Chapter 990: It's Necessary to Say I'm Sorry to You
"Yes, I will definitely be responsible for my own choice, and I will definitely not blame anyone." If they don't interfere in their own affairs, then they will bear whatever they do, and the corresponding consequences will definitely not drag them down.
He Yuhe never regretted the decision he made, because he felt that he could make a decision, it must be the result of his own careful consideration, not that he didn't think about anything, and thinking about it was the result of it.
Any decision made about himself is well thought out, so there are no regrets, I just hope that they can not interfere with their emotional life.
"Well, if you can say this, it proves that you have really grown up, and your mother and I won't have to worry so much in the future." When his son grows up and he is old, he will watch his affairs by himself, and he won't have to worry too much about it in the future.
After listening to what his son said, He Shaobin felt very relieved, because how to say it, it can be seen that he has really grown up, and being able to say these words means that his thinking is really mature.
In the future, I don't have to worry too much about his affairs, after all, he can handle these things, and there is no need to worry about him as before.
"I have to grow up after all, otherwise, I will live up to my grandfather's hard work and pull me to grow up." When He Yuhe talked about his grandfather, he was indeed very grateful to his grandfather, and if he didn't have a grandfather, he would not have achieved such an achievement today.
A big reason is that grandpa educated himself too well, so he also respects grandpa himself, and in his heart, grandpa's position is more important than his parents' position.
In other words, grandpa's hard work is more than his parents' hard work.
"Yes, your grandfather did teach you very well, it's just that we only cared about work at the beginning, and we didn't take care of you much, which is our negligence, and it is also hard for your grandfather to raise you for so many years." When He Shaobin came to this, he also felt that he had not done a good job as a father, but fortunately, his grandfather had educated him as an adult.
These are not my own credits, so I have never thought about it, and I have to admit that it is my own credit. He even said that he was very grateful to his father for teaching his son so well and making him worry a lot less.
Today, his son is not so close to him, he is close to his grandfather, and he can understand it, after all, it was his grandfather who spent his efforts to bring him up, and this credit is indeed not on himself.
But no matter what, I am glad to see my son grow up and see him so sensible, if he is still idle today, then he will definitely regret his original choice.
"Speaking of which, we really have to thank your grandfather for pulling you up, if we could have put more attention to you at the beginning, maybe today, our relationship will be better." It's because I didn't grow up by my side since I was a child, so I was never so close to him, and I always felt that something was missing.
"Those things are already in the past, don't say more now, the important thing is that we are not together now?" He Yuhe didn't want to discuss the past with his parents too much, after all, some things were destined to be unchangeable.
Because those things have passed, it is useless to talk about it at this time, if they could have thought of spending more time with themselves, then they would not have behaved like today.
"Actually, I haven't had a chance to say this, I think it's necessary to say sorry to you, I didn't choose you at the beginning, but chose a career." He Shaobin thought of those things before, and he also felt indebted to his son, after all, at that time, when he needed help the most, his husband and wife were not by his side, but his grandfather brought him up.
"Things have passed, what's the use of talking so much at this time, isn't I also growing up successful and doing well now? I don't want to do too much. He Yuhe didn't want to continue to talk to them about those past things, after all, everything had already passed, so what was the use of talking so much at this time?
"Even though that's the case, I always feel a little sorry for you." When He Shaobin said these words, he also felt a little embarrassed, but he didn't want to say it, but these are facts.
can only say that his son can understand himself, and does not complain about the choices he made at the beginning, to be honest, he sometimes feels that he is indebted to him in the face of him.
If he complained about himself a little bit at this time, maybe his heart could be a little better, but not only did he not complain about himself, but he was able to understand himself, which made him feel even more indebted to him.
"Yes, if you had grown up around us, maybe our relationship would have been much closer." Chen Fangru had to say that she had already regretted it at this time, and if there was a chance to choose again, she would definitely choose to take her son with her.
Thinking of the relationship between himself and his son now, there is no intimacy between mother and son at all, basically polite, and there is really nothing else.
Every time I think of him being so polite to his parents like a guest, he doesn't respect him at all, and whenever I think of myself, I really feel that I am a failure as a parent.
Therefore, if you can choose again at this time, you will definitely choose again, and you will never do such a thing again, and for yourself, you don't want to be the result.
After He Yuhe heard his parents say these words, he was actually a little embarrassed, because he didn't know how to answer at this time, yes, he always felt that he didn't know how to go on, such a topic was something he hadn't thought about before.
I didn't have much of these topics before, anyway, I've already come over, and I'm used to this kind of life for myself, after all, I used to come like this before.
You may think when you are young that everyone else is raised by your parents, but why don't you have one? On the contrary, it was my grandfather who grew up with me, which made me feel a little strange, and slowly accepted this phenomenon, and then I didn't think much about why.
When I was very young, I knew that everyone had their own choices, so I didn't blame anyone, I didn't hate anyone, and I didn't lack anything, and my grandfather really loved him.
In such a situation, I have nothing to resent about it, but I feel a little fortunate to have such a good grandfather like this.
It made him feel embarrassed, and when he didn't know what to say, Sister-in-law Liu came over and said that it was time to eat, which happened to break the awkward atmosphere at this time.
"Okay, don't talk about those things in the past, because no matter how much you say, you can't change it, let's eat first, don't let grandpa wait for us." He Yuhe is indeed reluctant to continue to say so many things in the past, for him, the past has passed, and it can't be changed if he says so much now.
"Well, let's eat first, don't talk about it if you don't want to." He Shaobin can also see that his son is reluctant to say this, and it just so happens that there are steps down at this time, so there is no need for him to keep struggling with this issue.
More often than not, I have to follow my son's wishes, and I can't go too against his will, otherwise the atmosphere between them will be even more embarrassing.
"Let's go, let's go to the restaurant for dinner first." Chen Fangru also felt relieved, in fact, when she said these words to her son just now, she was somewhat interested, probably thinking that the things she did would be debunked by him.
I wanted to leave for a long time, but there was no suitable excuse and reason, and I couldn't leave rashly.
"Xiaohe, I thought you had left a long time ago, just now Sister-in-law Liu said that you would stay for dinner, I didn't believe it." When He Lao saw his grandson, he couldn't believe it, and thought that he had left a long time ago, after all, he knew him well, and it was impossible for him to stay with his parents for so long.
Now that I've finally seen that others are still there, I'm still a little confused.
"Grandpa, isn't this trying to surprise you? There would be no surprises if you had told you in advance. He Yuhe replied to his grandfather's words with a smile and sat down in his grandfather's body.
"Hehe, what you say seems to make sense, and you also like an unexpected surprise grandpa." Sometimes he doesn't dare to ask too much, after all, he knows that he has his own things to do.
Let yourself really want him to spend more time with him, and even say that he will stay and have a meal with him, but you yourself in general, these words are unspeakable, if he really has time, he will do this, the reason why he didn't stay, may be because he really doesn't have time.
Thinking about it, it seems that he hasn't had a good meal with him for a while, the last time was when his parents didn't come back, in short, after his parents came back, he rarely stayed in the old house to eat, even if it was time to eat, he would still leave.
"Usually because of busy work, I don't have much time, but I just bumped into it today, so I'll have a meal with grandpa." He Yuhe actually wants to spend more time with his grandfather, but his time is limited, and he has a lot of things to do.
It's not that I don't want to, it's just that I really don't have that much time, and sometimes when I think of myself, I also feel indebted, after all, the opportunity to accompany my grandfather is to accompany him once less.
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