Lin Yijia has a sense of responsibility to be a "sister" and wants to answer Yang Jinxin's doubts.

yes, what's the trick to that?

Lin Yijia remembered the "past life" that I didn't know if I had or didn't think about for a long time. In her previous life, Lin Huijia's life in the Rongjun Mansion was also anxious and exhausted; Lin Minjia married Dou Libai, who had unusual ambitions, couldn't say that he was bitter, and he ......

Lin Yijia pursed her lips.

And the change, is it really just because she Lin Yijia made a stumbling block and made everyone's marriage turn a corner, so everything completely changed, and it was easy to achieve a splendid relationship?

It's definitely not that simple.

If it weren't for Lin Huijia's intelligence, tolerance and knowledge of advance and retreat, she could stand in the position of the Rong Mansion, and she would never be silent about Zhao Linglong's affairs, no matter how unhappy she was in her heart, she would endure silently and never express it, even if she had already stood firm in the mansion in the end, she would avoid it, how could she be sincerely accepted by the Rong Mansion?

The "scandal" of Rongfu, as an "outsider", if she hears any words about this from Lin Huijia's mouth, no matter how many "benefits" she has, it will be in vain. Lin Huijia has always seen this very clearly, which is the foundation of her foothold in Rongfu.

What about Lin Minjia?

When Kang Yongtong was hastily selected, she did not have any love for Kang Yongtong. Even, Kang Yongtong is not the type she would like to admire. What Lin Yijia especially can't forget is that when she exchanged tokens with Kang Yongtong that day, Lin Minjia personally handed her personal birthday jade plate to Kang Yong at the same time.

Because she has corrected her attitude and worked hard. That's why there is today's long-term love, love and harmony.

- If Lin Minjia blindly resisted her husband like their aunt Lin Yuan'er once did, she would not have had a good time today!

And what about yourself?

Lin Yijia shook her head slightly, pulled her chaotic thoughts back, and said with a smile: "Actually, it's all because we have a good mother!" My mother she had a lot of ideas, and at the same time people were very different. For example, she always said that her daughter went to learn piano, chess, calligraphy and painting. It should be used to cultivate temperament, not to make a name for itself, if you don't like it, don't learn it......"

This is the case with Mrs. Lin herself.

So she will appreciate all of these, but none of them can be shown off. The only thing I'm good at is her words. But it's just proficient, and it's just that he can write properly. In her spare time, she prefers to fiddle with bonsai for fun......

Therefore, none of the daughters of the Lin family has the name of "talented girl".

"Jin'er is proud enough to have such a piano sound......" Lin Yijia praised.

In the small circle of nobles in Shengjing City. Yang Jinxin's piano has always been extremely famous.

Yang Jinxin thought of what Lin Yijia said, and remembered his reputation as a "talented girl". I didn't know what it was like for a while, as if I felt that I had become a fame seeker, and I felt a little uncomfortable.

She tensed her pink lips and asked again: "However, among noble ladies, it is inevitable that there will be a competition, and many times. It's not something you can avoid if you want to. If you don't have a skill, you can travel for banquets. Doesn't it make people laugh? ”

"Jin'er doesn't have to worry too much." Lin Yijia smiled: "I'm not saying it's bad to be a talented woman, I just want to tell you...... In many cases, it is not necessary to compete for the merits. Humility, intelligence, calmness...... These are the qualities that can be most appreciated by the elders. As for the relationship between husband and wife, it is different. ”

When Yang Jinxin heard the word "husband and wife", she blushed slightly and moved her lips slightly, but she finally didn't have the courage to ask anything more, so she just took the box she brought and said to Lin Yijia: "I know that my sister-in-law likes farming, and there is an ancient book from the previous dynasty, which I will give to my sister-in-law as a pastime." ”

Lin Yijia took it and flipped it over, and said with a smile: "Jin'er is attentive." ”

Mrs. Lin never avoided their daughter's family affairs. She always asks them what they think, and uses many examples to tell them why they are wrong and how to avoid it. She would tell her daughters, from his elders to the environment in which he grew up and how his character was formed, to tell them what kind of man he was, and what kind of situation he would face if he lived with him......

Mrs. Lin always tirelessly teaches and teaches.

But in Daxian, there has never been a mother who has taught her daughter such a lesson.

At that time, people always avoided talking about marriage with boudoir girls, and all relevant teachings were only after marriage. But after getting married, if you don't have time to say otherwise, how much time and opportunity can there be for this mother and daughter to talk to each other?

Just like Yang Jinxin at this time, when he hears the word "husband and wife", he will be shy and avoidant. In this way, how can you be ready to "blend in with a stranger's family"?!

As a mother, Mrs. Wu Xinghou is already very rare, but she is afraid that she will never discuss her family affairs with her daughter......

Since Yang Jinxin took the initiative to avoid it, Lin Yijia couldn't really hold her and whisper in private. I just feel that my "sister" doesn't seem to be able to teach my "sister" anything, and I can't help but feel a little regretful in my heart.

After thinking about it, she asked: "A few days ago, I heard the second aunt say that she had fallen in love with the daughter of the Su family in the country, and my grandmother instructed her to come to the house to see each other, I don't know if it was arranged?" Do you know Miss Jin'er of the Su family? ”

Hearing Lin Yijia mention this, Yang Jinxin was also interested, leaned over slightly and whispered to Lin Yijia with a smile: "Why don't you know?" The young lady of the Su family is called Ning Rou, and she is the eldest daughter of the Su family. On weekdays, when we meet, we always talk in one place......"

"Did the third aunt talk to you about her, and how did you evaluate her?" Lin Yijia asked with a smile: "There must be a reason why the third aunt is her daughter-in-law, right?" ”

Yang Jinxin said with a little excitement: "My mother said that Sister Ning Rou is gentle and gentle, smart and persistent, and she is a good one." I remember that once, when the Su family held a banquet, Ning Rou's sister and uncle's family still had several sisters of the same age to marry, and they all behaved extremely well, only Ning Rou's sister took care of the tea and snacks, and she was silent. But my mother took a fancy to Sister Ning Rou......"

"Then did your mother say why?" Lin Yijia asked again.

"My mother said that Sister Ning Rou is thoughtful and meticulous, and can take care of the overall situation...... Yang Jinxin herself seemed to think of something, and slowed down while speaking, and said: "At that family banquet, of course the tea and snacks she managed were very thoughtful, but she didn't show credit in front of the elders and guests like other Su family ladies...... Moreover, there are two young ladies of the Su family who fight each other and make stumbling blocks, and it is also Sister Ning Rou who silently fills the circle......"

"On that day, several young ladies of the Su family showed their talents, and it was lively, and Sister Ning Rou also made a poem, but it was just not good or bad, and she didn't show off at all...... "Yang Jinxin said here, raised his eyes to look at Lin Yijia, bit his lips lightly, and said in a low voice: "Sister-in-law, I seem to understand what you mean." ”

Everyone knows that Wuxing Hou Shizi's family affairs are undecided. Moreover, Wuxing Hou Shizi is definitely the object of people's attention, his family background, character, and appearance are all excellent. Therefore, it is conceivable that how many boudoir girls in Shengjing are staring at the position of Mrs. Wuxing Hou Shizi.

The ladies of the Su family will definitely not be an exception.

Under the competition of all the young ladies, Mrs. Wu Xinghou chose Su Ningrou, not a few other good paintings or poems written in style, let alone the most beautiful ......

Lin Yijia smiled.

She took a sip of flower tea, and said: "Your sister Ning Rou has met your mother's eyes, and if she marries into Wuxing Houfu in the future, the pressure will naturally be much less, and her future life will have an excellent start......"

"And then?" Yang Jinxin bit her lip, there was some shame in her eyes, but she looked at Lin Yijia brightly.

"Then, it's up to her to get along with your brother." Lin Yijia winked at Yang Jinxin tightly, saw Yang Jinxin's face flushed, smiled happily, and deliberately asked Yang Jinxin: "Does Jin'er still want to know?" ”

Yang Jinxin's face seemed to be coated with too much rouge, her pink lips were bitten into blue and white, and the handkerchief in her hand was twisted into a thousand shapes, but she said loudly: "Sister-in-law, just talk about it......

actually sprinkled coquettishly.

Lin Yijia stopped teasing her, put away her smile slightly, and asked, "Do you think your brother will like Su Jia Ningrou?" Do they know each other? ”

Yang Jinxin frowned slightly, and said hesitantly: "I should know it, but I don't know it." As for my brother......" she shook her head and said, "I can't say it, I just know that he shouldn't have a crush." ”

"Breadth is a capable person. In fact, like Quang Nam and even my eldest brother-in-law, he has the talent and character to match their status. This kind of man's requirements for his wife are not only gentle and petty, not just casual and elegant, nor how beautiful, but want to have a fit between husband and wife......"

"As for how it fits...... Everyone is different, and I have nothing to teach you. Lin Yijia shook her head and smiled: "I can only tell you that this fit is not blindly catering to and losing oneself...... How so? My mother once said that men in this world always want their wives to be what they want to be, but smart women will slowly change their husbands into people who can accept themselves in the process of pandering......"

"That's probably it." Lin Yijia said: "Perhaps, you can learn from your sister Ning Rou...... She's giving you an example. ”

Yang Jinxin sat there, bowed his head and was in a trance for a while before he said, "Sister-in-law, can I come to see you often in the future?" ”

Lin Yijia smiled: "Of course, I still want to hear you play the piano." ”

Yang Jinxin laughed and said, "Then it's decided." Well, big brother is back, I won't bother you, I'm leaving! ”

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