Chapter 321: Worry About Your Feelings
Chapter 321: Worry About Your Feelings
"Well, since you've already said that, and you have some doubts in your heart, if I tried to deceive you, you wouldn't believe it." He should be mentally prepared like this, if he is really ready, then tell him directly, after all, this matter cannot be hidden from her for a lifetime, one day his memory is restored, and he will still remember it.
That day will come sooner or later, and I know it, but I didn't think that this day would come so early, and it didn't take long for him to return home to let him hear such news.
I was worried, after all, he had lived here for so many years, there should be many people who knew him, and some people would know about him, so I also knew that sooner or later there would be a day.
As a result, that day still came early, and he couldn't hide this matter if he wanted to, as long as he investigated casually, he would know, and there was no need for him to waste this manpower and material resources.
Some things are destined to be hidden, they tried their best to hide everything at the beginning, in fact, they should have considered that one day, he will recover his memory, or he will meet acquaintances and know some things in the past.
At that time, he felt that it was impossible to hide such a thing from him for too long, and sooner or later he would know about it, but he didn't expect this day to come so early, so he was a little caught off guard.
You still have to tell him, after all, I never wanted to hide something. These things happened to him, and he has a right to know.
It's not that he doesn't want to tell him, but I'm a little worried about myself, telling him in the future, whether he can withstand such a blow and whether he can accept such a fact, after all, this matter involves his biological parents.
He Lao thought about it for a while, and then said softly, "It's okay if you want me to tell you, but before that, I hope you can be mentally prepared, this matter involves your parents." "I should first tell him that the matter is related to his parents, let him make a decision, and by the way, let her be mentally prepared.
After He Yuhe listened, his eyes widened, and he even couldn't believe it, but he quickly calmed down.
looked at grandpa and said softly, "Grandpa, you say, no matter how big the blow is, I can withstand it." "I guessed that these things were related to my family, so at this time, I didn't have anything to prepare for.
I had such a premonition in my heart, I felt that it was related to my family, and I was mentally prepared before I came over.
"You should have a guess in your heart, maybe your guess is right, the car accident at the beginning was indeed not as serious as imagined, not that it is not good to be treated in China, it is your parents who are worried about you, so they made up such a lie, thinking that your injuries are particularly serious, and you have to be sent to the United States for treatment, the purpose is not to want you to continue to stay in this city, and do not want you to continue to see her." Paper can't contain fire after all, the truth will be known sooner or later, and today is that day?
Perhaps, no one thought that day would come so early, and thought that they would be able to hide it for a while longer.
"In other words, my condition was not so serious at the beginning, so I was not allowed to see her, so I was sent to the United States in a hurry." He Yuhe couldn't believe it, it turned out that all this was true, and what he imagined was also true.
"Well, because at that time, your parents knew the identity of that girl, and after knowing that he was an orphan, they were particularly opposed, and you also know that in the face of such a thing, I can't stop it at all." At this moment, when He Lao said this, he also felt particularly helpless, because he didn't think about stopping, but he couldn't stop it at all.
After all, the other party is their own son and daughter-in-law, they all said this, saying everything for the good of their grandson, in this case, everything they say is particularly pale and powerless.
"They didn't know before that my girlfriend's identity was because they knew it after the car accident, and the other party was an orphan, and they were afraid that it would affect me, so they took me away in such a hurry, but did they think about it, what do I think?" He Yuhe really couldn't imagine that his parents would do such a thing without telling him, even if the other party was an orphan, so what.
I never thought of disliking the other party, after all, I was dating her at that time, how could I not know the identity of the other party, in that case, I never disliked it, my parents, why should I make the decision for myself, and after my car accident, I hurriedly took myself out of the country.
It's no wonder that Ren Xiaoou would tell himself like this that after a car accident, the other party never appeared again. Because I was not in the country at that time, I was already brought to the United States by my family at that time, and I lost part of my memory, and I couldn't remember anything, so I didn't show up in such a situation.
In the hospital, she should have been waiting for her to appear, but she waited from hope to disappointment, and she didn't show up until she was discharged. It's no wonder that she also chooses to forget all this, who can blame her for all this?
"Maybe they're worried about your future, so they did it, it's not that they can't understand it." At this time, He Lao still tried his best to speak for his son and daughter-in-law, and he didn't want to have any suspicions between their father and son.
No matter how big the matter is, everyone is a family, and I still hope that we can get along peacefully and this matter can be resolved peacefully.
I don't want my family to be like the Ye family, they don't have any feelings for each other, and they don't like each other. This kind of result is not what I want to see, so at this time, I can only be a peacemaker and try to persuade as much as possible.
"For the sake of my future, but have they asked my opinion, it's just that they are wishful thinking, wishful thinking!" I didn't ask myself half a sentence from beginning to end, but at this time I told myself that it was all for myself.
At this time, He Yuhe was a little suspicious, he really didn't know what his parents thought, he didn't ask himself anything, he just said that he would be good with himself, but they didn't know what they wanted?
They just impose their own ideas on themselves, and they don't even ask if this is their own will, whether it is what they want to pursue, but they just think it is good for themselves.
Wouldn't this idea be too much, they had asked their opinions before, maybe they weren't so angry, but at this moment, they knew this, because they disliked each other's identity, not because the other party's character was bad in all aspects. The more I think about this, the more angry I feel, this is my parents, and it's no wonder that I can't get along with them all these years.
Because they only think about themselves, they have never considered themselves from their own point of view, and they have never asked if they need this. What they think is right, not necessarily what they think is right, what kind of girl they like, it is simply because they like her as a person, not because they like her net worth background.
My parents think like this, do they want to find a girl who is the right person and has interests in the family to marry? But I never thought about whether I liked each other or not.
I know that what I hate the most is family marriage, and I never thought about wronging my marriage and marrying a woman I don't love.
For yourself, what kind of future you want, you can rely on your own efforts, you don't need to rely on others, and you don't need any business marriage.
"That's why they took you out of the United States, and they didn't want you to stay here, maybe they wanted you to forget that girl!" He Lao knew about this matter at the beginning, but he didn't object at that time, and maybe he felt that what you said was not completely unreasonable at that time.
"That's just their wishful thinking, it's not my idea at all, I'm going to marry a woman I like, not a woman who can bring me business benefits, do you think I will be happy if I lose my happiness for a lifetime and marry a woman I don't love?" He Yuhe really doesn't know what they think, imposing their own ideas on others, sacrificing their own happiness, is this what they want to see?
Why can't you think more about yourself from your own point of view, what kind of marriage you want, what kind of woman you want to live your life, don't you even have the right to choose, what era is it now, do you still have to have an arranged marriage with your parents?
Even if they do have such thoughts, at least ask themselves what they think, not that they can do what they want, that they are not their puppets, nor are they dolls. It's not that they can fiddle with it as much as they want, after all, they have thoughts, they have their own ideas.
At this time, I realized that they had not respected their own ideas at all and ignored their own ideas.
For example, the current Ye family is also a big family, but doesn't Ye Lao also regret it?
What he wants is not the strength of the family, but the fact that the family can help each other and get along well as the family, but now, I don't know how much I regret after knowing so many insiders. If you knew it earlier, you shouldn't have done it, you should have worked hard for your career and didn't care about your family, if you had known it earlier, you should have put more energy into your family, maybe you wouldn't have been so deceitful as you are today, and you wouldn't have seen such a scene.
I know this clearly, do I still have to repeat the mistakes of the past, and I still want to see such a scene, and I hope that my future children and grandchildren will be like this?
I had imagined it in my heart before, but after hearing the truth of the matter, I still felt so bloody, knowing that my parents didn't understand me at all, and just imposed their ideas on myself.
(End of chapter)