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Looking at Zhang Qingting, Zhao Chengcai's little two had an awkward quarrel, and the queen covered her mouth and chuckled, "Then according to Zhang's words, how will you be?" ”

Zhang Qingting had already made up his mind in his heart, and said unhurriedly, "Back to Niangniang, although the women don't understand any big truths, they also know that good and filial piety come first. Mother-in-law is a person who gives birth to a father-in-law, and raises it with hard work, and the beast still knows how to kneel and breastfeed, as a person, how can you not know to respect the elderly? Therefore, no matter why my mother-in-law dislikes me, but in order to keep her old man from being angry, even if the husband wants to reconcile with me, I have no complaints. ”

The queen and the others listened slightly, and from these words, they could hear that Zhang Qingting was not an unreasonable person, and the conflict between her and her mother-in-law was not all her responsibility.

Princess Yuzhen couldn't help but interject when she heard this, "But if all the daughters-in-law want to reconcile because their mother-in-law doesn't like it, then the daughter-in-law is pitiful, and the mother-in-law is also a little domineering."

The concubine smiled and glanced at her, "Silly child, it is difficult for this Qing official to judge family affairs, especially many things in the family, and he can't simply make a conclusion based on one-sided words, let alone judge by which one is strong or weaker." ”

Listening to her words, there was obviously a meaning to protect her mother-in-law, and the queen couldn't help but be a little displeased. died early, and these old concubines are not their serious mothers-in-law, but they are all their own mothers-in-law. On weekdays, she doesn't bother her a lot, so she empathizes, she is quite sympathetic to Zhang Qingting.

But the mother of Yuzhen is shrewd, what she said before was just a citation, and the latter is right, "But then again, there are some bad things about the atmosphere in this world." It is right to talk about filial piety, but only the orders of parents are to be followed, but it needs to be discussed. A confrontation is disobedience and unfilial piety, if the parents' hearts are a little heavier, they will clamore for divorce or divorce. In fact, when you enter a family, you are all a family, so what can't you get along with each other? If you ask yourself, which mother-in-law did not survive from being a daughter-in-law, and which daughter-in-law will not have a day as a mother-in-law? Compare hearts to hearts, so why bother each other? ”

Everyone nodded yes when they said this, but Princess Yuzhen sighed to herself, "Although the truth of the mother concubine is good, how can there be so many people in the world who can understand each other?" If it could, it wouldn't have given birth to so many men and women. As far as Sister Zhang is concerned, even if she remarries Zhao Hanlin, if her mother-in-law is unhappy, she will make a fuss about divorcing her one day, but how can she be born? ”

Zhang Qingting took the opportunity to speak, "Isn't that the case? Although the women also want to start from the beginning, they are really afraid that their mother-in-law will continue to provoke thorns, and they really dare not easily step into the door of their mother-in-law's house unless the mother can make a decree, so that these in-laws cannot just divorce their daughter-in-law in the future. Even if you want to take a break, you have to have a valid reason. Not only the two elders have the final say, but also the clan, the parents of both sides, and ourselves have to agree. It's the best, and then invite the folks to comment on the theory, which is right and wrong. Otherwise, the world will only say how bad the abandoned daughter-in-law is, but who can understand the grievances of the daughter-in-law? ”

Zhao Chengcai finally understood when he heard this outside. It turns out that what the daughter-in-law is asking for is not only for herself, but also for a small justice for all the wives in the world.

I can't help but feel some emotion in my heart, but more pity is it. As a woman, it is not easy in this world, and there are people who criticize any of the four virtues if they don't do well. If the in-laws are reasonable, it's okay. If you meet a strong in-law, such as Zhao Wang's, it is indeed a bit difficult.

It's no wonder that she refused to accept to wear a wedding dress again, and hurriedly lowered her body to help outside, "Weichen also thinks that this mother's words are very reasonable, and please listen to Weichen's words."

The minister is the eldest in the family, and the minister's wife is also the eldest daughter, and the two families have always been poor and cold. The minister is also a scholar, except for preaching and teaching in the countryside and enlightening children, he has nothing else to do. The parents of both sides are too old to work, and the younger siblings are young and ignorant and do not argue between good and bad. Both parents are served by their mothers, and their younger siblings also rely on their mother's careful teaching. Although the mother was born with a stronger personality than ordinary people, she is fair-hearted, and she is no different from her own biological father and mother when she serves her in-laws, and treats her uncles and aunts even better than her biological brothers and sisters. There is no difference in filial piety to Weichen, who is more considerate and considerate, and spares no effort for me to study and persuade me to improve.

Our whole family, all the neighbors praised her. In fact, my mother doesn't have a big opinion about my mother, but I see that she is often on the move, and she can't be filial day and night, so it is inevitable that she will feel disgusted. The matter of harmony and separation is also angry, and it is not the original intention to think about it. It's just that as soon as the words come out, it is like a flood that is difficult to collect, and the elderly are still good noodles, so it causes the pain of separation of flesh and bones.

And for Weichen, but because of his mother's life, he had to go otherwise, Weichen and his mother were originally in deep love, very affectionate, and categorically refused to part. Now that the wood has been completed, there is no regret. Weichen is only willing to reconnect with his mother, so as to live up to the white-headed alliance of the day. The mother is related because of the change in her heart, and the minister understands it very well. But as my mother said, if my mother picks things up again one day, wouldn't it be another sadness?

If Niangniang can descend this grace and make the separation of husband and wife in the world more standardized, and cannot just rely on the fate of parents to follow it hastily, then it is not only the great fortune of the ministers, but also the welfare of all the people in the world.

After hearing his words, the queen couldn't help but be moved.

The foundation of the country is the surname. If the surname returns, it is thousands of households. Only when the family is in harmony and tranquility can the country be prosperous and strong. Her reward for Zhao Chengcai and his wife is small, and there will only be such a couple in mind. But if she can promote the establishment of a legal system, it will benefit all the people and live on to the world

This is not difficult to do, and it is not a violation of filial piety.

It's just that when the husband and wife are clamoring to separate, there is an extra formality. You can let the local government come forward to coordinate once to see what the situation is, as long as it is not a violation of the seven rules, but there are occasional disputes, then the people of the government can know the great righteousness, and the big things are small, and the small things are not excessive. Originally, this kind of educating the people was also one of the important tasks of all dynasties.

However, if this matter is to be done, it is not up to her to have the final say, and it has to be approved by Emperor Chrysostom. There are also some details of how to operate, such as how to prevent officials from expropriating and extorting money in it, and even for the sake of personal gain, so that those who really want to be divided cannot be divided, and those who do not want to be divided have to be divided.

The queen wanted to do a good job in this matter, but she didn't want to be left with a stench for 10,000 years, and after thinking for a while, she said, "This matter is very important, and the mourning family has to think about it." But now that everything is over, you can spend a few more days in the capital, and it's not too late to go back to your hometown."

Listening to her meaning, it seems that she wants them to stay a few more days, as a result. However, Zhang Qingting did have some things to do, and he had to prepare, so he kowtowed to Zhao Chengcai at the moment and thanked him, and then retreated.

As soon as Zhao Chengcai came out of the palace gate, the whole person came alive, and said with a smile, "Mother, my emperor has rewarded you with a lot of money, and I will send it to you in a while, and you will buy it together with what you like, but don't save money for me, if you want to marry in Beijing, let's go home and get married."

Zhang Qingting glanced at him, "Do you think I am rare of your things?" Also, did I say I want to marry you? Don't be sentimental."

"Oh yes, mother" Zhao Chengcai pulled her sleeve and played a scoundrel, "You don't rare me, I don't rare you, you look at me when I was born and died, it was not easy to escape, why don't you feel distressed?" ”

"I still feel sorry for you? What do you think of you as you are born and die? Zhang Qingting glanced at him with a red face, but his eyes were red, and he turned his face away angrily, "Who told you to have the ability to even dare to block a knife, and dare to hand over the form above the Golden Palace, what is the point of being born and dying?" According to me, you can still go up the knife mountain and go down to the oil pot."

She spoke strongly, but her shoulders trembled slightly unconsciously, and even her voice was unsteady.

Seeing that she was really angry, Zhao Chengcai immediately became honest, lowered his head and admitted his mistake, "Mother, I know it's me who is not good, and I worry you." ”

"What heart do I have?" Zhang Qingting didn't want to make himself look weak, so he turned his head sharply and pushed him back. I was about to scold a few more words, but when I saw Zhao Chengcai, I began to stroke my chest and exhale pain, and I breathed in cold air. I thought that the injury had not fully healed, and it was only then that he touched his sore spot.

Zhang Qingting couldn't help but start feeling distressed again, "How are you?" ”

Zhao Chengcai immediately pulled her hand, his face full of sincerity, "Mother, I know it's my fault, but there are some things we can't stop doing because we know there will be danger." You have done something and you don't do anything, I have read books for so many years, do you want your husband to be a shrunken turtle who is greedy for life and afraid of death, and only knows how to protect himself in order to be stable? ”

Zhang Qingting didn't look at him, ** replied, "I'm not a gentleman, I haven't read so many books from you, I don't understand your big truths"

"No, you understand" Zhao Chengcai pulled her other hand up and clasped it in front of her chest, "Otherwise, you wouldn't risk your life to sue the royal court." ”

He smiled, "I'm so proud, how brave and smart is my mother?" I, Zhao Chengcai, am a mortal, how fortunate am I to be able to marry you? ”

Zhang Qingting didn't answer, a thousand words choked in his heart, but he couldn't say a word. Obviously, she had to scold him, or even beat him, to eliminate the hatred in her heart. Can it be ...... At this moment, I wanted to throw myself into his arms and cry loudly.

Over the past few days, countless fears, countless sleepless nights, countless strong self-calm, countless pretending to be strong, all for him

If you want to let him go so cheaply, Zhang Qingting will be categorical - no

Title: "Immortal Marriage" Author: Yingshu Number: 1920518

One sentence introduction: Marriage is a pit, and you need to be cautious when jumping into a pit