The wedding is scheduled for May this year.

To be honest, I'm married for the second time and don't want to be so popular. And I don't have any guests here who can be there. In the past so many years, although I can't forgive Jin Minghai, I don't hate it anymore.

There are some things that I choose to let go of because I want to let go of myself.

I don't want to be a hateful mother, and my extreme attitude will affect Qiqi's physical and mental health. It can be said that it was Qiqi who nourished my heart, made me willingly let go of those heavy pasts, and gained a kind of inner peace.

I once asked Qiqi, "What do you think you and Mommy are the same as Zhai U."

Cle has been a family since then, okay? ”

"Zhai U

Cle is my dad, right? He asked me.

I was taken aback, "Why do you ask that?" ”

"I heard it." Qi Qi touched the turtle in his hand, "It's the time I came back when I bought 'Round and Round', and I heard you and Zhai U."

Cle said, you said you were going to give him back. ”

Oh, my God! He was only four years old at the time, and he was able to remember it so clearly. And...... I was amazed and asked him, "What about ......you?" Why did you never ask me about your dad...... About you Zhai U

Cle's business? ”

"I know he's my daddy, you're my mommy, that's it." He said. "But Mommy, I don't want to affect your judgment because of my relationship."

"What do we judge?" I was surprised.

"I don't want you to be together again because of me." Qiqi looked at me very seriously, "Mommy, you are the most important person in this world for me. I hope you can find your happiness, not because of me, because of Zhai U

Clee is my biological daddy, and you choose to be with him. ”

I was stunned.

"Mommy, why are you looking at me like that?" He asked.

"Qiqi, you really look like a little adult." I say.

"It's not that you told me that after the age of three, you will be a man, and you should be calm and rational when thinking about things." Qi Qi said, "Mommy, you must think clearly, why do you want to be with Zhai U."

Cles together? If it weren't for the sake of happiness, but merely for the sacrifice and fulfillment of me, I would rather you be happy. ”

Sometimes you really can't underestimate children. Suddenly, I was so moved that I was so moved that I couldn't help but say such a mature point of view, and every word was based on my love for you: "Don't worry, it won't." Do so, to you Zhai U

Cle is also not fair. ”

When I was younger, I made a promise with the rosary to be bridesmaids.

Now think about it, the real paradox. If one party gets married first, how can they still be bridesmaids for the other party?

At that time, I didn't think about it so much, I just felt that the other party was my best close friend, and the future happy moment must be witnessed by the other party to be complete.

It's a pity that neither of us can witness each other's happy moments.

The rosary was married last year, and the other party's name is Ado

IS, also from Washington State, traveled to Seattle from his birthplace of Olympia for work, where he met a rosary in a café. Or rather, "reunion" is more appropriate.

As early as many years ago, the fate of the two people was buried at the World Expo, and the double-sided embroidered keychain that the rosary was lost was Ado

is picked up, and he likes to hang it on his backpack all the time. The bag was changed many times, but the keychain was always there, until the original owner of the keychain appeared in front of him, smiled and said, "Hey, this thing on your bag is mine." It was given to a very important friend of mine, it is very memorable, can you give it back to me? ”

"No, it's mine. It followed me for years. ”

"Where did you get this?" The rosary asked him.

Ado

was about to leave with his coffee, but the rosary said, "You picked it up, right?" Ten years ago, in China. ”

Ado

is turned around and blinked, "How do you know?" ”

"I told you everything, it's mine." The rosary said, "My name is embroidered on it." ”

"Where?" Ado

Is asked, pulling the keychain from his bag.

"Here." The rosary switched to Chinese, "Zhu - Chinese characters, that's me." ”

"Don't think I don't know Chinese characters." Ado

"Ten years ago, I was an international student in China, majoring in Chinese. ”

"Oh, really?" "It's a pity that you only learned Chinese, not Chinese history and art." ”

"What do you mean?" Ado

is。

"The word 'bead' was embroidered in a small seal font." The rosary said, "Xiao Seal is the official font after the 'Shu Tongwen' of the Qin Dynasty in China, according to which it has been more than 2,000 years. And this double-sided embroidery is Suzhou embroidery, one of the four famous embroideries in China. The reason why it's embroidered with a monkey is because I'm a monkey – oh, the zodiac belongs to another category of culture. Hey, why are you looking at me like that? ”

"Since it's yours, then I'll give it back to you." Ado

"But I hope you can come out and talk to me about Chinese culture when you have time." ”

The two of them are so good.

The rosary said to me, "The grass snake gray line travels thousands of miles." Torrential rain, I didn't expect the keychain you gave me to lead me to such a fate......"

"If you want to thank yourself, thank yourself." I said, "Why did you want to immigrate to Seattle and not any other city in the first place?" ”

"Because my aunt's family is also in this city," said the rosary, "so when I was a kid, when I watched movies, I thought Seattle was a very friendly city, but whenever there was a postcard about Seattle, I would buy it." ”

"And ...... I took her words, "another postcard with Big Ben on it was found in the cat's empty hand, and sent me to London." ”

Nianzhu also smiled on the phone, I hadn't seen her smile so happily for many years, she said, "It's not just you, I also sent Zhai Yi over." But instead of a magic postcard of 'Cat Kong', it's a sentence. ”

"Which one?"

"I'm not telling you." Rosary smiled, "When Qiqi turns 18, I'll go to H City to tell you in person." ”

It was another 10-year covenant in the distance, but I paused and said yes, "Okay." ”

We didn't get each other's bridesmaids, but we were each other's matchmakers. This method of witnessing happiness also seems to be good.

When I was choosing wedding room supplies, I met Zhang Xiaomad in the mall. She has long hair, and she is still full of aura when she looks forward to it. This is truly valuable. She jumped up the next second she recognized me, "Torrential rain!" ”

"Little madness!" I'm also very excited.

"I've changed my name now, and my name is Zhang Hatqiu."

"Ah, which hate."

"The hatred of hatred, the hatred of Zhang hating water."

"Why did you change your name like that?" I asked.

Zhang Xiaomad, oh, Zhang Hatqiu's eyes rolled, "Then tell me first, why did you come here to see the bedding?" Is it ......?"

"Yes, I'm getting married." I say.

"With whom?" She excited.

"It just so happens that you know each other, too." I said, "Zhai Yi." ”

"Oh my God! You've really come together! She said, "I heard that he didn't change girlfriends a lot, and it didn't take long for him to break up, and it was said that it was because he was busy with work, but there were always girls who were attracted to talk to him by his 'workaholic' appearance......" She glanced at me and coughed, "But that's all in the past." Zhai Yi should still have nothing to say to you. ”

"Heard? Who do you listen to? ”

"That's it......" Zhang Xiaomad changed the subject, "By the way, when will your wedding be held?" ”

"May." I said, and then asked her, "Are you also settled in H City now?" Are you free to come to my wedding? ”

"What, you want to invite me to be a bridesmaid?" She smiled, "The bridesmaids don't have to give gifts and red envelopes, hehe." ”

"You still ......" I swallowed the second half of the sentence, I have been away for many years, it is too rude to ask like this, not to mention that there are many unmarried women in H City, who are still thirty years old, and they have not found one that can walk hand in hand, so it is normal to go alone for the time being. But what about Luo Wanghuai? What is his situation now? I saw Luo Wanghuai on the list of classmates that Zhai Yi wanted to invite. If Zhang Xiaomad is invited to my wedding, then they will meet again.

I said, "As long as you're willing to come, I'm grateful." You know, I don't really have any family to be there. ”

Zhang Xiaomad smiled warmly at me, "If you don't dislike it, I'll be this bridesmaid for you!" ”

"Good. That's it. ”

"Remember to throw me the bouquet when the time comes."

"Well, definitely! Certain! ”

"By the way, who's the best man?" She asked me.

"It's called Yang Wendong. is Zhai Yi's classmate. I said.

"I don't need to be introduced, I know who this person is." Zhang Xiao said madly, "Did this person also have a crush on you?" When he secretly put love letters and bracelets in your pencil case, he thought I was asleep on the table, but I actually saw something. ”

I gasped, "There are really a lot of secrets that you spied on back then. But he was just a messenger at the time......"

"It's Zhai Yi again, isn't it?" The smile on the corner of Zhang Xiaomad's mouth flew, "Sure enough, as who said, the sullen belly is black......"

I couldn't help but say, "Who's that?" ”

Zhang Xiaomad began to be vague again, and I said, "I should get that person to be the best man." ”

"Don't!" Zhang Xiao said madly, "If you want to get me like this, I won't go!" ”

"Oh." I said, "I'm kidding." ”

"You have also learned to 'wilt' with Zhai Yi now."

Wilted? I smiled and said, "You're talking in a good tone right now." ”

"Of course." She said, "I work in Beijing all year round. ”

"What?" I was taken aback.

"I'm going back to H City this time to see my sister, and I'm not in the mall to show my little nephew a gift."

This was very unexpected. When I got home in the evening, I asked Zhai Yi, "Has Luo Wanghuai been in Shanghai all these years?" ”

"Yes. Why do you suddenly ask about this? He said while tutoring Qiqi with homework.

"And he...... Still single? I asked.

"Why do you want to introduce him to someone?" Zhai Yi asked with a smile, and then replied to me, "Single." Just left two years ago. ”

"Huh?" I stammered, "He, he's married?" ”

Zhai Yi glanced at me, "Why have you been inquiring about him today?" ”

"Today I met Zhang Xiao crazy in the mall."

"Oh. What's wrong? ”

"I invited her to be my bridesmaid."

"Do you want to draw the red line for her and Yang Wendong?" Zhai Yi ran a little off the rails today.

"You're just messing with mandarin ducks." I said, "She and Luo Wanghuai...... It's possible with Luo Wanghuai, right? ”

"Torrential rain, you're the one who plays the piano." He glanced at Qi Qi, who was pricking up his ears, and got up and walked over to me, "Luo Wanghuai is her cousin." ”

"Luo Wanghuai is her sister's cousin, that's all." I say.

"Is her sister her own sister?" He asked.

"Yes." I remember Zhang Xiaomad told me that they were half-sisters, Zhang's father was married to Zhang Xiaomad's mother a few years after being widowed, and the Zhang sisters had a good relationship since childhood. "However, Luo Wanghuai and Zhang Xiaomad are not related by blood."

"But if they are together, many people in the family will not be able to accept it." Zhai Yi said, "For example, the children of the eldest sister of the Zhang family, what should they be called?" ”

"This ......," I froze.

"It's called a man's U

cle, called female U

ti。 Qi Qi said.

"Qiqi!" I exclaimed, "Concentrate on your homework!" ”

He pursed his lips and turned his head back.

I suddenly realized that Qiqi was right, in the West, the male elders in the family are called "U."

cle", and the female elders are called "Au."

t”。

"With the foreigner's set, things are much simpler." I say.

"The Chinese are ethical." Zhai Yi said softly, "It's too difficult for the two of them to get together. ”

"Yes, life is not an idol drama." I actually agree with him in my heart. Fang Cai is purely emotional, not Chongyang.

In fact, in life, many things are above feelings. Responsibility, morality, morality, no matter how much you pursue wanton love, you can't ignore them. Otherwise, everything will be out of order.