(122) Be responsible for your own life

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Zhang Xiaodie stepped forward and whispered to her eldest brother-in-law. "That Tian Fusheng came here just now and wanted to see Sister Yulan, but she didn't want to see him, so she hid in the backyard and cried!"

Zhang Qingting's face sank, "Then why don't you go and persuade you?" ”

"Why didn't you persuade? But I can't persuade this stupid tongue. She said she wanted to stay by herself, and I couldn't! Zhang Xiaodie looked innocent.

This kind of thing, as far as Zhao Chengcai knows, it is not easy to come forward to persuade him. Zhang Qingting thought about it and went over by himself.

Zhao Yulan was sitting alone in the backyard in a daze, and she didn't cry anymore, but her eyes were still red, and there were still tears on her face. Seeing Zhang Qingting coming, he hurriedly got up and greeted, "Sister-in-law is back?" ”

"yes!" Zhang Qingting stepped forward and took her hand, it was as cold as he imagined, and said angrily, "This is just a little bit, how can you withstand such a freezing method?" Let's go, come and sit in my room! ”

In the house, Zhao Chengcai brought in the brazier that had just been born and went out very interestingly. "I'll go to the kitchen to help cook!"

The ear room is very small, and after a while, the whole room warms up, disintegrating the frost on the outer layer, and making people's mood unconsciously melt.

Zhang Qingting asked with a smile, "Are you still used to being crowded here in the past two days?" We're too small here, so we have to wronged you to squeeze them first. ”

"It's already good!" Zhao Yulan hurriedly argued, "It's true that it's really troublesome for Fluttershy and Aunt Zhang, and I should be embarrassed to make them squeeze into a bed!" ”

Zhang Qingting smiled, "You, you are just too considerate of others, and it is too easy to be satisfied." Is that okay? In my opinion, it's not good at all! In such a small place with a big palm, you can't turn around, and it's okay to squeeze for a while, who can stand it for a long time? ”

She enlightened Zhao Yulan in a serious tone, "This person should know how to be at ease with what happens, but he can't go with the flow too much!" There are some things that you should strive for, and you still have to fight for. ”

Zhao Yulan understood, but her eyes became even more gloomy, and her voice was like a gnat, "I'm like this, what else to fight for?" As long as you are willing to take me in, sister-in-law, it will be good to be able to live at home for the rest of my life. ”

"What nonsense?" Zhang Qingting's face was small, "Which sister-in-law have you ever seen who has been here with her sister-in-law for a lifetime?" ”

Zhao Yulan raised her head sharply. A look of panic, "Sister-in-law, you ......"

Zhang Qingting smiled again, "I'm not trying to drive you away!" But I can't watch you stretch a bitter gourd face all day long like a teacher in front of me, so I might as well send you to a nunnery! ”

Zhao Yulan's whole body trembled slightly, and she said in a low voice, "I actually...... Actually, I ......"

"Don't tell me you really want to go!" Zhang Qingting interrupted her, "Yulan, how old are you, just thinking about cutting your hair to become a nun?" A lifetime of chanting sutras and reciting Buddha in a place where there is no light of day, is that the life of a human being? If you really see through the red dust and your heart is like stagnant water, why don't you even dare to see Tian Fusheng? ”

Zhao Yulan told the central matter, and wept again.

Zhang Qingting handed her a handkerchief, "Look, tell me right, right?" I still remember people in my heart, why don't I admit it? ”

Zhao Yulan leaned on her shoulder and cried silently, "But...... But I ...... That's all for ......"

Zhang Qingting straightened her and looked at her, "What's wrong with you?" You're just marrying the wrong person, and you're not missing arms and legs, and you're not looking for anyone! Be. For a woman, marrying the wrong person is really miserable. It's only been a month, but you're not the little girl you used to be. But aren't you back now? Don't blame the sister-in-law for saying a foul word, as long as Tian Fusheng doesn't dislike it, it's not impossible for the two of you! Even if you can't get along with him, you can pursue your own happiness in the future. Why should you wronged yourself, you have to live such a bleak life like a little pitiful? ”

Zhao Yulan shook her head vigorously, "That...... How's that going to work? ”

"Why not?" Zhang Qingting asked rhetorically, "Could it be that you actually like that surnamed Sun and want to go back?" ”

"How is that possible?" Zhao Yulan only had hatred in her eyes, "If you kill me, you won't go back!" ”

"That's it! Since you don't want to go back, why do you want to be a widow for the rest of your life for that person surnamed Sun? Let him have a chance to show off proudly, even if this Zhao Yulan leaves me, she has only been my woman! ”

Zhao Yulan was surprised to hear this, she had never heard this truth before.

Zhang Qingting said angrily, "Don't believe those nonsense that follow three virtues and four virtues, and end up from one!" It was all men who wrote those books, and of course they thought of ways to ask women to listen to them. Why else can a man have three wives and four concubines? Does a woman have to hang herself from a tree? ”

That one...... Zhao Yulan couldn't answer, it seemed that what her sister-in-law said was quite reasonable.

Zhang Qingting said, "If you meet a husband who treats you wholeheartedly, even if you are only a one-night husband and wife, it is worth it if you are willing to guard him for the rest of your life." But is Sun Junliang worth it? Of course it's not worth it! You're away from home, and he doesn't know where to have fun! Will he worry about whether you have eaten or not, whether you are warmly dressed? Of course not! Since he is away from you, and he is still the same merry and happy, why do you have to be sad and unhappy? Doesn't this make the relatives painful and the enemies happy? ”

Zhao Yulan seemed to understand a little, but she didn't quite understand, "But...... The woman remarried. Yes...... You'll be looked down upon! ”

Zhang Qingting sneered, "Who will look down on you? It's you who despise yourself! As long as you are happy, don't care about outsiders! Are you living for others to see? Then you really don't have to be a person, just stick it on the wall and make a New Year's painting! ”

Zhao Yulan laughed amusedly.

Zhang Qingting stroked her hair, "Yulan, do you know that you married the surname Sun by mistake." It's not just you who are sad, but your brother, me, and Fluttershy are all sad. Especially your father, I don't know how distressed! Why hasn't your mother come to see you even though you've been back for a few days? She must feel sorry for you, she didn't have the face to see you! Only when you are truly happy in the future will we be reassured. This is not to force you to marry anyone, you are at home for the rest of your life, and your brother will definitely support you. Is it just like you, happy? ”

Zhao Yulan was thoughtful, Zhang Qingting lit a small flame in her heart, it was something she was very much looking forward to and never dared to really boldly pursue. Can I really do it?

Zhang Qingting hesitated for a moment, but still said, "Yulan, there are some things I must say, don't be uncomfortable to hear." ”

"Sister-in-law, you say!"

"Although your mother caused you to marry the surname Sun, you also have to bear a little responsibility. You know that what you like is Tian Fusheng. Why do you want to marry your mother wherever she wants? If you had had the courage to commit suicide by throwing yourself into the river, it might have been a different story altogether. Your good temperament is good because of the word supple, but the bad is also bad because you are too supple. If you are too submissive, you will be cowardly. ”

"Yulan, you have already missed your first happiness, do you want to miss a second time? The past has happened, and there is no regret in this world for selling medicine. We can only look to the future and take the road ahead. You're still young, and you're still going to have a long life! No matter how anxious your brother and sister-in-law are, they can't live for you. You are still responsible for your own life. What kind of life you want to live in the future. You've got to come up with your own ideas, and we'll help you get it! Think for yourself, but don't be at the mercy of others. If you say that you were wrong once before, it is forgivable, if you are wrong again, it is really a catastrophe! ”

Zhao Yulan chewed Zhang Qingting repeatedly, it seemed to weigh a thousand catties, bitter, and astringent, but it was also thought-provoking.

Early the next morning, Yan Bowen came to Juewei Zhai, Fang Mingzhu was idle at home, and he also came to study, and went to Yamen with Zhao Chengcai and Zhang Qingting.

Zhao Chengcai sent them to the health steward to discuss the re-planning of the house, and went to Lord Lou to handle the contract. In the evening, he took the time to go back, and Zhao Chengdong had already woken up, but the pain was unbearable, and he couldn't stop screaming in pain.

Zhao Chengcai reprimanded his younger brother for deserving it, and deliberately said to the family, "Chengdong, look at you for such a big disaster, how good your sister-in-law is to you!" Do you think she punished you the day she asked you to kneel yesterday? That's helping you! Help you clear your name in our Zalanburg, and let everyone see that although you Zhao Chengdong has done something wrong, you are still a man, and you can change your mistakes! Do you know why she asked Jinbao to slap you in the face later? That's for Old Man Fang to see, so that people can show mercy! Don't know what to do, and live up to her good intentions! ”

Zhao Chengdong suddenly realized, and he was even more ashamed in his heart.

Zhao Chengcai handed over the wontons he took from home over there, "These are the ones that the lady taught us to pack, mother, you are not feeling well these days, just eat this, it is convenient and trouble-free." Dad, you can also help with the snacks, don't count on your mother for everything, can she take care of it alone! ”

When Zhao Laoshi said this, he also lowered his head.

Seeing that his eldest son was still taking care of himself, Zhao Wang's heart was even more sour, so he lifted the corner of his clothes and wiped his tears and asked, "Magnolia...... She...... Is she okay? ”

Zhao Chengcai nodded, "Much better." There's a lot of people over there. You can take care of her, and you can take care of your brother here. However, mother, there is something I have to tell you ahead. If the sister-in-law breaks off the relationship with the Sun family, she will remarry in the future, you can't interfere anymore! Let the girl make her own decision, don't mention what kind of reputation and face, it's all false! Boring! As long as the girl herself is happy and she is happy, what do we have to say? ”

Zhao Wangshi choked and nodded, "That is the finished material...... Your sister will be handed over to you! You tell her...... Say...... Mother can't help her! She cried heartbreakingly, and she was really self-blaming and sad.

Zhao Chengcai sighed, nodded in response, and went back.

Within a few days, the design sample of the new alley was finalized, and the rest was a matter of money.

(PS: Thank you so much for your support!) Xiao Qingting climbed up one place again, 25 years old! One step closer to the goal, keep helping! )

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