Chapter 984: I Don't Meddle
"I won't interfere in this matter, I don't plan to know, you just watch it." He Lao finally decided that he should make his position clear, it was really inconvenient for him to meddle in this matter, and let them do it themselves.
As elders, they are all their juniors, and it doesn't seem so appropriate to help anyone, so I still decided to quit and pretend not to know about it.
In fact, I didn't think about whether I wanted to help in this matter, and I always felt that if I helped, I would feel that I was partial to the other party, so in the end, I still felt that I didn't know anything, which was the best choice.
If you really make a choice at this time, how will the other party view you? After all, they are all their elders, so let them solve this matter internally.
"Grandpa, thank you, you are still the best for me and understand me better." He Yuhe sincerely feels that if his mother can understand herself like her grandfather, then there will not be so many problems today.
It's a pity that her mother will never be able to do it, like her grandfather, who is tolerant of herself and understands herself, she will just impose her ideas on herself, causing pressure and burden on herself.
If her mother can be as tolerant and understanding as her grandfather, then she doesn't have to ask so much, but unfortunately it's not like this, she doesn't seem to give up until she achieves her goal, and insists on interfering in her own emotional affairs.
She had already done this once five years ago, and five years later, did she still want to do it again?
Before, it was because she didn't have a choice, and it was also without her knowledge, so she was allowed to succeed, but after five years, she will definitely not repeat the mistakes of the past, and such a thing will not happen again.
"Silly boy, what's there to be thankful for, this matter has caused you trouble, grandpa is also very distressed to look at, maybe you should be able to think about it, doesn't your mother want to know about your feelings? You just bring the other person back to show her. He Lao thought about this idea in his heart for a long time, but he didn't say it, so he just took this opportunity to say it and discuss it with him by the way.
In fact, this is also the best way, his mother wants to know who his girlfriend is, and at this time, she will bring it back to let her know, so that she doesn't have to worry about what she will do in the future.
It's just that this is what he thinks in his heart, and as for what he really thinks, he is actually not so clear.
"It's not that I don't want to, it's not that I don't want to, I always feel that the time is not right, you also know that she is an orphan, you don't dislike her identity, but do you think my mother will think like this?" At the end of the day, I just don't want to hurt the people I love.
I am reluctant to hurt her, and it is even more impossible for other people to hurt her, and it is too late for me to love her and spoil her, so how can I let her be hurt?
It's not that I don't want to take her home to see my family, but I feel that there is really no need for this, anyway, I have already met my grandfather, if I want to get married, I just need to notify them at that time, as for seeing my parents, I don't think it's really necessary.
Although she is not so close to her mother, she is still quite clear about her character, if she knows that she has found such a girlfriend, she will definitely feel that the other party will not help her, but will drag herself down, and even tell a lot of truth to stop herself.
This is also the reason why so far, I am reluctant to take her out to meet my parents, because I am really too worried that she will hurt her.
I don't think I'm saying that we have to take this into account, in fact, I have considered it, but I'm still a little scared, after all, it's quite risky to do such a thing. I deliberately think about myself, and I don't dare to make a choice easily.
"But I haven't tried it at this time, do you think this will be the result?" He Lao was also very conservative when he said these words.
After all, there are some things that have not been tried yet, so wouldn't it seem a little too early to draw conclusions at this time?
"This kind of thing, you don't have to try it at all, you know my mother, do you think there will be other possibilities?" He may not know his mother, but he can't not understand his grandfather's words.
In other words, it's not that I don't want to try, but I can meet it, and I feel that there is no need to try.
"Hey! Aren't you going to take him to meet his parents? "The grandson has grown up and has his own ideas, and his ideas are not necessarily wrong.
"Didn't you bring her back to see grandpa before? That's enough. In other words, it's okay to meet grandpa, as for my parents, I really don't have such plans.
"Do you think it's really the right thing to do? Don't you feel underconsidered? He Lao knew that his grandson had his own ideas, and sometimes he didn't interfere too much, he just wanted to ask his opinion at this time.
He is old, and many things are not his own decisions, this is their young people's business, young people will watch it, but they feel that this is a bit lacking in consideration, and I don't know if he has thought it through, and all he can do at this time is to help look at it and ask, and what to do here depends on his choice.
"I do have such thoughts, I don't think there is any need to see them, maybe grandpa, you should also know, my current worries, I am afraid that it will backfire." It's not that she doesn't want to, but her mother has always been worried about her, and she has always wanted to marry the right person, and she has been trying to find a way to match her marriage.
If you know that your loved one is just an orphan without any support, and you don't know how to hurt the other party, you can't always be by the other party's side to protect her at all times, and there will always be times when you are negligent.
So I'm really worried that my beloved will be hurt without knowing it.
It's just because of this that I don't feel the need to do such a thing. I have thought about this matter many times, and it is not a decision I made on the spur of the moment.
"Have you thought about it and really decided to do this?" Although he can stand in his position and understand why he is doing this, from the perspective of his elders, it is really wrong for him to do this.
If he really wants to get married, he must see the families of both parties, and he can't help his family not exist, even if there is really a conflict between them, but there should still be politeness, and the greeting should still be called.
"Yes, I really thought about this matter of grandpa, and I thought about the results many times." I didn't always make such a decision impulsively, and I was past the age of impulsiveness.
Everything you do is done after careful consideration and consideration, not that you are impulsive, grandpa should know that he is not the kind of person who loves impulses.
Since I have made such a decision, it means that I have really thought through things and decided to do so.
He Yuhe will not regret what he has done in the future, and he knows what the consequences of doing this will be.
"Grandpa just wants you at this time, since you have already said that you have thought it through, then what else can I say, I just hope that you will do this, I will not regret it, or the two of you can discuss it." If it was just his own idea, it would be impossible to change it, maybe the two of them discussed it, and the other party would ask to see the parents.
He made his own choice, he knew him too well, and if he changed his mind, unless his girlfriend said something to him, it would never change.
Therefore, at this time, I can only propose that the two of them discuss it before deciding, after all, this is a matter between the two of them, and it is appropriate for the two of them to decide together.
"Okay, grandpa, I see, I'll ask her what she thinks if I have a chance." He Yuhe is also a smart person, although he knows the meaning of his grandfather's words and does not say it too bluntly, but he also indirectly guesses what his grandfather also wants to express.
For grandpa many times I still don't want to be disobedient, after all, I also respect grandpa very much, I heard that grandpa and himself said these words at this time, I can still use it as a reference.
"Well, I think you should think about everything, don't be too impulsive, I don't deny that although your mother has done something to make you unhappy, she did it for you." As an elder, it is impossible to say that there is no reason or reason for doing so.
Although it is wrong for her to do this, but after all, she has her own reasons, it is impossible to say that there is no reason, only to do such a thing for no reason, maybe this way is a little wrong, but it can't be changed because she cares about the other party.
This is a matter for the two of them, if the two of them want to get married, they will definitely discuss it, maybe they shouldn't worry too much at this time, their grandson is not the kind of person who is not worth trusting, since he does this, he will definitely have his personal reasons.
"Grandpa, I know this because she is imposing her ideas on me, thinking that what she thinks is good must be good, but she never asked my opinion, and I don't deny it, she didn't do it for me." That is, he does not deny that he is doing all this for himself, and wants to find the right person for himself. The latest chapter of "No First Love, There is a Crush Claw Book House" is free to read for the first time.