it was normal, so I didn't care, I just wanted to rest more.
"Ming and Qing, you just gave birth, your body is weak, and I am not good at taking care of children, so let our mother take care of you and the child."
Yun Xin thought about it and said to Ming Qing.
"What about housework? It's better for you to take care of it yourself. Besides, my mother is not less busy in the hospital, she hasn't rested well, and her age is coming, so don't work too hard. “
Ming Qing is a woman who knows how to be grateful, and her mother-in-law's meticulous care in the past few days is engraved in her heart.
"Otherwise, the child sleeps with us at night, I will watch more, and during the day, let our mother and her old man help take care of it, how about it?"
Yunxin understands his wife's love for her children and her consideration for her mother.
"Okay, the child is going to feed during the day, and I'm here when I'm going to sleep, I'm here to poop and pee, and if I want to go out for a walk, let my mother help take care of it, but my mother has to be busy again."
Ming Qing was a little apologetic.
"It's okay, our mother can be happy. I'll talk to her about dinner. “
Yunxin was relieved by the Ming and Qing dynasties.
According to the habit of confinement in the village, the mother cannot come out of the room for a month, because the mother is most afraid of the wind and cold, especially in this winter.
Although the winter in the south is not very cold, the temperature in this wax moon is also around 10 degrees, and when it rains in wet and cold weather, the cold air is as cold as a knife.
This cold weather is also good for confinement in the Ming and Qing dynasties, that is, unlike the mothers in the summer months, they have to be wrapped like zongzi, so hot that they are covered in sweat, and they are prone to inflammation when they encounter caesarean sections. Although it is colder, it is not easy to produce inflammation. But I really can't go out a step.
In this month, the Ming and Qing dynasties were almost always lying in bed. Taking a bath to wipe her body, it is also the mother-in-law who brings hot water to the room at noon, uses hot water to help her wipe her body, and then uses a plastic bucket to adjust the water temperature, let her squat in another large plastic bathtub, wash it quickly, and then help her get dressed so as not to catch a cold.
Every time the two adults were busy, Xiaocao'er lay on the bed next to her, either falling asleep, or turning her little black eyes to watch quietly.
In the few days when the Ming and Qing mothers came home, the father and mother of the Ming and Qing dynasties also hurriedly came with fruits and supplements, as well as some clothes and toys for Xiaocaoer.
The father and mother of the Ming and Qing dynasties saw their granddaughter, and also chatted with their daughter for a while, and listened to her daughter talk about the care of her mother, she was very moved, and repeatedly thanked her mother for her intentions.
Bride Yun felt that it was her duty to take care of the Ming and Qing Dynasties, and there was nothing to be thankful for. If you want to say that the daughter who was raised by hard work came to her own house as a daughter-in-law, working and giving birth to a baby. Besides, this Ming and Qing Dynasty and Cao'er are both members of the Yun family, don't they take care of their own families? What else can you thank for? Speaking of which, Yun Bride felt that she wanted to thank her father and mother of the Ming and Qing Dynasties for sending her daughter over.
Yun Bride told her mother-in-law about this truth, and the two old men thanked God for letting their daughter have such a good mother-in-law and meet such a good mother-in-law who is capable and reasonable.
In the Ming and Qing dynasties, because there were many things at home, they didn't stay long, they had lunch, and left in the evening, saying that they would not eat dinner.
Yun Bride said that she could just see Yun Xin and a few brothers at dinner, but the two old men had always been simple, and said that there was indeed something at home and they had to go back first.
Yun Bride is not easy to force to stay, so let them choose Saturday and Sunday another day, then Yun Xin will be at home.
Since the eldest granddaughter came home, Lao Yuntou took the time to take a few looks, and he didn't care much, and he didn't say a few words, probably Yunxin followed his mother's advice, and also told his father to talk less, and everything would be said after the Ming and Qing dynasties were finished.
The grass grows day by day, but she still doesn't cry much. It seems that the little guy is really considerate of these two women in the family, one is his mother, who is weak, and the other is his grandmother, who is busy from morning to night every day, in the words of grandma, is so busy that his feet do not touch the ground, and he does not even have a place to stay.
Occasionally, the grass woke up in the middle of the night, and after Ming and Qing finished feeding, they closed their eyes and fell asleep again, not wanting to disturb their parents' sleep at all.
In the morning, unless you get wet, you will hum a few words when you wake up, otherwise you are also very well-behaved, and when you wake up, you will turn your dark eyes and observe the world, waiting for your parents to wake up.
Such a child, so quiet and not noisy, who can not love it more?
In this regard, Lao Yuntou also secretly praised it in his heart.
Originally, he didn't approve of Bride Yun taking care of the Ming and Qing dynasties and taking care of the children. He was worried that there was too much work at home, and Bride Yun couldn't keep it busy.
He also felt that this was the eldest Yunxin's own child, so it should be Yunxin himself who asked for leave to come back to see his child and daughter-in-law, or his mother-in-law came to help take care of it. But Bride Yun didn't let him say that she had to take care of it herself.
Lao Yuntou was a little unhappy because of this, he gave birth to a granddaughter, and no matter how well he took care of him, he would be someone else's family in the future, so he should let her grandparents take care of him.
However, when he saw that although Bride Yun had more work, the eldest granddaughter was not noisy or noisy, and she was very well-behaved, so she slowly became less troublesome.
Lao Yuntou sometimes helps Bride Yun with housework when he is idle at home, so that Bride Yun can free up her hands to take care of the Ming and Qing Dynasties.
Sometimes, when I saw the bride of Yun walking around the corridor with the grass in her arms, I couldn't help but go up and take a look, after all, this baby is obedient and doesn't make trouble.
Yun Bride especially understood the old man's thoughts, so she said that the water in her kitchen was boiling, and she wanted to fill the hot water, so she put the grass into the old Yuntou's arms and went to the kitchen to work.
After a while, Lao Yuntou rushed into the kitchen angrily holding the baby and shouting angrily: "Don't hug it, don't hug it, pee on my hand." ”
Don't look at Lao Yuntou is an old man herding cattle in the countryside, before his family was beaten into a rich peasant, his family had some land, and his life was still good, and he was a young master when he was young, and he loved cleanliness very much. But I didn't want to hold this for a while, but my arm was hot, and I was soaked in urine, and I couldn't breathe. After handing over the baby to Bride Yun, he hurriedly ran to change his clothes.
"Did you say that you have a deep relationship with this child, no one hugged you and didn't get urinated, just as soon as you hugged it, it left a mark on you, does she want you to remember her, or does she already recognize you?"
Yun Bride hugged the grass that had just been changed into the package, and said to the old Yun Tou in the living room who had just changed his coat.
"Well, if you say so, I still have to hug her?"
When Lao Yuntou heard the old woman say this, he felt that there seemed to be some truth, but his tone still seemed to be quite angry.
But since this soaking in urine, Lao Yuntou no longer does housework for his wife when he is at home, but walks around the house with grass for her.
Ming Qing heard about a soak of urine, and couldn't help but steal fun with his mother-in-law.
When Yun Xin came back and heard about it, he couldn't help but laugh at his father.
As for Yun Gang, Yun Jin even used it to make fun of their old father at the dinner table.
Yun Xiu and Yun Yi are still young. The adults don't talk to them.
Interestingly, in this way, although the whole family has one more laughing stalk, the emotion of loss in Lao Yuntou's heart that he did not hold his eldest grandson seems to have faded a little, and his face began to have some satisfaction and smiles, especially when he was called a grandfather by the neighbors who came to the door when he was holding Cao'er, and his face couldn't help but smile - in the end, it was because of this little guy that he was upgraded to a grandfather, and he was also happy.
In this way, unconsciously, Lao Yuntou also accepted this eldest granddaughter and began to be her good grandfather.